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LifeFuel How I Cope with Being an Incel

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Family, Friends, Hobbies, Food, Travel.

These 5 things. Don't laugh. They are major life fuel. I would have roped a long time ago without them.

Examples:

I'm going to meet up with 2 incel/MGTOW friends in Vegas in July. We're going to explore the town and then pig out at one of the largest all-you-can-eat buffets.
After a couple of days in Vegas, me and one of these friends are driving to the Grand Canyon and staying 2 nights. It's going to be awesome:
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Then, in October, I'm heading to China, Malaysia and Singapore for 17 days. Going to meet my favorite YouTuber, "Archieluxury" there (an escortcel, who bounces between Australia and Asia). This guy really cheers me up when I'm feeling down (which is often):


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Right now, while I'm posting this, I'm savoring some Belgian chocolates and chasing them down with a glass of Dominican rum. I'm getting an orgasm doing this. There's literally nothing else I'd rather be doing at this moment (seriously).

Tomorrow, I'm going to have lunch and a few beers with my brother. Then, later on in the day, I'll probably play videos games, or maybe start a new oil painting (I have an idea for an epic masterpiece that's been marinating in my mind for months).
I'll end the weekend by chatting on the phone late at night with an incel friend, who lives in Philadelphia ("Mitchell", the guy who did several interviews with Steve Hoca on YouTube. Anyone heard of him?).

Let's be honest. Life sucks when you're involuntarily celibate. It creates a void inside of you, and breeds resentment and anger. But, there are still things that make life worth living. Family, friends, food, hobbies and travel offsets much of the misery of not having female companionship in my life. If you have access to these things, try them. You will feel much less suicidal, and might even get a glimpse of happiness.
 
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If you have money and status you're not Incel.
 
If you have money and status you're not Incel.
Not true at all. Money does jack for me. Foids avoid eye contact with me in literally every country I set foot in. Female nature is the same throughout the world. Youth and looks are the only 2 things that impress them. If you don't have those two, nothing else matters.
 
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Congrats, OP. At least you have copes
 
Not true at all. Money does jack for me. Foids avoid eye contact with me in literally every country I set foot in. Female nature is uniform throughout the world. Youth and looks are the only 2 things that matter.
Maybe you don't display your wealth well enough I really can't imagine someone with so much money as you have being in this incel position
 
Not true at all. Money does jack for me. Foids avoid eye contact with me in literally every country I set foot in. Female nature is uniform throughout the world. Youth and looks are the only 2 things that matter.
If I had merely 5000-10,000 dollars I could use that money to not be Incel without escortcelling simply by optimizing that money to move to an optimal location, looksmaxxing, etc. I don't buy anyone with money is Incel, never will, especially when I see ugly rich fat boomers who steal agematched looksmatches from youngcels.
 
Maybe you don't display your wealth well enough I really can't imagine someone with so much money as you have being in this incel position
I'm not young anymore, and I have a fucked up face. So, even though I sometimes wear expensive clothes and travel with fancy luggage, no one cares.
 
I'm not young anymore, and I have a fucked up face. So, even though I sometimes wear expensive clothes and travel with fancy luggage, no one cares.
What about a luxurious car or going to luxurious events I mean if you are an talented artist, don't you get invited to such kind of partys? Just asking out of interest
 
Congrats, OP. At least you have copes
I know. It's what has kept me going for nearly half a century. It's probably why I also look remarkably young for my age.
What about a luxurious car or going to luxurious events I mean if you are an talented artist, don't you get invited to such kind of partys? Just asking out of interest
I don't have a car because traffic and parking is a nightmare where I live.
I'm not commercially active as an artist. Haven't been for years. I'm too anxious, autistic and inhibited to promote my work to galleries, and therefore be invited to parties. If I make another foray into the art world, I will hire an agent.
If I had merely 5000-10,000 dollars I could use that money to not be Incel without escortcelling simply by optimizing that money to move to an optimal location, looksmaxxing, etc. I don't buy anyone with money is Incel, never will, especially when I see ugly rich fat boomers who steal agematched looksmatches from youngcels.
Seriously, you can work and save up that much money.
 
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I'm not young anymore, and I have a fucked up face. So, even though I sometimes wear expensive clothes and travel with fancy luggage, no one cares.
Whats so "fucked" up about your face that turns foids off? Do you have a weird nose or something?
 
Good for you. Enjoy it.
Thanks for the [rare] positive comment.
Whats so "fucked" up about your face that turns foids off? Do you have a weird nose or something?
I have a bloating condition that causes my face to look fleshy and distorted most of the time. The effect is much worse than merely looking 'fat' or overweight, because the inflammation makes me look like I'm having a weird, allergic reaction. Foids can somewhat deal with a guy who's merely overweight (as that can be changed), but they certainly don't want genetically defective sperm that's going to be transmitted to their offspring.
 
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Was hoping to see a single word comment "cope" as the first reply. I'm disappointed.
 
I'm happy that you can enjoy your copes. How do you keep being happy though? As in I do not enjoy coping at all as nothing is fun or, in my mind, worth doing.
Was hoping to see a single word comment "cope" as the first reply. I'm disappointed.
I was going to comment that but it would probably get (((taken down))).
 
Was hoping to see a single word comment "cope" as the first reply. I'm disappointed.
Would have done but, but would have gotten banned because of the
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Was hoping to see a single word comment "cope" as the first reply. I'm disappointed.
But, that would have been a stupid comment, anyway, because I already openly admitted that my activities are a cope. It's in the title of the thread!
 
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yo red pill age, archieluxuary isnt escortcel

he has like so many fucking kids and his like been divorced 3-4 times.

Yeah i really enjoy his content 2 its nice
 
yo red pill age, archieluxuary isnt escortcel

he has like so many fucking kids and his like been divorced 3-4 times.

Yeah i really enjoy his content 2 its nice
Oh, yeah, I know about his kids from his failed marriages. But, he's an escortcel now.
Glad I'm not the only one here who knows about Archieluxury and likes his content. That guy knows how to enjoy himself. I love how he always seems vaguely in his own world. Watching his videos is a form of escapism/life fuel. Can't wait to meet him in person.
 
yo redpillrage do u have discord?
 
yo redpillrage do u have discord?
Nope. I'm a little disorganized in my life right now. Spent so much time and energy planning my trips and holding down my job, so haven't had time for that.
 
lucky you, I hate all people and have no friends. Zero desire to make friends either. People have caused me nothing but pain and misery since I was a kid.
 
Good copes + escortceling fight the depression of inceldom pretty well
 
Not true at all. Money does jack for me. Foids avoid eye contact with me in literally every country I set foot in. Female nature is the same throughout the world. Youth and looks are the only 2 things that impress them. If you don't have those two, nothing else matters.

What do you do for a living, OP?
 
Lol those copes are.for gays, ItsOver gaycels
 
Good for you tbh. Enjoy those copes.
 
im not impressed. I feel nausea reading about your vomiting existence. I would rather be dead than live such abhorent shity life of arrant normie.
 
What do you do for a living, OP?
I drive trains in passenger service.
im not impressed. I feel nausea reading about your vomiting existence. I would rather be dead than live such abhorent shity life of arrant normie.
Let's say you woke up tomorrow, and suddenly, you were no longer incel. You start getting laid.
Would having sex and being with foids occupy 100% of your time? (mind you, this would entail constantly shopping with them, and spending weekends at crowded malls, looking for shoes and handbags, and doing other girly shit)
If this doesn't sound appealing to you, how would you fill your time? I'm curious to know.
Lol those copes are.for gays, ItsOver gaycels
Some of my other hobbies & interests include working out, hunting, soccer, cars/F1 racing, photography, motorcycles, golf, aviation, astronomy, chess, boxing and MMA.
What are your non-gay pastimes?
 
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Foids can somewhat deal with a guy who's merely overweight (as that can be changed), but they certainly don't want genetically defective sperm that's going to be transmitted to their offspring.
How tall are you? I know height probably doesn't help at all but coming from someone who is 4'8 I'd still rather be tall and deal with other flaws than be mega short.
Also if you drive trains for a living (which sounds really cool btw) you've never had a foid interested in atleast gold digging on you?
 
If I had merely 5000-10,000 dollars I could use that money to not be Incel without escortcelling simply by optimizing that money to move to an optimal location, looksmaxxing, etc. I don't buy anyone with money is Incel, never will, especially when I see ugly rich fat boomers who steal agematched looksmatches from youngcels.

Low IQ.The primary cause of inceldom is having inferior genetics, particularly in areas regarding looks. Whether you move to X,Y,Z won't change that, Most if not all foids will have better options than you. And looksmaxxing is a fucking joke, for most incels even the most extreme looksmaxxing won't change jackshit.

>"ugly rich fat boomers who steal agematched looksmatches from youngcels"
>Implying that getting used for your money is ascension

JFL
 
How tall are you? I know height probably doesn't help at all but coming from someone who is 4'8 I'd still rather be tall and deal with other flaws than be mega short.
Also if you drive trains for a living (which sounds really cool btw) you've never had a foid interested in atleast gold digging on you?
I hate to admit it, but you have a handicap that's impossible to overcome. Normally, I'd say height isn't that important, but being less than 5' is worse than cancer.
But, even then, maybe your diminutiveness is so extreme that foids would be intrigued by it? Women are like children, and gravitate towards anything new and unusual. But, I'm guessing no, or you wouldn't be on this forum.
I myself am slightly more than 5'9" (if you saw me in person, you would say I'm taller, but unlike most people, I don't exaggerate my height).

I don't want to comment about whether foids have ever shown interest in me. I like this forum (it's one of my hobbies) and don't want to get banned.
>"ugly rich fat boomers who steal agematched looksmatches from youngcels"
>Implying that getting used for your money is ascension

JFL
That's right. REAL ascension is being wanted only for your looks. If you're wanted for anything else, you're being used.
30, yes I have hobbies, but I choose to do them on my own.
At least you have hobbies (copes). The worst thing is being one of those hapless souls, who just hibernate in their rooms all day.
 
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How did you get all that money? tips, advice please
 
The worst thing is being one of those hapless souls, who just hibernate in their rooms all day.
If I could get whatever I needed from in here, I'd never leave my house, and I'd pretend that the outside world doesn't exist.
 
How did you get all that money? tips, advice please
Working at my job (I make 85k/yr), investing my money in stocks, and living frugally (I only splurge on vacations and very occasionally).
It doesnt sound appealing to me at all. I dont give a flying fuck on it. I need something more than such a despicable existence. Yeas you are curios faggot but i will tell you nothing
Fuck you and fuck your idiotic dreams shithead.
You sound illiterate, tbh.
 
For a train driver, you have a good life.
 
imagine going to las vegas to get mogged brutally
 
imagine going to las vegas to get mogged brutally
Yeah, that's an issue everywhere I go, tbh. I just learned to avoid eye contact with people (especially foids) and try to pretend I'm a kid again, before I was blackpilled. Not easy to do, but I try.
 
Yeah, that's an issue everywhere I go, tbh. I just learned to avoid eye contact with people (especially foids) and try to pretend I'm a kid again, before I was blackpilled. Not easy to do, but I try.
but I'm glad at least you have strong copes
 
I hate to admit it, but you have a handicap that's impossible to overcome. Normally, I'd say height isn't that important, but being less than 5' is worse than cancer.
But, even then, maybe your diminutiveness is so extreme that foids would be intrigued by it? Women are like children, and gravitate towards anything new and unusual. But, I'm guessing no, or you wouldn't be on this forum.
My height is my ultimate handicap. I'm so short I do get plenty attention.....Im the laughing stock everywhere I go. My height will never allow me to get a foid. I can't even go for short foids because ALL short foids go for tall chads just to feel better about themselves. Heck I can't even do leg lengthening surgery because it doesn't add that much height and even if i got up to 5' Im still short.
 
Las Vegas is prolly gonna be Sui Fuel for you. Stacies everywhere sitting next to Chads at casino tables.
 
Working at my job (I make 85k/yr), investing my money in stocks, and living frugally (I only splurge on vacations and very occasionally).

You sound illiterate, tbh.
Is English his first language? That could be a reason.
 
Just-be-normie-with-money theory
 
My height is my ultimate handicap. I'm so short I do get plenty attention.....Im the laughing stock everywhere I go. My height will never allow me to get a foid. I can't even go for short foids because ALL short foids go for tall chads just to feel better about themselves. Heck I can't even do leg lengthening surgery because it doesn't add that much height and even if i got up to 5' Im still short.
I see midget Mexican couples all the time, with the woman pushing a stroller. But, white, American couples often consist of a midget foid with her 6'2" boyfriend. The West is fucked.
Just-be-normie-with-money theory
It doesn't get you laid, though. It's just a good cope. A more accurate way to describe it is 'just be an incel with money'.
 
Good post, OP. Travelling in particular is a great thing to do - I've enjoyed some of my best life experiences from travelling to new countries.
 

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