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The other day, I was sitting in a waiting room and a zoomer who probably couldn't bear to sit in silence for a few minutes leaned over to me and tried to talk to me. He asked me my name, if I went to school or not, if I watched goyball, etc. I tried to be polite and answer his questions, but I also made it clear that I wasn't in the mood to talk and wouldn’t ask for any input from him. Eventually, he ran out of questions to ask me and silence returned although this time it was very awkward. He also got somewhat annoyed with me for not engaging him in conversation, which is bullshit as he initiated it in first place. Why can’t NT normies just keep their mouths shut instead of creating uncomfortable moments like this?
 
if it’s someone i like (immediate family) i listen and engage. (although i usually don’t want to)

if it’s some dumb random then i just say the bare minimum to not show that i am disinterested
 
The other day, I was sitting in a waiting room and a zoomer who probably couldn't bear to sit in silence for a few minutes leaned over to me and tried to talk to me. He asked me my name, if I went to school or not, if I watched goyball, etc. I tried to be polite and answer his questions, but I also made it clear that I wasn't in the mood to talk and wouldn’t ask for any input from him. Eventually, he ran out of questions to ask me and silence returned although this time it was very awkward. He also got somewhat annoyed with me for not engaging him in conversation, which is bullshit as he initiated it in first place. Why can’t NT normies just keep their mouths shut instead of creating uncomfortable moments like this?
"sorry, I have covid rn coughs "RAAWRGS!" hacks up "sniff"
"srn gnwaout dat" pulls out yellow brown stained biohazard paper towel from shaytans asshole

basically just be the kid from peanuts

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nobody wants to start a convo with me lol
 
That doesn't happen
 
Nobody ever approaches me.
 
Depends what they're talking about, usually it's typical normie questions they ask so they can gossip about it later, like do you have a job, which job, if not then why don't you work, where do you live etc etc. It happens rarely.
 
The NPC cannot abide silence
 
that almost never happens. i would likely answer awkwardly. did he seem nice?
 
The other day, I was sitting in a waiting room and a zoomer who probably couldn't bear to sit in silence for a few minutes leaned over to me and tried to talk to me. He asked me my name, if I went to school or not, if I watched goyball, etc. I tried to be polite and answer his questions, but I also made it clear that I wasn't in the mood to talk and wouldn’t ask for any input from him. Eventually, he ran out of questions to ask me and silence returned although this time it was very awkward. He also got somewhat annoyed with me for not engaging him in conversation, which is bullshit as he initiated it in first place. Why can’t NT normies just keep their mouths shut instead of creating uncomfortable moments like this?
When i get talked to by a random normie, i deliberately say very absurd stuff to make them confused or shocked.
 
I just tell him about my interesting hobby
 
I kinda freeze and dont know what to say.
 
i realised something that saves me a lot of energy lately, if somebody starts talking to me in gym or job i just silently answer with nods or just ignore them lmao it's like in a game with NPCs, you can interact with them or just ignore although they keep saying their scripted lines
 
You’re probably decent-looking if you get conversation attempts from strangers like this (unless they’re old people or also subhuman). I don’t get this ever
 
You’re probably decent-looking if you get conversation attempts from strangers like this. I don’t get this ever
more like high trust looking
 
more like high trust looking
I look high trust but am 3/10, so I’ve gotten the occasional wellness check from a stranger but never an attempt to actually start a conversation
 
I look high trust but am 3/10, so I’ve gotten the occasional wellness check from a stranger but never an attempt to actually start a conversation
its because of the jeet failo
 
Yes, it can be annoying, especially when you're not in the mood.
I'll try to be polite, if I see that the other person is just trying to be friendly.
But if I feel like I'm pumped for personal info, I won't give it.

Reminds me of when I was on the temp agency circuit. I'd find myself being sent to the same assignments as other faces who would become familiar to me. There was one bitch named Anna who had the M.O. of sitting down next to you, acting all smiley, asking you all sorts of questions like, where do you live, what car do you drive, but she NEVER gave out any info about herself. Knowledge is power.
Damned if she didn't use whatever you told her about yourself against you, at every opportunity. So I made it my business to warn everybody else at the workplaces we were both at to never trust her. Major lazy backstabber who always tried to make herself look good to the bosses by making you look bad. She was awful at any manual labor she was put on, constantly complaining -- but always telling the supervisors that she used to be a supervisor, hint, hint. Well, if she sucked as much at being a boss as much as being a worker, I can see why she wasn't getting any supervisory assignments.
 
The other day, I was sitting in a waiting room and a zoomer who probably couldn't bear to sit in silence for a few minutes leaned over to me and tried to talk to me. He asked me my name, if I went to school or not, if I watched goyball, etc. I tried to be polite and answer his questions, but I also made it clear that I wasn't in the mood to talk and wouldn’t ask for any input from him. Eventually, he ran out of questions to ask me and silence returned although this time it was very awkward. He also got somewhat annoyed with me for not engaging him in conversation, which is bullshit as he initiated it in first place. Why can’t NT normies just keep their mouths shut instead of creating uncomfortable moments like this?
I assume they are making fun of me
 

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