Venting How do you deal with the loneliness

[Composter]

How do you come to terms with being alone and knowing that your circumstances aren't going to change? Every year I grow more distant from people I used to know; I hardly speak with anyone anymore aside from my parents and work colleagues. How do you distract yourself from this and make it somewhat tolerable?

 

[Composter]

It's truly an unnatural way to live. Everything feels wrong.

 

[anon65]

I wake up at the crack of dawn, fight my way to work on the highway, work for eight hours, fight my way back, sit down exhausted, eat dinner, watch jewtube, and go to bed.

I will never have more than this. There is no coming to terms with it, you just realize your circumstance and live on in anguish.

 

[Composter]

I wake up at the crack of dawn, fight my way to work on the highway, work for eight hours, fight my way back, sit down exhausted, eat dinner, watch jewtube, and go to bed.

I will never have more than this. There is no coming to terms with it, you just realize your circumstance and live on in anguish.

This is more or less my life also. I don't want it to be this way for much longer, I've been living this same routine since I was 18.

 

[andrej]

I wake up at the crack of dawn, fight my way to work on the highway, work for eight hours, fight my way back, sit down exhausted, eat dinner, watch jewtube, and go to bed.

I will never have more than this. There is no coming to terms with it, you just realize your circumstance and live on in anguish.

Same but instead of work its just doomscrolling

 

[TimeMachineOrLDAR]

It's truly an unnatural way to live. Everything feels wrong.

I wake up at the crack of dawn, fight my way to work on the highway, work for eight hours, fight my way back, sit down exhausted, eat dinner, watch jewtube, and go to bed.

I will never have more than this. There is no coming to terms with it, you just realize your circumstance and live on in anguish.

Same here

This is more or less my life also. I don't want it to be this way for much longer, I've been living this same routine since I was 18.

Since 15 for me. Or even earlier

 

[Yunoo]

How do you come to terms with being alone and knowing that your circumstances aren't going to change? Every year I grow more distant from people I used to know; I hardly speak with anyone anymore aside from my parents and work colleagues. How do you distract yourself from this and make it somewhat tolerable?

Talk to people on discord and and immerse yourself in hobbies that you find fun.
I have 0 friends and I can go weeks without talking to anyone irl but I don’t feel super lonely.

I think I need a lot less to be happy than most people

 

[La Longue Fourchett]

I no longer feel lonely.
I prefer being by myself.
I feel horror when coworkers or neighbours talk to me.

I find joy in simple things. Being able to lie down on weekends, feeling cold air in the morning, slow Saturday mornings with coffee, etc

 

[autisticsoy]

I have a small dog I pet and play at times, play games, eat fast food, run at times, or just be here posting.

 

[Caichan]

I LDAR and cope

 

[VanGobbel]

I wake up at the crack of dawn, fight my way to work on the highway, work for eight hours, fight my way back, sit down exhausted, eat dinner, watch jewtube, and go to bed.

I will never have more than this. There is no coming to terms with it, you just realize your circumstance and live on in anguish.

Hell on earth, we just living it

 

[Xul]

I LDAR and cope

 

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[Broke Nepo Baby]

How do you come to terms with being alone and knowing that your circumstances aren't going to change? Every year I grow more distant from people I used to know; I hardly speak with anyone anymore aside from my parents and work colleagues. How do you distract yourself from this and make it somewhat tolerable?

My mind focuses on interesting subjects

 

[Rezecel]

I suffer from it every day, and I try to cope by watching yt and stuff, but it's getting harder and harder

 

[Jimb0]

I'm no longer able to cope with loneliness so I just drink myself to an early grave tbh

 

[LostSoulUK]

Honestly, I don't know. The weight of loneliness is fucking crippling, it follows us around like a heavy burden. Every now and then it intensifies, its the worst fucking feeling in the world and yet this is our sad reality. I still can't accept this and yet I've no choice because its my reality, its always been my reality. Christmas period is always brutal, but every day is hell. No one gives a fuck about our existence, its just us and us alone in this world.

 

[tostlel]

How do you come to terms with being alone and knowing that your circumstances aren't going to change? Every year I grow more distant from people I used to know; I hardly speak with anyone anymore aside from my parents and work colleagues. How do you distract yourself from this and make it somewhat tolerable?

wake up, school, come home, gym, come home, work, come home, study, sleep

honestly i fucking hate this cycle but keeping a routine keeps me sane.

listen to a shit tone of music and walk, it helps pass time and distract yourself

also get into fishing, its pretty fun ngl

 

[Beck]

retro video games

 

[The Scarlet Prince]

You either get used to it or you kill yourself.

 

[Jaxxel]

This is where the saying cope or rope comes into play either deal with it or end it

 

[Grodd]

I LDAR and cope

 

[SlovakcelSX]

watching movies and watching social media

 

[Nithingr]

There is no coming to terms with it, you just realize your circumstance and live on in anguish.

I still can't accept this and yet I've no choice because its my reality

Brutal, time heals nothing.

 

[recessed chud]

Jesus Christ.

 

[Fed_911]

How do you distract yourself from this and make it somewhat tolerable?

I have no fucking idea tbh
Dealing with the same shit

 

[Fed_911]

You either get used to it or you kill yourself.

Brootal

 

[MuhDigitalFootprint]

I drink and don't care about other people at all