Discussion Familypill: how to deal with toxic parents in my opinion

[DISASTER]

I dont know how to word this, but i still need to say this, this might be good advice for alot of you.


First of all, you absolutly need to stand for yourself against their abuse and constant nagging, i really get that they caused alot of suffering and those things are hard to get past, for me my parents never were there for me, the reason im writing this is i just remembred when i was young and my cousins would visit us, they were always bullying me, but my parents never stood by my side even in these fights.


But you really need to look at the full half of the cup and stop obssessing over the half cup, YES, they nag you and shout at you everyday but you need to learn to tolerate them, WHY ? Because they are the only peoples that will gladly help in alot of your struggles.



My advice is just "USE THEM" as they are still around, dont ruin your relationship with them, just see them as helpers or a boat to get to the other side, helpers who actually love you even though their actions might show the opposite in moments, learn to tolerate them and use them, because when they are gone you will be alone.

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Leech them as much as you can.

 

[DISASTER]

Leech them as much as you can.

Juice them

 

[DISASTER]

 

[spergierthanyou]

But you really need to look at the full half of the cup and stop obssessing over the half cup, YES, they nag you and shout at you everyday but you need to learn to tolerate them, WHY ? Because they are the only peoples that will gladly help in alot of your struggles

I don't want their help though, all the "solutions" they want to force me into will make me unhappy. I'd rather they just leave me alone

 

[DISASTER]

I don't want their help though, all the "solutions" they want to force me into will make me unhappy. I'd rather they just leave me alone

I still live with my parents, i try to avoid any interactions with them and i keep those interactions as short as possible, all im saying dont take their advice or be lured into what they think is better for you, all im saying is just use them as much as possible, use their money and live with them, thats what im refering to as help.

 

[spergierthanyou]

I still live with my parents, i try to avoid any interactions with them and i keep those interactions as short as possible, all im saying dont take their advice or be lured into what they think is better for you, all im saying is just use them as much as possible, use their money and live with them, thats what im refering to as help.

oh, based then

 

[LOLI BREEDING]

yes, I'm an expert at this

 

[Izayacel]

Become aggresive with your parents and they stop this nagging bullshit " .

People respect violence / aggresion , almost like a pattern