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Every time I am outside or in a different city known to have very attractive women, it just sinks my very being. Walking past these absolutely beautiful women who you know won't give you the chance of day, let alone see you as human. You fantasize about having a relationship with them, pure love and sexual, knowing its impossible.

It just saps away every bit of hope I have in my cells.

Any advice to cope with this? It's so fucking painful, especially if you know they are sexhavers and have relationships and you are KHHV.
 
I whip my dick out and masturbate when I see an attractive woman outside.
 
Every time I am outside or in a different city known to have very attractive women, it just sinks my very being. Walking past these absolutely beautiful women who you know won't give you the chance of day, let alone see you as human. You fantasize about having a relationship with them, pure love and sexual, knowing its impossible.

It just saps away every bit of hope I have in my cells.

Any advice to cope with this? It's so fucking painful, especially if you know they are sexhavers and have relationships and you are KHHV.
Just ignoring it
 
I whip my dick out and masturbate when I see an attractive woman outside.
Same
Every time I am outside or in a different city known to have very attractive women, it just sinks my very being. Walking past these absolutely beautiful women who you know won't give you the chance of day, let alone see you as human. You fantasize about having a relationship with them, pure love and sexual, knowing its impossible.

It just saps away every bit of hope I have in my cells.

Any advice to cope with this? It's so fucking painful, especially if you know they are sexhavers and have relationships and you are KHHV.
Idk if there is really a way to cope. But lately I've been thinking that my life is brutal, yeah, but I should ignore as much as possible and focus on my own copes. Although it is prolly useless. You can't really escape the pain completely
 
Remind myself everyone dies anyways
 
I used to feel something, but I don't anymore.
Once you fully grasp that they will never show you any mutual affection, you gradually stop caring.

The more attractive they are, the more competition you have. If you are already unattractive there is really not point.
 
I used to feel something, but I don't anymore.
Once you fully grasp that they will never show you any mutual affection, you gradually stop caring.

The more attractive they are, the more competition you have. If you are already unattractive there is really not point.
True, but that makes the pain worse
 
Every time I am outside or in a different city known to have very attractive women, it just sinks my very being. Walking past these absolutely beautiful women who you know won't give you the chance of day, let alone see you as human. You fantasize about having a relationship with them, pure love and sexual, knowing its impossible.

It just saps away every bit of hope I have in my cells.

Any advice to cope with this? It's so fucking painful, especially if you know they are sexhavers and have relationships and you are KHHV.
I suffer from this problem too. It's so hard to see those beautiful women, knowing the only thing I can do is imagine a hypothetical life where I'm a successful and lovable man who deserves love. And then I get back to reality. I'm just a loser living in a 3rd world country.

One thing I do to cope with this is imagine that these women have already fucked with hundreds of men, kissed thousands of people, and that all of them are better than me, so I'll never have the chance to approach them.
 
I just Look down

Don’t really care anymore but I don’t want to look at them and they don’t want to look at me
 
I usually only see them at the mall or sometimes this fancy grocery store near by. But there’s a lot of them living in my current apartment complex

Back when I was living in Texas literally everyone was ugly but their was this nice park that lots of attractive foids would visit for their stupid photo shoots and shit
 
I tend to look at the ground when outside
 
Every time I am outside or in a different city known to have very attractive women, it just sinks my very being. Walking past these absolutely beautiful women who you know won't give you the chance of day, let alone see you as human. You fantasize about having a relationship with them, pure love and sexual, knowing its impossible.

It just saps away every bit of hope I have in my cells.

Any advice to cope with this? It's so fucking painful, especially if you know they are sexhavers and have relationships and you are KHHV.
Everything is impermanent, remember?
Good looks deterioate along with the flesh and all of it fades away
 
I fantasise about hurting them.
 
Look at them, appreciate the eye candy, and keep going about my business. I'll try to get a good look at their asses if they have nice ones and if given the opportunity but nothing more outside of that.
 
It's ropefuel, they don't even look at me. You just know they're living in another world and you're not in it.
 
I immediately start to look at their body and imagine fucking them
 

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