Serious How do you cope with low self-esteem?

[GmeOvr]

I did a deep retrospection on my life and feel that low self-esteem has been a major part in my mental pain.
But how can you build up your self-esteem when you are a sub 5 loser?

 

[Soliduscel]

Plenty of posts in here about loser cucks, reading those really inflates my ego.

 

[bruhwtf]

you can't it's ober

 

[zd60]

i use the same cope for everything drugs

 

[GmeOvr]

i use the same cope for everything drugs

Jewpills just numb you without fixing anything in your brain

 

[AdolfRizzler]

i don t cope, because the reality is one and my cope doesn t change my height or face, low self esteem is because u deep down in your brain u know ur face is ugly and ur short

 

[zd60]

Jewpills just numb you without fixing anything in your brain

I don't take jewpills also can't be fixed regardless

 

[KetamineCel]

i take jewpills and smoke weed whenever i can

 

[Tenna]

Just brainstorm philosophical ideas theory

 

[aryanmikmaq]

I just use nicotine to cope and watch YouTube.

 

[Pancakecel]

Good question, not very well tbh. It's hard to have self esteem, when all you've experienced is being treated as less than/ ostracized by others, just for existing as yourself.

 

[SirDave]

You have low self esteem for a reason; stepping out of your comfort zone, motivated by self lies, will only garner you more negative feedback.

 

[GmeOvr]

ow self esteem is because u deep down in your brain u know ur face is ugly and ur short

Truth

i take jewpills and smoke weed whenever i can

I just use nicotine to cope and watch YouTube.

How does this help you with your self-esteem?

 

[poorenglishcel]

Idk i don't care

 

[Atavistic Autist]

Self-esteem is simply an issue of endogenous opioid tone. Read my innumerable threads on the opioid pill

 

[Grodd]

I LDAR

 

[KetamineCel]

How does this help you with your self-esteem?

it doesn’t make me not an incel, but antidepressants calm the bad thoughts down a good bit, as for the smoking weed part i literally couldn’t care about it when im high, because its so good

 

[antisocialcel]

accepting it's over

 

[GmeOvr]

antidepressants calm the bad thoughts down a good bit

What pills are you on? Does it help with PTSD?

 

[GmeOvr]

So here are the self-esteem maxxing things I came up with:
- moneymaxxing
- learning new skills or abilities
- cosmetic surgery
- Fitness (gym maxxing)
- building positive / uplifting relationships (Prob. impossible nowadays)

There might be more, some of these are already very hard to accoplish.

 

[Runt171]

But how can you build up your self-esteem when you are a sub 5 loser?

Thats the thing you dont

 

[kruffy]

So here are the self-esteem maxxing things I came up with:
- moneymaxxing
- learning new skills or abilities
- cosmetic surgery
- Fitness (gym maxxing)
- building positive / uplifting relationships (Prob. impossible nowadays)

There might be more, some of these are already very hard to accoplish.

Good list.

Id say it's just having a list of accomplishments that show that you have some worth.

 

[KetamineCel]

What pills are you on? Does it help with PTSD?

Sertraline (zoloft), i’ve been taking it for about 5 weeks now and i haven’t been ruminating and beating myself up as much, it’s mostly for anxiety, depression, and autism but it has shown some effectiveness for PTSD in clinical studies

 

[TheEpitome]

Low smv = low self esteem
High smv = high self esteem

There's nothing you can do beyond extreme measures

 

[GmeOvr]

Id say it's just having a list of accomplishments that show that you have some worth.

Yes, setting small goals, and achieving them step by step, has given me pleasure in the past.
Problem: you always need to come up with new stuff.

The brutality is that although I have ultra moneymaxxed (in an unethical way), but that cope isn't coping well anymore.
If I were to receive a million dollars right now it would only minimaly improve my mood.

Sertraline (zoloft), i’ve been taking it for about 5 weeks now and i haven’t been ruminating and beating myself up as much, it’s mostly for anxiety, depression, and autism but it has shown some effectiveness for PTSD in clinical studies

This sounds like really good stuff. I have tried to avoid jewpills as much as I could so far especially the hard stuff.
Jewpillsmaxxing will be my ultimate cope attempt if there is nothing else left.

 

[KetamineCel]

This sounds like really good stuff. I have tried to avoid jewpills as much as I could so far especially the hard stuff.
Jewpillsmaxxing will be my ultimate cope attempt if there is nothing else left.

tbh yeah, it’s been a pretty good improvement in my life lately, that and whatever other copes i can get a hold of (the only shame is i can’t take MDMA or serotinergic drugs because it will cause serotonin syndrome)