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How do I get over my oneitis?

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I've been having many dreams about this foid that I haven't talked to in 4 years. The dreams are brutal and come back to haunt me. I feel like just sending hER ER quotes and saying she's the reason I'm Incel
 
If you're having dreams about some random cunt, then you may be permanently cucked tbh
 
Step 1: wait a lot
????
Profit
 
I've been having many dreams about this foid that I haven't talked to in 4 years. The dreams are brutal and come back to haunt me.
i still have these about a girl i liked in high school.

one quote when dealing with the intrusive thoughts about her helps me:

"time heals all wounds"

it's cliche but true; everything gets easier to cope with in time
 
I've been having many dreams about this foid that I haven't talked to in 4 years. The dreams are brutal and come back to haunt me. I feel like just sending hER ER quotes and saying she's the reason I'm Incel
when and how did you meet her and what relationship did she have to you
 
I've been having many dreams about this foid that I haven't talked to in 4 years. The dreams are brutal and come back to haunt me. I feel like just sending hER ER quotes and saying she's the reason I'm Incel
If you have an oneitis as an incel then you already lost. You're done for.
 
Fall Eat GIF by ShibuichiWaika
 
when and how did you meet her and what relationship did she have to you
I met hER sophomore year in highschool. I always watch pua videos on how to talk to girls and my "friends" would gaslight me into trying it even though my gut feeling was to stay to myself. I did all the tactics and she said she loved me and joked about sucking my dick but it was all just a lie and I got cucked on Valentine's Day. This was during COVID so I eventually was so inflicted with pain that I eventually messaged her saying that I didn't know what was wrong with me but I wasn't good enough for hER. She responded just saying she didn't reciprocate the same feelings but she wanted to stay friends. I didn't understand what that meant at the time so I cucked and said I wanted to be hER friend. She just blocked me
 
If you're having dreams about some random cunt, then you may be permanently cucked tbh
It happened before I was blackpill aware of foid's nature. I've never felt cucked by any othER foid before this one. Was really a blackpilled moment cuz I listened to all the redpill cope pua advice
 
cut off your dick
 
Already tried. They just said I have autism. There's no medication for that.
hmmmmm. Just practice mindfulness. thoroughly go over the fact that ur oneitis is getting rawdogged while ur virgin ass is dreaming about her. also do not forget that if u were to ask her out (ik u wont) she will genuinely laugh at u (after she told u she has a boyfriend and u left her line of sight) and tell all her friends (a way from her to brag about how many men approach her). I hear my female coworkers laughing to each other about how an ugly guy approached them the other day. autisitic men are at best pets to them. at worst they're clowns.
 
hmmmmm. Just practice mindfulness. thoroughly go over the fact that ur oneitis is getting rawdogged while ur virgin ass is dreaming about her. also do not forget that if u were to ask her out (ik u wont) she will genuinely laugh at u (after she told u she has a boyfriend and u left her line of sight) and tell all her friends (a way from her to brag about how many men approach her). I hear my female coworkers laughing to each other about how an ugly guy approached them the other day. autisitic men are at best pets to them. at worst they're clowns.
I already know all of that. It happens in the dream. And where to go back to me through drama. It still doesn't stop dreams from happening.
 
I already know all of that. It happens in the dream. And where to go back to me through drama. It still doesn't stop dreams from happening.
Sorry I'm drunk I don't really know what I'm saying
 
I already know all of that. It happens in the dream. And where to go back to me through drama. It still doesn't stop dreams from happening.
ur dreams are merely dreams. cease the thought upon waking up and go about ur day. don't forget ur worth. im a mentally ill man and I'd live this life a thousand times over before becoming a fornicating NPC. ur one of the few humans on this planet filled with bots that sees through the guise imposed by society at large. cucked inconsequential dreams wont take away from that.
 
fixate on a 2d girl
 
Just accept that she wasnt as special as your believe her to be. Its really hard especially if you truly loved her, but if she didnt share these feelings whats the point?

Always remember the fact that shes been ran through by multiple Chads and Tyrones by now.
 
Just accept that she wasnt as special as your believe her to be. Its really hard especially if you truly loved her, but if she didnt share these feelings whats the point?

Always remember the fact that shes been ran through by multiple Chads and Tyrones by now.
Yeah that's all I think about. That's what happened in the dream. It doesn't solve a problem though. It just makes it worse. Cuckpilled
 
Update: I drink too much and threw up in my sink. I don't want to clean it up when I'm sober.
 
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Do hard drugs
 
I met hER sophomore year in highschool. I always watch pua videos on how to talk to girls and my "friends" would gaslight me into trying it even though my gut feeling was to stay to myself. I did all the tactics and she said she loved me and joked about sucking my dick but it was all just a lie and I got cucked on Valentine's Day. This was during COVID so I eventually was so inflicted with pain that I eventually messaged her saying that I didn't know what was wrong with me but I wasn't good enough for hER. She responded just saying she didn't reciprocate the same feelings but she wanted to stay friends. I didn't understand what that meant at the time so I cucked and said I wanted to be hER friend. She just blocked me
this bitch blocked you after you said you wanted to stay friends w her? wtf is wrong w her jfl
 
Remember that she is a disgusting whore

Her vagina is a grotesque mangled slimy mess

Her mouth is filled with her exes' bacteria like a tongue-eating louse

Her mind is nonexistent bc she is a foid

You deserve better than pining after some filthy whore
 
Shotgun implants by Eppley
 
Do hard drugs
I really want to because I'm a fatcel for now I'm sticking to the legal shit cuz it doesn't want it to be laced with fentanyl niggER drugs
 
this bitch blocked you after you said you wanted to stay friends w her? wtf is wrong w her jfl
I heard from third parties drama that it's because it was contradictory. Probably because I confess my feelings and then said that it's okay to say friends. I just didn't understand at the time what that meant
 
If you're having dreams about some random cunt, then you may be permanently cucked tbh
I don't want to be a cuck forever :cryfeels: there's really no cure? I can't control my dreams, I might as well be scrolling r9k at this point to accept that I'm a cuck.
 
I don't want to be a cuck forever :cryfeels: there's really no cure? I can't control my dreams, I might as well be scrolling r9k at this point to accept that I'm a cuck.
It's probably a time thing, eventually you will stop caring
 
It's probably a time thing, eventually you will stop caring
If it's already been 4 years then what's stopping it from being 8? I'm going to cope with drugs for now because even God couldn't stop me from caring about this foid (she convinced me that I wasn't Incel and she actually loved me). ThERapy is some normtard solution that doesn't actually work.
 
Idk. Whenever I even get the feeling that I get attracted to a specific girl I just imagine doing stuff to her... Like slapping her, cutting her (both with her consent obviously) etc. etc.
 
Just accept that she wasnt as special as your believe her to be. Its really hard especially if you truly loved her, but if she didnt share these feelings whats the point?

Always remember the fact that shes been ran through by multiple Chads and Tyrones by now.
This.
 
Try masturbation to anime girls that look similar to her
 
My post count < your oneitis bodycount.
 
You have to acknowledge and accept that I'm having sex with her
 
Try masturbation to anime girls that look similar to her
I found a pornstar that looked just like hER and I only felt sad and cucked watching it
 
play fun video games, talk to brocels, listen to cool music, etc

just find fun ways to cope, and it's even better with brocels helping you
 
It's called hearing the truth. I shove the blackpill down your throat while your oneitis... yeah:feelsugh:
The blackpill did work for a while. At first all I was thinking about was being cucked by the entire universe. It doesn't stop the dreams though.
 
play fun video games, talk to brocels, listen to cool music, etc

just find fun ways to cope, and it's even better with brocels helping you
Thanks brocel. I just don't really have friends cuz I'm a sperg. Sometimes I pretend like I have friends so it's not that bad
 
Honestly don’t know as I struggle with this as well. Usually I won’t get over one unless the next comes along but then it’s just transferred to her..
 

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