same thing backhome. Admittedly things back home are much easier(no online dating,poor,lack of decent jobs so everyone is on min wage if they have a job that is ,no whites,no 6'5 ethnics etc etc etc),but if you are on the minority expect people to understand you even less. i am going backhome this year and see where life takes me. thinking of becoming a baker as there are a lot of bakeries back home and jobs for bakers seem to appear once in a while,so it's worth trying. everyone there is on min wage and on the risk of getting kicked out at any time,so i am not worried much.i sure as heck never had a chance in london,so if i have a minuscule chance back there that is better then nothing. heck this year i thought about becoming a homeless pilgrim(staying in london is driving me crazy),so anything that helps me cope with life for a bit longer is good.