Theory Is never having a girlfriend seriously bad for a guy?

[Clownworldcell]

What if never having an intimate partner is bad for you?

Some guys who can’t be ok with rejection turn to stalking other guys that don’t deal with rejection so quickly will take the rejection as match that only adds oil to the fire of insecurities with in them causing them to only ever feel more and more sick with insecurities the more they fail. Many guys who fail to get a partner see the world as an unfair place and will even feel struggle with intense jealousy at the sight of those who attain relationships while others may struggle with anxiety due to they’re failure to attain a relationship.


I have never had a girlfriend that genuinely loved me and it caused me to feel really upset and insecure about myself are men that never attained a genuine intimate relationship doomed to struggle with the phsychologicall consequences of feeling unloved lonley and insecure?. I did get over never having a girlfriend that genuinley loved me where the attraction was mutal I’m kind of happy the desire went away cause it feels like I healed and found some meaning in being ok and being at peace with what I can’t control about someone. The truth is that you can’t control who will like you or find you attractive so dating is basically a predetermined game of odds where more things you can’t control determine what gets you in a relationship or not than things you can control.

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

It affects you a lot with mental health yes

 

[SEX NIGGA]

It is only Bad for you as a oofy doofy

 

[NEB.feelsdevil]

Absolutely, without question.

Biologically and socially, a human male is supposed to have a female companion for affection, love and sex. Being with a woman improves mental health, physical health, gives you a confidence boost.

A man's power (looks, wealth, fame) is directly proportional with his ability to attract women.

 

[Clownworldcell]

a human male is supposed to have a female companion for affection, love and sex.

Men who never attain partners that love them are basically suffering with living a life where events in they’re life did not end the way they should have ended

 

[Halfpassedover]

I get joy and satisfaction from other things, but a relationship with a like-minded woman who actually sees me as a sexual being with needs too would be great. It's a gnawing desire that biology has cursed me with. Every foid I've met so far has been a dumb bitch who literally sluts around for every other guy and completely ignores me as a man. It's bullshit. I'll live, but people who act like we're wrong for wanting what everyone else gets for nothing can go fuck themselves. The extra stigma of being a man who is single comes from society's ignorance.

 

[Mr.Breb]

Absolutely, without question.

Biologically and socially, a human male is supposed to have a female companion for affection, love and sex. Being with a woman improves mental health, physical health, gives you a confidence boost.

A man's power (looks, wealth, fame) is directly proportional with his ability to attract women.

this and the life long consequences no teenage has for us

 

[tired as fuck]

we're the way we are because of how society treated us over the years.
That said, not having anyone will fuck you up irreversibly, not just a gf but also just a friend. It's just gonna fuck up your perspective of things.
Guaranteed if people here had a gf, they'd be normies.

 

[Clownworldcell]

we're the way we are because of how society treated us over the years.
That said, not having anyone will fuck you up irreversibly, not just a gf but also just a friend. It's just gonna fuck up your perspective of things.
Guaranteed if people here had a gf, they'd be normies.

Your right loneliness is extremely bad for anyone

 

[OverLoner]

Yup I'm messed up and no longer resemble a decent man. I rather just screw whores these days. Way more fun than any potential future with a woman who probably has kids already and will expect me to be grateful. How would you feel being spat on for over a decade? Probably not too good.

A man's power (looks, wealth, fame) is directly proportional with his ability to attract women.

It's sad but it's true. Since attraction is superficial I guess I might as well just keep seeing whores then even if I get rich. At least they're honest about the dynamic.

 

[Lunaticcurrycel]

It is only Bad for you as a oofy doofy

What are you trying to say?

 

[nihilum]

It’s one of the worst things actually. Cope if you think otherwise.

 

[Morbilius]

It’s one of the worst things actually. Cope if you think otherwise.

Being in a relationship with a modern woman is a fate worse then death. If you aren't a chad it shouldn't even be a fantasy, you'd be relegated to an oofy doofy emotional punching bag.

 

[Takuji Mamiya]

No shit. You inherently need connection.

 

[literallyretarded]

yes its bad

 

[nihilum]

Being in a relationship with a modern woman is a fate worse then death. If you aren't a chad it shouldn't even be a fantasy, you'd be relegated to an oofy doofy emotional punching bag.

What if the modern woman is sexually attracted to me and loves me and let me have sex with her when I want.

 

[Morbilius]

What if the modern woman is sexually attracted to me and loves me and let me have sex with her when I want.

Any guy would love that, but it sadly doesn't exist for us

 

[nihilum]

Any guy would love that, but it sadly doesn't exist for us

It’s so fucking over.

 

[mrlunatic]

why would it be? I never had a gf and look, I am now one of the most respected users on .is.

 

[She Does Not Exist]

Besides the whole mental health thing, which is agreed upon, there is the whole 'I never dated anyone' thing.

Past certain age a woman will question why you are 'unskilled' in dating, men are praised and considered 'experienced' for higher body counts, if you are 24+ and never had a girlfriend the most you gonna get past that age is a modern woman using as a doormat, nothing else.

Anything between the ages of 20~28 will trauma dump on you until your ears bleed, even if you are some rando, no joke.

But don't worry, with age (if you don't kill yourself in Minecraft) you will feel less pain.

 

[swagdisease400]

yes it is terrible, one of the few things that can make you truly happy and make life worth living is just denied to us because of our inferior genetics

 

[LeFrenchCel]

It affects you a lot with mental health yes