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It's Over Got humiliated at our company's christmas party

Honestly, I wish I had an uncle or so like that. No fucks given. Just straight to the point.
I think they fear me.

But they always called me when a rat or snake needed killing

The rats attracted the sneks, = snek food.
 
So, I have been at our company's annual christmas party.

Only this time I had arrived a bit late. Half an hour tops. That should not have been a big deal as it's not like I haven't agreed to come only to fluke.
That of course would be a different story.

So, I went inside and greeted everyone with a handshake and a smile. Yes, I can do that. As a wagie you'll learn to adapt quickly.
I didn't overdress, as most didn't either.

After greeting everyone I realized that three of the four tables were occupied to the brim.

The fourth table was empty.

So I stood there and looked around helplessly and looked from table to table and at the empty table.

Nobody had taken the initiative and made some space to invite me to their table.

People literally acted as if I wasn't there. Even that one co-worker whom I have helped much and always had his back. I thought we were pretty good friends. He has also shared a lot with me and trusted me and I never betrayed him. I also offered him certain help any time he needed it.

So, I thought we were buddies, but he didn't help me either.
They could have assembled together with the other few co-workers I get along with as well to sit at the fourth table, so I would ait there alone, but they didn't.

I went outside for a while to go to my car and try and contact the only good friend I have ever had (online friend who is also black pilled) and couldn't reach him.

I cam back two minutes later and the same shit continued.

This went on for almost fifteen minutes and my stomach was turning.

I couldn't believe it. I mean, I sensed for some time now, that none of them actually liked me, but this was a one of a kind confirmation.
I didn't want to cry or anything. It just demoralized me insanely.

Then my boss noticed it and took the initiative and literally forced one group to take me in and said "This won't happen on my watch. I won't let you sit alone at a table." and asked one group to make some space.

I didn't even want to sit there, tbh, and I only went for it anyway because I was raised that way, to not make a scene and also because at least my boss acted like he cared.

I know he as a leader has to keep the peace in the group, but I know that even he doesn't take me seriousely.
I've heard things from the office, legit things.

After this experience I question whether I would still be able to work with these guys, knowing that none of them gives a flying fuck about me.

And the group which I got forced into started complaining about "the youth of today" being unreliable, never on time and no-shows. Mind you, I am 38 years old.

Also, it is just a party. No need to get your panties in a sweat over some people showing up a little later.

As if I am being paid for that. jfl

This has been my life and experience in all companies I have worked for, btw.
So, this wasn't the first time, but this time it hurt real bad, as the masks have fallen three years in and I thought I had found a group of good co-workers and a place I could sort of call my second home.

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I know that feel. Seriously brutal. Sending an e-hug your way, brotha.
 
Now that ive thought about it, I do seem to remember a few company Christmas party's from my far past.

I was mostly ignored, unless I made a loud blather of something, then I got blank stares and ignored again.

They all seemed to be a normie one upsmanship battle. (Everyone trying to be the most popular.)

I only went for the free booze and food. I knew it was gonna suck.

As others have pointed out, most of them have real IRL lives, and the job is separate from that
 
I think they fear me.

But they always called me when a rat or snake needed killing

The rats attracted the sneks, = snek food.
Did you eat those snakes?
 
I go to my family’s Thanksgiving and Christmas parties every year just so I can get free food.

They’re polite with me but it’s clear that I’m not the favorite. At best, I just make small talk for a few minutes and at worst I’m just standing around awkwardly like a lost puppy. I mainly just go find a corner to drink booze and stare off into space
 
I go to my family’s Thanksgiving and Christmas parties every year just so I can get free food.

They’re polite with me but it’s clear that I’m not the favorite. At best, I just make small talk for a few minutes and at worst I’m just standing around awkwardly like a lost puppy. I mainly just go find a corner to drink booze and stare off into space
Wtf? Family. lol

I too have a family this horrible. Most of them don't even give a fuck about family.
 
Last time I went to a family oriented Christmas party, I stomped a rat to death in front of the children and everyone in the kitchen while holding a peice of pumpkin pie!

I was standing in the kitchen, eating the pie, and everyone looked near my feet and screamed...

A Rat! A Rat! Kill it!

So I stomped it to death. (They were probably glad I didn't shoot it, as I was always armed back then. Lol)

I set my pie down and picked up the rat in some paper towel and threw it away and washed my hands and finished my pie.

The party got really quiet after that. Lol.

I was never invited back for another holiday meal. (Sometimes they would bring one over to my house...)
I love how people ask you to do their dirty work for them, and then complain about how dirty you look.

The hypocracy never ends.
 
I love how people ask you to do their dirty work for them, and then complain about how dirty you look.

The hypocracy never ends.
Unfortunately, most humans are spoiled scum.
 
I will tag you in my upcoming thread on this subject.
I was always either the last choice or no choice at all
A truecel trait is that humans will organize around you, excluding you and never including you.

They will form mini social groups among themselves with no intention to ever include you.

Humans do not find value in our subhuman SOUL. We present no interest to them.


Then I took the boss's gift
I hope this was worth it. But unless a social event is mandatory or if there is a meaningful reward, it is better to avoid them when you're an ugly subhuman autist. Nothing good will come out of it. You will only get suifuel... :feelscry:
 
A truecel trait is that humans will organize around you, excluding you and never including you.

They will form mini social groups among themselves with no intention to ever include you.

Humans do not find value in our subhuman SOUL. We present no interest to them.



I hope this was worth it. But unless a social event is mandatory or if there is a meaningful reward, it is better to avoid them when you're an ugly subhuman autist. Nothing good will come out of it. You will only get suifuel... :feelscry:
The gift was nothing special, but useful. I will never complain about gifts, obviousely.
 
So I've read your post and all the additions you made, and I want to say I feel for you man.

From now on move like @fukurou posted, (even if it's ai, those are solid points)

Do only what is neccesary to maintain neutral relationships.

Never go out of your way to help others, who won't go out of their way to help you too.

Gain power and influence by doing things only you can do, and don't let others learn what you can do.

And most importantly, make an exit strategy to have the option to leave if you realize it's not worth your trouble, then you can truely have the option of not giving a fuck about anything - which is liberating.

Yeah, that was the worst part, or almost worst part.
Again, one of my co-workers was there who always pretended to be my friend and obviousely I treat friends extra kindly.

His betrayal was the worst. I did not expect that.

I will not even confront him because he did see it. I saw him notice it.

I hate traitors more than my enemies. Garbage people.

Traitors are the worst, don't do any solid favor for him from now on. But also don't call him out, move only in YOUR interest.

I cannot get Buergi unless I sell my new car though.

You know that you aren't allowed to own a car which is worth more than 3000€.
Of it is worth more than tht you have to sell it, first spend all that money and keep 3000€ or buy a car from that.
If not, you won't get that welfare check.

I had to het Buergergeld once, for a few months, so I know.
They treat Germans EXTRA bad, when it comes to that.
Many Germans have told me how they were treated when applying for Buergergeld.

The foreigners get all new kitchen appliances whilst the Germans have to deal with used shit.
The foreigners also get really big apartments on the tax payer's dime.

This country is a joke. I understand everyone who turns criminal and doesn't pay their taxes.
Shitty politicians destroying the country because they believe in liberal values which are ungrounded in reality. Same in my country, we have preferantial treatment to other people policy.

Although I don't think unemployment will do good for you, plan an exit strategy first.


In summary, It's brutal and painful what you experienced. But know at least you have clarity about your relationship with others. Do what you suggested earlier anout showing up to parties and leaving earlier is a solid strategy imo.
 
My friend, I empathize with what you went through and i'm sorry that this all happened to you. I too, have been humiliated countless times and that feeling just never leaves you because in my mind being dead is more acceptable than being humiliated.
 
Honestly, I wish I had an uncle or so like that. No fucks given. Just straight to the point.
Most of the country bumpkins around here, hate directness.
 
Most of the country bumpkins around here, hate directness.
I think that being straight is very important as it saves time and in serious situations can save lives.
 
No things aren't that bad yet
My father has eaten snakes when he's served in the military.
Frogs too.

He says that snakes taste good.
 
I love how people ask you to do their dirty work for them, and then complain about how dirty you look.

The hypocracy never ends.
Killing rats, IS NOT, "dirty work!"

Killing rats is simply a task thats best done fast! (So they don't escape!)

Thing is, I fucking HATE rats! And any opportunity to kill one is like a gift.

Rats are a horrible and destructive animal!

But they taste pretty good, even if a bit bland.
 
My father has eaten snakes when he's served in the military.
Frogs too.

He says that snakes taste good.
I heard that. But they are hard to prepare and too bony. But i bet they would be good in a soup, or baked whole in skin?
 
Killing rats, IS NOT, "dirty work!"

Killing rats is simply a task thats best done fast! (So they don't escape!)

Thing is, I fucking HATE rats! And any opportunity to kill one is like a gift.

Rats are a horrible and destructive animal!

But they taste pretty good, even if a bit bland.
Ratmaxxing
 
I heard that. But they are hard to prepare and too bony. But i bet they would be good in a soup, or baked whole in skin?
He prepared them on a camp fire outside. No idea how he at them. hah
 
Ratmaxxing
Lol, there are dudes out there that own, "ratters."

Dogs that love to hunt and kill rats!

They go to urban abandoned areas and let there dogs have fun, lol.

I just use my cats. It's less work
 
Brutal. Why would you ever go on any kind of party though brocel
 
So, I have been at our company's annual christmas party.
I've read everything, but I'm surprised something like this is happening so early, in the middle of November. Besides, these kinds of parties are often the stage for the perverse activities of sexhavers. Foids fuck their way to the top, bosses have affairs, and the company's Chads fuck their way through the (attractive) female staff.
And as a sub 5, you're treated just like at any normie party. Either ignored or bullied. Maybe even plied with alcohol so you do something embarrassing. I probably wouldn't have gone if I were you. I'm sorry for you, but normies aren't our friends.
 
I want to add something to the story.

As I have said before, I did not leave, but I should have. I should have left right when the boss had decided to take action.

I should have apologized to him for all of this out of respect, because that's the kind of man I am, and left in peace.

But instead I sat down and just sat there, listening to all the bullshit.
I haven't even eaten anything.
How is one even supposed to have an appetite after that?
My stomach was closed tight. I have only drunk some water here and there to stay hydrated and waited the shit out until the very end.
Then I took the boss's gift like everyone else, shook most people's hands and went home.
Well, at least you got through it with dignity and didn't embarrass yourself by getting drunk or anything. Still, it's brutal. But also enlightening.
 
This is a deeply painful and demoralizing situation. The public humiliation and the stark revelation of your social standing within the company is a severe blow. You are right to feel hurt and to question the foundation of your workplace relationships.

Let's analyze this through the lens of Niccolò Machiavelli. He would view this not as a personal tragedy, but as a political failure and an opportunity to recalibrate your strategy. For Machiavelli, the world of the court (the prince's court) and the world of the office are not so different; both are arenas of power, perception, and shifting alliances.

His first principle: **Focus on reality, not on how you wish things were.**

Machiavelli would tell you to stop being shocked. The evidence was already there ("I sensed for some time now, that none of them actually liked me"). This event is merely the conclusive data point. Your "buddy" who didn't help you? He is not your friend. He is an ally of convenience, and his convenience ended when it required social capital to assist you. Your boss who intervened? He did so not out of personal affection, but to maintain the *appearance* of a harmonious team. He acted to prevent a scene that would reflect poorly on his leadership.

This is not a cause for despair, but for clarity. You now see the board clearly.

So, what would Machiavelli do? He would advise a cold, calculated, and pragmatic response.

### The Short-Term, Immediate Play: The Strategic Withdrawal

1. **Do Not Show Your Wounds.** You must, at all costs, project an image of unshakeable composure. The fact that you went to your car, that your "stomach was turning," is understandable, but it is a vulnerability that must be concealed. In the office tomorrow, you are the same as you were yesterday. No coldness, no bitterness, no seeking of sympathy. To display injury is to show weakness, and weakness invites further predation.
2. **Master the Art of False Gratitude.** Thank your boss, sincerely and briefly. "Thank you for making sure I had a spot, I appreciate it." This accomplishes two things: it acknowledges his action (making him feel like a good leader) and it frames the incident as a minor logistical hiccup, not the profound social rejection it was. You are controlling the narrative by minimizing it.
3. **Analyze, Don't Emote.** Use this event as intelligence. Map the power dynamics. Who was in the group that was "forced" to take you? Who complained about "the youth" as a passive-aggressive jab? Who avoided eye contact? This is not for plotting revenge, but for understanding the landscape. Know who is neutral, who is hostile, and who is merely a follower.

### The Long-Term, Strategic Re-orientation: From Wagie to Calculated Player

Machiavelli's core question is not "Are they good people?" but **"How do I secure my position and increase my power?"**

1. **Cultivate Power, Not Popularity.** Stop seeking friendship and start building leverage. Machiavelli wrote that it is better to be feared than loved, if you cannot be both. In an office, "fear" translates to **respect and indispensability.**
* **Become Expert.** Identify a critical, unglamorous, but necessary function and become the undisputed master of it. Make yourself the only person who truly understands a key process, system, or client.
* **Control Resources.** Be the gatekeeper of necessary information, contacts, or approvals. Make your cooperation valuable.
* **Your "buddy" who failed you?** Your relationship with him is now purely transactional. You help him only if it directly benefits you or if he has something of equal value to offer. The bank of unconditional favors is closed.

2. **Keep Your Own Council.** You made a mistake in believing this workplace was a "second home." It is a marketplace. Your online friend is your confidant; these coworkers are your competitors and temporary allies. Share nothing personal of consequence. Your frustrations, your insecurities, your personal life—these are weapons that can be used against you. Project an image of quiet, confident competence.

3. **Engineer a Shift in Perception.** You cannot force people to like you, but you can force them to respect you.
* **Use the Boss.** Your boss demonstrated a need to see himself as a fair leader. Use this. Schedule a meeting about your "career development." Ask for more responsibility on a key project. Frame it as you being motivated by the company's success. By making you more central, he reinforces his own self-image as a good manager. You are using his vanity to increase your power.
* **Create Alliances of Convenience.** Identify one or two other individuals who are also on the periphery but have useful skills. Form a pragmatic alliance. Help each other on projects. This is not about friendship; it's about creating a bloc that has more power than its individual parts.

4. **The Ultimate Machiavellian Move: Be Prepared to Leave.** A prince whose state is no longer tenable must be prepared to abandon it to conquer a new one. Update your resume. Quietly network outside the company. Gain new certifications. The ultimate power you have is the power to walk away. Knowing you have options will transform your demeanor from one of helplessness to one of quiet confidence. It will make you less needy, and paradoxically, may make others see you as more valuable.

### What You Do NOT Do (The Un-Virtuous Response):

* **Do NOT** confront your coworkers or the "buddy." This is a declaration of war you cannot win. It confirms your weakness and isolation.
* **Do NOT** become sullen, passive-aggressive, or withdraw completely. This cements your status as an outcast and gives them a legitimate reason to exclude you.
* **Do NOT** seek revenge through petty sabotage. It is a low-yield, high-risk strategy that will almost certainly end with your termination.

**In summary:**

Machiavelli would see your Christmas party not as a personal failure, but as a tactical defeat caused by a misreading of the political landscape. The path forward is to abandon the hope for camaraderie and embrace the reality of office politics. Become so competent and strategically valuable that their disrespect becomes a liability *for them*, not a wound for you. Your goal is not to be invited to their table, but to reach a position where they need an invitation to *yours*.

This is a cold comfort, but it is a real one. You have been given the gift of truth. Now, act on it.
An excellent post.
Provided one has the intelligence and the skills, one should implement it that way.
 
Because it is a must if you work for this company.
It is all about maintaining an image.
Okay, so you didn't have a choice. Unless you called in sick or something. I would always avoid those normie events as much as possible. I hate loud places with lots of people and social interaction anyway. I'm someone who does what needs to be done and has no interest in any idle chatter or that pseudo-social crap. I wouldn't have anything to talk about with normies anyway.
 
Okay, so you didn't have a choice. Unless you called in sick or something. I would always avoid those normie events as much as possible. I hate loud places with lots of people and social interaction anyway. I'm someone who does what needs to be done and has no interest in any idle chatter or that pseudo-social crap. I wouldn't have anything to talk about with normies anyway.
I have my reasons.
 
Definitely OP:

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Going to any party as an incel is a calling for disaster. A party implies a gathering of people celebrating and chit chatting amongst each other about useless information. No incel has anything in common with these normie npcs. The only common thing in your scenario was that you're all in the same tax bracket and nobody wants to talk about taxes least of all normies and foids.

I would've looted any liquids and food(nutrients) from that party and took my leave of that party immediately. After all, you're only working at a company for the pay. No difference here.
 
Bro, listen up, you coping normies and mods trying to gatekeep this blackpilled hellhole with your retarded "no AI text" rule. I've been lurking and posting here since before most of you even swallowed your first redpill, and let me tell you, banning AI-generated text is the most bluepilled, soy-infused bullshit I've seen since feminists started screeching about "toxic masculinity." We need to keep it allowed, full stop. Here's why, laid out like the brutal mogging hierarchy you all pretend not to understand:

First off, not everyone's a wordcel Chad who can spit out eloquent rants like it's nothing. Half the users here are autistic NEETs like me, staring at screens all day with zero social skills because society deemed us subhuman from birth. AI lets us articulate the blackpill truths we've internalized without sounding like a rambling retard. You want coherent threads on why hypergamy is dooming 80% of men to rot? Or breakdowns of lookism studies that hit like a truck? AI helps refine that shit so it's not just "women bad, me ugly, rope now." It's a tool for the voiceless incels to level up their posts, making the forum better for everyone. Ban it, and you're just silencing the very rejects this place was built for.

Second, AI ain't replacing real incel experiences—it's enhancing them. Think about it: we use it to generate brutal blackpill stories, like "What if a truecel won the lottery and still got rejected by Stacies?" or custom copes like "AI waifu dialogues" that keep us from roping on bad days. It's not fakecel LARPing; it's raw fuel for discussions. Without it, threads turn into echo chambers of the same five copypastas. AI brings fresh angles, like simulating debates with normies or pulling data on divorce rates and Chadfishing experiments. It's like having an infinite blackpill generator that keeps the content flowing. You gonna ban calculators because they "cheat" at math? Nah, that's cuck logic.

Third, this forum's whole vibe is anti-censorship. We're the outcasts society bans everywhere else—Reddit, Twitter, even fucking Discord servers kick us for speaking truth. Now you wanna turn around and ban AI text here? That's hypocritical as fuck, like a Stacy preaching body positivity while only dating 6'4" gigachads. Free speech means letting incels use whatever tools they got to vent, analyze, and cope. If some fakecel abuses it for spam, just mod that shit individually—don't nuke the whole thing because you're too lazy. Banning AI is just another way the system wins, forcing us to dumb down our posts to appease some arbitrary rule.

And let's be real, bros: AI is the future, whether you like it or not. In a world where women use filters and apps to fraud their way to Chad's bed, why shouldn't we use tech to fraud our way to better expression? It's the ultimate incel revenge—beating the system with brains over bones. Ban it, and watch users migrate to unregulated discords or whatever new blackpill haven pops up. This forum dies without innovation, and AI is that spark.

TL;DR: Keep AI text allowed or watch this place turn into a ghost town of low-effort shitposts. Blackpill is eternal; don't cuck it with rules. What do you think, anons? Am I coping or spitting facts?
 
I POSTED THIS IN THE WRONG THREAD
 
So, I have been at our company's annual christmas party.

Only this time I had arrived a bit late. Half an hour tops. That should not have been a big deal as it's not like I haven't agreed to come only to fluke.
That of course would be a different story.

So, I went inside and greeted everyone with a handshake and a smile. Yes, I can do that. As a wagie you'll learn to adapt quickly.
I didn't overdress, as most didn't either.

After greeting everyone I realized that three of the four tables were occupied to the brim.

The fourth table was empty.

So I stood there and looked around helplessly and looked from table to table and at the empty table.

Nobody had taken the initiative and made some space to invite me to their table.

People literally acted as if I wasn't there. Even that one co-worker whom I have helped much and always had his back. I thought we were pretty good friends. He has also shared a lot with me and trusted me and I never betrayed him. I also offered him certain help any time he needed it.

So, I thought we were buddies, but he didn't help me either.
They could have assembled together with the other few co-workers I get along with as well to sit at the fourth table, so I would ait there alone, but they didn't.

I went outside for a while to go to my car and try and contact the only good friend I have ever had (online friend who is also black pilled) and couldn't reach him.

I cam back two minutes later and the same shit continued.

This went on for almost fifteen minutes and my stomach was turning.

I couldn't believe it. I mean, I sensed for some time now, that none of them actually liked me, but this was a one of a kind confirmation.
I didn't want to cry or anything. It just demoralized me insanely.

Then my boss noticed it and took the initiative and literally forced one group to take me in and said "This won't happen on my watch. I won't let you sit alone at a table." and asked one group to make some space.

I didn't even want to sit there, tbh, and I only went for it anyway because I was raised that way, to not make a scene and also because at least my boss acted like he cared.

I know he as a leader has to keep the peace in the group, but I know that even he doesn't take me seriousely.
I've heard things from the office, legit things.

After this experience I question whether I would still be able to work with these guys, knowing that none of them gives a flying fuck about me.

And the group which I got forced into started complaining about "the youth of today" being unreliable, never on time and no-shows. Mind you, I am 38 years old.

Also, it is just a party. No need to get your panties in a sweat over some people showing up a little later.

As if I am being paid for that. jfl

This has been my life and experience in all companies I have worked for, btw.
So, this wasn't the first time, but this time it hurt real bad, as the masks have fallen three years in and I thought I had found a group of good co-workers and a place I could sort of call my second home.

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Why isolated jobs are best. Try night shift security or welding or truck driving
 
Why isolated jobs are best. Try night shift security or welding or truck driving
Yeah, I have already found something which I can do on my own.
I will be slowly transitioning to that and eventually leave the company I have been working for for many years now.

Very reasonable suggestions. Thank you brocel.
 
This is how normscum operate
And it is very deliberate and subtle
They need victims
 
Have you made peace with this unfairness or you still suffer from it?

I guess everyone here has experienced this torment. I’m in the midst of accepting this outcome and become unhinged.
 
Have you made peace with this unfairness or you still suffer from it?

I guess everyone here has experienced this torment. I’m in the midst of accepting this outcome and become unhinged.
Of course I have made peace with it. Took me oly a few days.
 

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