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When I lived in a huge city in the West, going to the restaurant alone from time to time was plausible. By plausible, I mean you can fake having a good reason to go there. For instance, during working days, you can pretend you're eating your lunch among regular employees or students minding their own business around. You can fit in as some of them just eat alone, relatively quickly, to get back to work as soon as possible. People won't look at you, everyone has stuffs to do, and that's for the better even if it can get depressing on the long run.

But now I live in a totally different environment. I'm in a third world country were basically I don't look "local". If I go to the restaurant alone, people look at me and start asking questions. Some of them are even trying to take advantage of me, increasing prices, or literaly try to steal my stuffs. As most of people here do not work and just sit here all day talking about what's new in town, I can't fit in at all.

Are there buddy boyos in the same situation ? Would you LDAR at home or try to go to the restaurant anyway ?
 
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tourists get grifted hard in the third world, go to a more expensive place or grab your food to go
 
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You can just take the food home or have it delivered right?
 
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I see oldcels and even sometimes post menopausal foids eat alone on the tables outside of restaurants at times. Never seen a young foid alone though.
 
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turbocuckcel_7000 said:
tourists get grifted hard in the third world, go to a more expensive place or grab your food to go
I'm not even a tourist, I work here. :cryfeels:
 
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What type of restaurants are we talking about? I eat at fast food restaurants alone semi-frequently
 
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Pengwin said:
You can just take the food home or have it delivered right?
Take it home why not. There's no service like "uber eat" here. I miss the restaurant feeling you had in the first world ngl.
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I see oldcels and even sometimes post menopausal foids eat alone on the tables outside of restaurants at times. Never seen a young foid alone though.
Yeah, this is a loser habit, I know right.
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What type of restaurants are we talking about? I eat at fast food restaurants alone semi-frequently
No, it's a local restaurant. People could spit in your food if they wanted.
 
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Fancy Alcoholic said:
Take it home why not. There's no service like "uber eat" here. I miss the restaurant feeling you had in the first world ngl.
Where are you though?
 
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Pengwin said:
Where are you though?
I won't say it to avoid doXxing, but I'm definitely not in the west.
 
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Fine dining or casual?
 
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OakLog said:
Fine dining or casual?
Casual af. There no such thing as "fine dining" here.
 
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JFL if you think going to a restaurant alone annoys people. It's going to a restaurant alone as a subhuman that is the problem. Always the worst shit service, always. When you don't tip you get hated because you are expected to tip just for having the right to have such an ugly face.
 
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HappilySingle said:
JFL if you think going to a restaurant alone annoys people. It's going to a restaurant alone as a subhuman that is the problem. Always the worst shit service, always. When you don't tip you get hated because you are expected to tip just for having the right to have such an ugly face.
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Fancy Alcoholic said:
I'm not even a tourist, I work here. :cryfeels:
looking like one is all it takes :feelslala:
 
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turbocuckcel_7000 said:
looking like one is all it takes :feelslala:
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Do the opposite of looksmaxxing so you look poor. Wear worn out old clothes, have messy hair etc.
 
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Solo dining is an awesome cope
 
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Any chance of you making friends with a local ethnicel? Then You could meet up with him for dinner and not get scammed.
 
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ilieknothing said:
Do the opposite of looksmaxxing so you look poor. Wear worn out old clothes, have messy hair etc.
I already do that, and not on purpose. It's over.
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Solo dining is an awesome cope
tbhtbhtbh
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Any chance of you making friends with a local ethnicel? Then You could meet up with him for dinner and not get scammed.
I'm too high inhib and those guys are too racists anyway.
 
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Fancy Alcoholic said:
tbhtbhtbh

Idk why normies have something against it
 
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Fancy Alcoholic said:
When I lived in a huge city in the West, going to the restaurant alone from time to time was plausible. By plausible, I mean you can fake having a good reason to go there. For instance, during working days, you can pretend you're eating your lunch among regular employees or students minding their own business around. You can fit in as some of them just eat alone, relatively quickly, to get back to work as soon as possible. People won't look at you, everyone has stuffs to do, and that's for the better even if it can get depressing on the long run.

But now I live in a totally different environment. I'm in a third world country were basically I don't look "local". If I go to the restaurant alone, people look at me and start asking questions. Some of them are even trying to take advantage of me, increasing prices, or literaly try to steal my stuffs. As most of people here do not work and just sit here all day talking about what's new in town, I can't fit in at all.

Are there buddy boyos in the same situation ? Would you LDAR at home or try to go to the restaurant anyway ?
Ultimate incel trait. I relate