Getting treated like a retarded kid by people your age

[WheelsofConfusion]

Anyone else get treated like a retarded kid by people your own age or even younger? Particularly if you are baby faced and have a small frame? Since I look like a retarded kid and can't speak very coherently in person I am basically treated like an idiot just for existing

 

[TheCrock]

Yes, I've always been treated like this. It makes sense tho, since most 12 year olds are more developed than me.

 

[Deleted member 18214]

They will say “good man” and shit to me, honestly they never treat me as an equal. It’s amazing how simular everyone’s experiences are here.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

Yes, I've always been treated like this. It makes sense tho, since most 12 year olds are more developed than me.

I really want to know what exactly causes a person to lack physical development. When I hit puberty I still look like a child, but my voice deepened a bit and I grew body hair. After a year or two I noticed my peers growing bigger and developing beards and I never did. I simply stayed the same baby face looking kid despite hitting puberty.

 

[jerrycan dan]

When I got a job I noticed that the people who had been working there for longer never swore when speaking to me

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

They will say “good man” and shit to me, honestly they never treat me as an equal. It’s amazing how simular everyone’s experiences are here.

Even members of my family see me as a retard. For example the other day while speaking to my dad about a new job I got on campus, he said "Well you probably just get paid to play games right?". I don't get how people instinctively think it's acceptable to treat someone like a dumb kid for nothing other than your appearance. Just the other day a professor asked me if I still went trick or treating (I'm a 22 year old adult man). I've also noticed if I don't understand something instantly I am treated like a retard.

 

[TheCrock]

I really want to know what exactly causes a person to lack physical development. When I hit puberty I still look like a child, but my voice deepened a bit and I grew body hair. After a year or two I noticed my peers growing bigger and developing beards and I never did. I simply stayed the same baby face looking kid despite hitting puberty.

Genetics, nutrition, activity. I weighed 100lbs in 1st grade of high school, was malnourished as fuck, wouldn't surprise me if that had something to do with it. I grew some body hair, mostly leg hair, my voice barely changed, and my face didn't change at all. Also, my frame and height didn't change either, I have the body frame of a 12 year old.

 

[WheelsofConfusion]

When I got a job I noticed that the people who had been working there for longer never swore when speaking to me

I noticed a similar effect when I worked in a kitchen. Never work in a kitchen or restaurant as an "incel" type guy or you will be in for non stop humiliation

 

[Deleted member 16624]

Yeah.People think im a neckbeard.

 

[andinocel]

I’m an oldcel. I hate to state how old I am, but people my age already have kids and an established career.

I have certainly noticed this, OP

people my age treat me like a kid or, like the thread title, a retard

 

[Uglyme]

I do and that's annoying

 

[littlemanhikicel]

yes I'm treated like that too.

 

[Of Manlets and Men]

Incel trait: Service workers sarcastically calling you "boss." It's like "champ", like a dad telling his retarded kid, "way to go, champ."

 

[what is happening]

I've also noticed if I don't understand something instantly I am treated like a retard.

Incel trait: Service workers sarcastically calling you "boss." It's like "champ", like a dad telling his retarded kid, "way to go, champ."

 

[Deleted member 21504]

Everyone kept me at arms length and my boss (that roasted ppl on the daily) didn't critize my retard mistakes and said that it was "fine" all the time.

They believed that I was retarded, but I just didn't use my head at all. And I did not care to wagecuck, and I did not care to work, and I did not care to remain.