Ok, thanks for explaining, but is my momentary perspective also understandable? As in, it gets boring and unmotivating always having to do everything on my own?
ofc it is we are social animals we arent meant to be alone like this
normie, obviously
Thank you
Definitely. When I was doing activities alone I was sad and very angry. I did not understand why im the one that has no friends. Why im the one who has to watch by the sidelines as the others play soccer. Why im the last person to be chosen on sports teams.
Thanks. Damn, that's so brutal. I was also always the last person to be chosen back when I was in school and had no friends. I'm in my late 20s now.
True...
This is the hypocrisy of society. Women will tell you that sex isn't important but they have sex every day.
If sex isnt that important, i wanna see them stay celibate for 21 years straight. They would already go insane after s month
Watch videos on women who reach the age of 35. They are getting sex but no longer from Chad. They lose their minds.
Its funny to see post wall roasties who travel the world and dive into spirituality to cope because they cant attract Chad anymore
Kekfuel to see how they talk about how they found themselves, what no Chad cock does to a toilet
True. Often, I just don't do it, despite having the possibilities and equipment.
Good point. And you can't know this but my father never cared about me. This is basically the only "advice" he ever gave me... other than once, when my parents bought me an expensive, electric 1-person bed when I was 17: on the drive home, after we picked the bed (parents explicably told the employee it should be a 1-person bed, father said to me "you'll spend half of your life in that bed, it's worth the price!"
That's probably solid advice. I know a few guys with severe constant pain, one's got a herniated disc and can just about stand and walk but not without regular breaks. He's only in his fifties and might have to go on for another thirty or forty years or more with that shit. At least I don't have physical problems compounding the mental ones. Might as well savor being able to move and do things to cope. If we go on long enough time will grind even our bones. Still got some time though.
That makes sense.
Yeah, anyone who says otherwise is coping hard. Humans literally need love and sex to be healthy truly. Also have a need for some decent friends too. Being alone all the time is akin to solitary confinement in prison, something they use as a harsh punishment
Good points. So you understand I'm upset - aside from not getting the love and sex from a gf - that doing actual activities like biking or hiking or anything, gets boring if you always have to do it alone?
Yeah, I get it. I feel the exact same way. It’s only natural to feel this way. I go for long hikes on state park trails, and my mind always imagines having a girlfriend to do it with. When I’m doing more intense hobbies like driving a muscle car, this isn’t a problem because the hobby takes all my focus and doesn’t really need anyone else, but the more peaceful hobbies like walks, going to a restaurant, looking at the sunset, laying in bed, and so on are all things I wish I had a woman for.
Better advice then Eliot rogger dad or mom
Social aniamls still have to compete for a mate
But I'm no competition to anyone. I thought about an animal metaphor but can't come up with one.
Humans need socialization, the fact that you don't have it is proof that society is FUBAR. Now, in a coping sense, he's right, but overall he's wrong because it goes against human nature.
