Discussion Factors in childhood development

[decafincel]

I think a lot about the kids I knew growing up had non-neurotypical parents and peers, and seeing how their lives turned out (many are incel or made terrible life decision). Most people here will be familiar with the Nature vs Nurture debate, but another one, Bandura's Social Learning Theory, states that "most human behavior is learned observationally through modeling: from observing others one forms an idea of how new behaviors are performed, and on later occasions, this coded information serves as a guide for action." and while genetics are (imo) responsible for physical development, I can't help but wonder if I grew up with different parents or was sent to normie schools things would be better (I was homeschooled and attended Baptist schools growing up).

Tldr are incels born, shaped, or both?

 

[HONKLERedux]

for me both

 

[Jew Goy Lab Rat]

degenerate society destroys your psyche, environmental (((factors))) destroy your development (and brain). Biggest blackpill is that your genes couldve been enough

 

[EnviadoVerde]

take a look at this
this kid probably never even chewed properly in his life
still mogs 99% of this forum
environemnt aint shit
genetics r everything

 

[Jew Goy Lab Rat]

take a look at this
this kid probably never even chewed properly in his life
still mogs 99% of this forum
environemnt aint shit
genetics r everything

enough hormone disrupting chemicals couldve turned him incel

 

[EnviadoVerde]

enough hormone disrupting chemicals couldve turned him incel

aka genetics
hes autsitic

 

[Despicablecel]

90% genetics 10% upbringing probably

 

[StepyAkermanskie]

I honestly hate my parents. It hurts me to say it as a Christian, but I can't have any positive feeling for them after what I went through in childhood. Maybe in case of my father I can have a little piece of empathy because he was desperate I guess, but for my narcissistic mother nothing. I hope that at the end they will find peace, but just... without me involved.