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Brutal Truecel trait: You were born Premature

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I was born just over six weeks premature, which led to early physical complications and some learning difficulties growing up. When I was born, I had several problems - such as difficulty digesting certain foods, incredibly underweight, and difficulty regulating temperature (I passed out numerous times from being to cold - and almost died from hyperthermia, with a temperature of 42Β°C / 107.6Β°F).

In the ultrasounds, I was supposed to be a dwarf with an incredibly large nose, as a result of being born so early, but my parents prayed about it and my mother physically felt me growing overnight. In only 24 - 48 hours, my head circumference had almost doubled in size and I had no signs of major physical deformities, even though just a few days prior the results differed.

Over time, I’ve recovered from the physical symptoms, and today I’m rather normal physically. But I’m aware that my outcome could've been much worse. Many people born prematurely deal with lasting physical or neurological challenges, and most people don't recover.

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Brain and Cognitive Development


Premature birth interrupts critical stages of brain development.

Effects include:
  • Learning difficulties (especially with processing speeds which is struggle with)
  • Memory and executive functioning challenges (planning, focus, organisation)
  • An increased risk of developmental delays early in life

That said, many people catch up significantly over time, but many do not.

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Physical and Medical Issues


These are usually most noticeable early in life but can have longer term effects.


Effects from birth:
  • Breathing problems (underdeveloped lungs)
  • Digestion issues
  • Low birth weight
  • Difficulty regulating temperature

Long term effects:
  • Asthma or reduced lung capacity
  • Vision or hearing problems
  • Motor coordination issues
______________________________

Growth and Physical Development


Effects:
  • Smaller size in infancy and childhood
  • Delayed physical milestones (walking, coordination)
  • Long term growth differences
______________________________

Mental Health and Emotional Impact


People born prematurely also have increased risks of:
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Social difficulties
  • Lower confidence (especially due to physical differences - as well as mental differences)


With all this being said, the severity depends on how premature an individual is born - with obviously the earlier, the worse the case generally is.

@InvoluntaryChigga @deleted dude @TheGrayWolf @poorenglishcel
 
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I was born through c section because my head was too big
 
I was born normally and I still had every effect in brain and cognitive development and mental health and emotional impact
 
i was born 2 months premature, and then got brain damage in high school from my friend :feelsUnreal:
 
i was born 2 months premature, and then got brain damage in high school from my friend :feelsUnreal:
Brutal man, what happened with your friend?
 
I was born normally and i weighted 3880 grams. I was also breastfed for 3 years or so. Not trying to brag here.
 
I was born normally and i weighted 3880 grams. I was also breastfed for 3 years or so. Not trying to brag here.
Good to hear. I was also breastfed up until I started kindergarten (5 years old).
 
Born an entire month early, sliced out of womb
 
I was born just over six weeks premature, which led to early physical complications and some learning difficulties growing up. When I was born, I had several problems - such as difficulty digesting certain foods, incredibly underweight, and difficulty regulating temperature (I passed out numerous times from being to cold - and almost died from hyperthermia, with a temperature of 42Β°C / 107.6Β°F).

In the ultrasounds, I was supposed to be a dwarf with an incredibly large nose, as a result of being born so early, but my parents prayed about it and my mother physically felt me growing overnight. In only 24 - 48 hours, my head circumference had almost doubled in size and I had no signs of major physical deformities, even though just a few days prior the results differed.

Over time, I’ve recovered from the physical symptoms, and today I’m rather normal physically. But I’m aware that my outcome could've been much worse. Many people born prematurely deal with lasting physical or neurological challenges, and most people don't recover.

______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________


Brain and Cognitive Development


Premature birth interrupts critical stages of brain development.

Effects include:
  • Learning difficulties (especially with processing speeds which is struggle with)
  • Memory and executive functioning challenges (planning, focus, organisation)
  • An increased risk of developmental delays early in life

That said, many people catch up significantly over time, but many do not.

______________________________

Physical and Medical Issues


These are usually most noticeable early in life but can have longer term effects.


Effects from birth:
  • Breathing problems (underdeveloped lungs)
  • Digestion issues
  • Low birth weight
  • Difficulty regulating temperature

Long term effects:
  • Asthma or reduced lung capacity
  • Vision or hearing problems
  • Motor coordination issues
______________________________

Growth and Physical Development


Effects:
  • Smaller size in infancy and childhood
  • Delayed physical milestones (walking, coordination)
  • Long term growth differences
______________________________

Mental Health and Emotional Impact


People born prematurely also have increased risks of:
  • Anxiety
  • Depression
  • Social difficulties
  • Lower confidence (especially due to physical differences - as well as mental differences)


With all this being said, the severity depends on how premature an individual is born - with obviously the earlier, the worse the case generally is.

@InvoluntaryChigga @deleted dude @TheGrayWolf @poorenglishcel
Same happened to me. I turned out all fucked up
 
For some reason I missed this thread :feelsUgh: :feelsrope:
 

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