thespanishcel
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I've recently seen many threads saying how suifuel uni is as incel but tbh even if at uni I was lonely too and the courses were harder I prefer it many times over high school.
First of all at uni there's so many people that nobody cares about who you are, most will just forget your face once class is over. Students are of different ages and circumstances (some are straight out of high school, others are working, Erasmus, etc.). Unlike high school where everyone knows each other and everyone has pretty much the same background (just finished middle school) so if you're slightly different people will notice and use that against you.
Also at least in Spain we don't have "uni life" you just go when you have class, take your courses and then go home or to the library. We don't have fraternities, societies, no dorms (students just rent a place outside university) and all the other crap from American movies. So if you're a loner no one will really notice tbh.
Finally people are too busy to be bullying you and a bully at university would be considered even more pathetic than the victim.
First of all at uni there's so many people that nobody cares about who you are, most will just forget your face once class is over. Students are of different ages and circumstances (some are straight out of high school, others are working, Erasmus, etc.). Unlike high school where everyone knows each other and everyone has pretty much the same background (just finished middle school) so if you're slightly different people will notice and use that against you.
Also at least in Spain we don't have "uni life" you just go when you have class, take your courses and then go home or to the library. We don't have fraternities, societies, no dorms (students just rent a place outside university) and all the other crap from American movies. So if you're a loner no one will really notice tbh.
Finally people are too busy to be bullying you and a bully at university would be considered even more pathetic than the victim.