The reason I take shallow judgemental peoples opinions of me to heart so much

[trrrrrsarescary]

Im at the point where my entire day can be completely ruined by going outside and seeing someone staring at me with confusion/disgust and if I complain about this then the default thing people say is "you shouldn't care about the opinion of shallow and judgemental people"

But the thing is in my belief, when I notice these shallow and judgemental people staring at me and even laughing at me with their friends when walking past, I am literally witnessing the unfiltered way in which the human brain reacts to the sight of my face. because these people are shallow and judgemental, they by default have less filter and less inhibitions, they can't hide their brains response to my face behind a smile or just quickly looking away out of politeness so in my opinion at least, these peoples reactions to my appearance are a more objective and accurate benchmark for how I actually look to other people

Obviously I still encounter "nice" people who don't stare and look away or maybe even smile at me sometimes and talk to me nicely out of pity, but I GUARANTEE if I was to put both of their brains in a high tech brain activity scan, both of their brains would light up in the exact same regions that light up when viewing an ugly face, the only difference is that the judgemental shallow person fundamentally lacks inhibitions so I'm basically witnessing the raw unfiltered human reaction to my appearance, and for the "nice" people they just simply have more of an ability to hide their brains disgust even though both of their brains fundamentally react to my face the same way

So if anyone ever wonders why I get so fucked up and spiral so badly over these judgemental stares that I get, this is why, it's because I'm essentially seeing the unfiltered raw way in which the human brain reacts to my face

 

[INVERTER]

The sad reality is the ONLY thing that matters in life is what others think of you.

If others don't like you, will you get the job? No. Will you get the promotion? No. Will anyone date you? No.

"Don't care what others opinions are" is just low IQ normie cope since they always got the benefit of the doubt, unlike us

Like you, I take the opinion of random unfiltered idiots seriously because it is real data. I simply cannot ignore a data point. Although in my case, I don't think they are just simply reacting to my face. I am simply hated for being "weird" or ND. I have literally just said hello to someone before only for them to say "That dude weird br0" right as I am leaving within earshot or have older folks smile at me in a pitiful way

Also, at me previous job I remember walking up to a door and hearing my coworkers talking through it saying I am weird. No one ever explains why, just that they don't like me and I am weird. This is the so called open tolerant society BTW

 

[Based_Catcel]

I wish that this world wasn't so judgemental

 

[jo_yugislayer08]

if anyone ever wonders why I get so fucked up and spiral so badly over these judgemental stares that I get, this is why, it's because I'm essentially seeing the unfiltered raw way in which the human brain reacts to my face

Spot on ,normlafags initial reaction upon seeing you is the single most important factor of literally every aspect that matters in life ,you literally can't do anything nor even keep to yourself if they think negatively of you

"Don't care what others opinions are" is just low IQ normie cope since they always got the benefit of the doubt, unlike us

Another copium of them is "nobody cares",No, everybody cares how you look like and how you act in even the most trivial of interactions ,they constantly judge and scan your face and facial expressions to decide how they can take advantage of you (that's the default wiring) ,these same cunts go out of their way to impress a mid toilet or a higher up for an insignificant amount of social credit , bully the unfortunate for a chuckle from their normalfags counterparts , but yeah sure "nobody cares" ,i remember rehab did a vid about them can't recall if it was incel TV or rehab room tho

 

[XDFLAMEBOY]

The sad reality is the ONLY thing that matters in life is what others think of you.

If others don't like you, will you get the job? No. Will you get the promotion? No. Will anyone date you? No.

"Don't care what others opinions are" is just low IQ normie cope since they always got the benefit of the doubt, unlike us

Like you, I take the opinion of random unfiltered idiots seriously because it is real data. I simply cannot ignore a data point. Although in my case, I don't think they are just simply reacting to my face. I am simply hated for being "weird" or ND. I have literally just said hello to someone before only for them to say "That dude weird br0" right as I am leaving within earshot or have older folks smile at me in a pitiful way

Also, at me previous job I remember walking up to a door and hearing my coworkers talking through it saying I am weird. No one ever explains why, just that they don't like me and I am weird. This is the so called open tolerant society BTW

Be likeable is basically survival