Serious Don't know what to talk about, about to enter the last stage of the blackpill.... acceptance

[Justanotherbloke]

Haven't posted any high effort threads in a week or so... simply cause I don't know what to talk about.
Said this numerous times in the past, I feel like I'm truly entering another phase of the blackpill: the 'acceptance stage'.
I've been going back and forth in my mind for 6 months now.... some days I still feel mad and hold animosity towards women, some days I'm at peace and not a thought clouds my mind.
It feels like a tough transition into the other phase, not gonna lie. But once I make it through, I think my stress levels will be way lower than they are right now.
You realize that nothing is in your power to change anything, develop an apathetic attitude towards dating/ women, so why even bother?
My mindset has been:
Things you can't control but still stress over, will only drag you down in life.

I genuinely try to think of topics to talk about on this forum, but I can't, apart from gaming and copes but that's it.

So yea, unless an unexpected revolution occurs and millions of men marched to their capital to topple the government (which wont happen most likely), I doubt anything Will change for the better.
And I accept this, why bother talking about these whores, what they want and the future of dating

 

[GermanManlet]

How old are you? At around age 27 it starts to settle in

 

[Justanotherbloke]

How old are you? At around age 27 it starts to settle in

23,
24 this year.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

23,
24 this year.

Did you experience some sort of 'bipolar period' in your Mid 20s where you truly don't know what to do, the path to take in life and what the future will look like, with insane mood swings?
It's what I'm going through right now, very tough phase.
You know you'll never have a woman, but at the same time can't imagine yourself not having one.

 

[Grodd]

I accepted long ago

 

[Lonelyus]

Im just rotting and goyming

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Im just rotting and goyming

Same here mostly at home when I'm done with work.

 

[Lonelyus]

Same here mostly at home when I'm done with work.

I was wagie and collegecel, wagie from 15 to 21, 17 to 18 college.

Where the fuck did that get me? No GF, No friends from college as always someone had to make rumors...

Bla bla bla

 

[GermanManlet]

Did you experience some sort of 'bipolar period' in your Mid 20s where you truly don't know what to do, the path to take in life and what the future will look like, with insane mood swings?
It's what I'm going through right now, very tough phase.
You know you'll never have a woman, but at the same time can't imagine yourself not having one.

I still experience it nowdays
The situation is different for everyone
Maybe there is hope for you, maybe there is not
For me, changing countries worked
Figure out whatever it is to get a girlfriend

 

[Justanotherbloke]

I was wagie and collegecel, wagie from 15 to 21, 17 to 18 college.

Where the fuck did that get me? No GF, No friends from college as always someone had to make rumors...

Bla bla bla

That's what I said in the past on this forum. I understand NEETS and their mindset. There is no prize at the end of the road, so why even try?
I work just to come home to an empty apartment.
Yea you can buy great copes for the short term such as Xbox, TV's, workout equipment and gaming PC, but after a while you'll get used to it and need other things

 

[qplein]

accept it and continue with your life, u thinking about women not giving u any attention wont change their mind although its easier to accept the blackpill when it works in your favor but nonetheless accepting it is better for you

 

[kcarrots]

acceptance is the key to happiness

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Not much else to do. Just accept, and live

 

[Justanotherbloke]

accept it and continue with your life, u thinking about women not giving u any attention wont change their mind although its easier to accept the blackpill when it works in your favor but nonetheless accepting it is better for you

Exactly, pretty much my mindset

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

Same thing happened to me. Went through the first 4 stages of grief back and fourth for almost an entire year. Eventually I accepted the blackpill and realized there's no way around it.

I genuinely try to think of topics to talk about on this forum, but I can't, apart from gaming and copes but that's it.

Pretty much everything on here has been discussed, it's hard to think of anything new.

So yea, unless an unexpected revolution occurs and millions of men marched to their capital to topple the government (which wont happen most likely), I doubt anything Will change for the better.

 

[curryboy420]

How old are you? At around age 27 it starts to settle in

Why 27

 

[Leonardo Part V]

Not much else to do. Just accept, and live

yep

 

[Justanotherbloke]

Same thing happened to me. Went through the first 4 stages of grief back and fourth for almost an entire year. Eventually I accepted the blackpill and realized there's no way around it.

Pretty much everything on here has been discussed, it's hard to think of anything new.

I think the 'rage phase' is the 2nd hardest, at least for me it was.
I was literally on the brink of doing something crazy and filled with rage, anger etc. I was an absolute psycho, a beast mentally and my blood was boiling.
That lasted for 1-2 Years, and shortly afterwards the depression phase started. And that was the hardest phase.

 

[Justanotherbloke]

I think the 'rage phase' is the 2nd hardest, at least for me it was.
I was literally on the brink of doing something crazy and filled with rage, anger etc. I was an absolute psycho, a beast mentally and my blood was boiling.
That lasted for 1-2 Years, and shortly afterwards the depression phase started. And that was the hardest phase.

And now I'm indifferent towards most things. I just don't care anymore. Nothing is in my control.

 

[Spooky_Heejin]

I was literally on the brink of doing something crazy and filled with rage, anger etc. I was an absolute psycho, a beast mentally and my blood was boiling.

Me too. I unironically (most of it was due to a change of meds) but I contemplated just punching foids out of the blue.

That lasted for 1-2 Years, and shortly afterwards the depression phase started. And that was the hardest phase.

About a year for me too.

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

Not much else to do. Just accept, and live

And work on yourself for yourself, invest and save money especially if wage slaving. There is nothing wrong with having goals and learning self discipline. If for no other reason than to be able to rub your shit in their face. Whether they care or not, don't be humble either - fuck that.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

And work on yourself for yourself, invest and save money especially if wage slaving. There is nothing wrong with having goals and learning self discipline. If for no other reason than to be able to rub your shit in their face. Whether they care or not, don't be humble either - fuck that.

I mean, that's true but how much? IDK about you, but I want to find my happiness.

 

[m3nt4Lbl0ck3d]

I mean, that's true but how much? IDK about you, but I want to find my happiness.

Perhaps along the way you will. Best of luck to you. Chase your dreams, just don't invest those dreams in the wrong people. How do you do that? I don't know, people are cunning and ruthless. Best of luck to you.

 

[AnApparentMyth]

Perhaps along the way you will. Best of luck to you. Chase your dreams, just don't invest those dreams in the wrong people. How do you do that? I don't know, people are cunning and ruthless. Best of luck to you.

Thank you. Seriously, thank you. I can't find it 100% of the time. But for me, I need to get away from people as much as often to have some happy moments in my sad little life. The perfect spot for me is nature. So calm, serene. No hatefuel or anything.