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Serious Does anyone actually think platonic relationships between men and women can exist?

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It seems obvious that they can't but I was wondering if anyone on this forum disagreed with the idea that men can't have platonic relationships with women. Is there anyone that thinks that men can be anything other than an orbiter, boyfriend, or an acquaintance to a woman?
 
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no my nigga
 
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lmao fuck no
 
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It seems obvious that they can't but I was wondering if anyone on this forum disagreed with the idea that men can't have platonic relationships with women. Is there anyone that thinks that men can be anything other than an orbiter, boyfriend, or an acquaintance to a woman?
only if the women is unatractive and assexual at the same time
 
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They do, in some women's minds.

They care so little about what their orbiters feel or think that they can't even comprehend that they wouldn't be satisfied with the privilege of merely being able to exist near her.

Most of the time though, foids fully understand their orbiters and actively manipulate them.
 
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only if the women is unatractive and assexual at the same time
if the woman was so unattractive to the point where you felt absolutely no sexual desire for her, you'd probably be too disgusted by her to have her as a friend.
 
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if the woman was so unattractive to the point where you felt absolutely no sexual desire for her, you'd probably be too disgusted by her to have her as a friend.
i'm disgusting myself, so i think a toleranting our mutual disgust would be better than loneliness
 
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if the girl looks like a guy then maybe
 
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Other than bf’s women only keep you around if they get something out of it
 
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Women treat men who don't want to have sex with them as orbiters too. They only want to take from this "friendship" but don't really give anything back. A female "friend" will just put you through a bunch of shit tests and make everyone know that you're just her friend so that you will end up looking like a beta orbiter anyway.

If you have a female friend as a single man, you will look like a beta orbiter in the eyes of the people so ask yourself if it's worth it. All it takes is one photo together and her pointing out that you're just a friend and you'll end up like those guys in friendzone memes, looking like some weak cuck.

It's just the way society is these days, although I don't remember any point in history where friendships between men and women would exists.
 
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Why hang out with a girl when you can hang with a bro whose probably much easier to get along with and more enjoyable to be around?

The fact is once a girl gets a boyfriend she will likely cut you off anyway.
 
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Hardly, but it may be possible.
 
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lmao fuck no
Women treat men who don't want to have sex with them as orbiters too. They only want to take from this "friendship" but don't really give anything back. A female "friend" will just put you through a bunch of shit tests and make everyone know that you're just her friend so that you will end up looking like a beta orbiter anyway.

If you have a female friend as a single man, you will look like a beta orbiter in the eyes of the people so ask yourself if it's worth it. All it takes is one photo together and her pointing out that you're just a friend and you'll end up like those guys in friendzone memes, looking like some weak cuck.

It's just the way society is these days, although I don't remember any point in history where friendships between men and women would exists.

Bullseye. Based. :blackpill:ed
 
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Women treat men who don't want to have sex with them as orbiters too. They only want to take from this "friendship" but don't really give anything back. A female "friend" will just put you through a bunch of shit tests and make everyone know that you're just her friend so that you will end up looking like a beta orbiter anyway.

If you have a female friend as a single man, you will look like a beta orbiter in the eyes of the people so ask yourself if it's worth it. All it takes is one photo together and her pointing out that you're just a friend and you'll end up like those guys in friendzone memes, looking like some weak cuck.

It's just the way society is these days, although I don't remember any point in history where friendships between men and women would exists.
Nailed it. It’s impossible man. It’s so sad
 
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Not in my experience and if you think you're in one it's only because the girl wants to get with you.
 
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Yes between two neuroatypical people. Not so much with neurotypicals
 
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if one of them is gay or queer, then probably yes
 
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Nope. We did were not meant to be that way. Just because we are kinda smart and are aware of our thoughts doesn't mean we can overcome our nature.
 
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Why hang out with a girl when you can hang with a bro whose probably much easier to get along with and more enjoyable to be around?
This, why hang out with a foid who will sexually tempt and torture you, when you can hang with your boys and actually have fun.
 
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Nope. If you're gay, sure. But if you're straight and she's attractive it's better not to be her "friend" Trust me if you're a Chad she'll want to be more than just "friends" but if you're an average normie and below not so much. Having female "friends" is a joke and I can't believe I once thought that I could get with the female "friends" I once had. But seeing I was bluepilled back then I guess it shouldn't come as a surprise.
 
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They can in some cases. The guy is gay, the guy is assexual (or at least the closest to it you can realistically be), the guy is a Chad who is oversexed from prettier women, etc.

As an incel it's impossible. You're just hurting yourself and lying to yourself.
 
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I guess in some cases, although I've never seen it.

I have a female "friend", tho she treats me as if I was her little brother (most people treat me like that tbh), so it isn't a relationship of equals for her.
 
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If it does then only between chad and stacey
 
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They can in some cases. The guy is gay, the guy is assexual (or at least the closest to it you can realistically be), the guy is a Chad who is oversexed from prettier women, etc.

As an incel it's impossible. You're just hurting yourself and lying to yourself.
Yep friends with females can only exist if you are homosexual and like female company, if you are a straight male you're coping and hoping she gives you a chance but you keep around under the pretext of ''being her friend'', even if they aren't attracted to each other, it shows over time that straight women and men who've known each other for a long time start to develop romantic feelings for each other.
 

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