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Do you think your parents contributed to your situation?

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I love my parents but I think they made many mistakes. A lot of financial mistakes, and also a lot regarding my upbringing.

That rarely listen, don’t understand my emotions, and don’t take what I say seriously. Also sending me to a mediocre public school and they’re “everyone is a winner” attitude towards sports, which hindered me athletically.

Extremely blue pilled too. So many things I could go on about but I’ll end it here

I have to wonder if I had different parents my life might have been much better.

The story of my life is “ What could have been”
 
i mean if they had me on raw milk and an actual diet rather than goyslop maybe i might have been taller, stronger bones etc so yea i blame them a little
 
It doesn't even matter, we are doomed
 
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What do you think?
 
They birthed me, an ugly short autist, and my two foid siblings, who get to live life on just exist mode.

Whatever they did wrong doesn't even matter, and I don't even necessarily hold it against them at this point.

I wouldn't even know what an incel is if I had been born attractive, that is the only bottleneck.
 
yes, they raised me like shit
 
i mean if they had me on raw milk and an actual diet rather than goyslop maybe i might have been taller, stronger bones etc so yea i blame them a little
Can't fix bad genetic code with boosters
 
Yeah not chad genetics
 
That your parents?
No, but they're basically the same type of couple as my parents were

the stereotypical couple of the old white boomer with his filipina wife that everyone assumes was a mail order bride
 
No, but they're basically the same type of couple as my parents were

the stereotypical couple of the old white boomer with his filipina wife that everyone assumes was a mail order bride
Dang...das wild, your mom probably thought she would breed sooperior hapa offspring
 
Yes they had trash genetics, mental issues and poor
 
I meant ASIDE from genetics. You can’t blame your parents for that, because it is out of their control.

The premise of my question was if you had the same genetics but different parents
 
yes, both genes and shamed me multiple times to my friends. Same as helicopter parents
 
When i was a little child, I used to hear fables about how mothers are supposed to love their children unconditionally, and how fathers are supposed to protect and teach their kids to the right and bright future. 15 years later, after running away from home three times, i could only remember the immense resentment andspite i held for my parents. When people talk about how they wish they could retrace their steps and do their parents justice , i literally shake with anger about my own past. I was born into the world only to be doomed by the ones that are supposed to love me and care for me. JFL
 
Of course. Parents play a massive role in how the self esteem of their kids develop. My parents have never made the right choice for me when i was young. They never tought me a single helpful thing either.
 
Parents, its the most important decision in your life and you don't to make it.
 
The premise of my question was if you had the same genetics but different parents
Nothing would have changed. My shit genetics caused all my problems despite my parents giving me decent upbringing. I'd rather have had good genes and a worse upbringing.
 
They should have injected me with growth hormones so I'd be 6 ft
 
They litteraly made the situation
 
true but at least maybe id have a slightly better outcome no?
In height maybe, but other than that no visible improvements
 
No, but genetic recombination can really suck sometimes even if you have optimal parents from a genetic standpoint.

There was not much they could have done and my mother died from cancer complications when I was 15, so I was raised by my father when I was a teenager.
 
Of course. Parents play a massive role in how the self esteem of their kids develop. My parents have never made the right choice for me when i was young. They never tought me a single helpful thing either.
 
Yes
The importance of environmentpill as a whole isn't recognized enough
 
Yes, right now I’m doing research on the environment pill and contributing factors to inceldom, I plan on posting a long high quality IQ post on it
 
They should've put me on a harsher diet, before my height development could get fucked up and before I could develop a fucked up dopamine system.
 
Tall dad + short mom with mental disorder + bad diet consisting of eating slop= a deformed sub 3
 
But it is not only the environment pill there are so many contributing factors.
 

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