Serious What to do once my parents pass away?

[copecopter]

I am a 26 year old university student and I live with my parents. I used to complain about this but now I realized that I am blessed. At least I have my mother and father, for as unbearable they can be, they do love me and are hosting me out of their own pocket.
But once they pass away, I will literally be alone. I won't have anyone to knock my door and ask about my wellbeing.
I need to preemptively find something that gives my life meaning outside of women. I think I will not have a family, ever, sadly.

 

[Belowthesalt]

Inheritance should keep you going

 

[copecopter]

Inheritance should keep you going

No, not that - I will most likely graduate, get a job, and become self-independent and finance my life. I am talking about the emotional side of things.

 

[Belowthesalt]

No, not that - I will most likely graduate, get a job, and become self-independent and finance my life. I am talking about the emotional side of things.

Personally I dont talk much with my parents so I dont know.

 

[The Death Devil]

You just need to adapt while you can, truthfully. You are never going to find anyone that cares about you, so you better get used to the idea of isolation before you actually have to go through it for the rest of your life.

 

[Shrek 2]

Personally I dont talk much with my parents so I dont know.

If they die, move on, be strong. My mother died 11 months ago.

 

[Shrek 2]

You just need to adapt while you can, truthfully. You are never going to find anyone that cares about you, so you better get used to the idea of isolation before you actually have to go through it for the rest of your life.

And all of that is brutal, man.

 

[copecopter]

If they die, move on, be strong. My mother died 11 months ago.

RIP Brocel. How did you cope?

 

[Shrek 2]

RIP Brocel. How did you cope?

I haven't dealt with it, I have no one, no friends, no wife, no family. I'm alone, I'm isolated, I only live by faith.

 

[zd60]

i'll probably just go and die

 

[PhineasSpear]

My parents were terrible and I'm estranged from them so I can't give you a good advice. The best I can say is to keep going forward.

 

[SympathyForMrIncel]

i feel that shit, when my parents are dead i will kill myself. Im disabled and my they are the only thing i live for and they take care for me as good as they can

 

[SympathyForMrIncel]

disabled through chronic pain* haha

 

[ultraincelmega]

i feel that shit, when my parents are dead i will kill myself. Im disabled and my they are the only thing i live for and they take care for me as good as they can

What’s the disability?

 

[ultraincelmega]

I haven't dealt with it, I have no one, no friends, no wife, no family. I'm alone, I'm isolated, I only live by faith.

I’m really sorry for your loss.
This is what I meant on my post, what faith keeps you going? I hope this doesn’t sound insensitive

 

[Shrek 2]

I’m really sorry for your loss.
This is what I meant on my post, what faith keeps you going? I hope this doesn’t sound insensitive

I have faith in Jesus Christ that one day He will wipe away all the tears from my eyes and I will have no more afflictions.

 

[ultraincelmega]

I have faith in Jesus Christ that one day He will wipe away all the tears from my eyes and I will have no more afflictions.

I’m glad you have something to keep you going. I pray that someday you will find someone to accompany you.
How old are you? You should try to find friends online. I found friends on .org it actually helps, I play games with them and everything

 

[mrlunatic]

If they die, move on, be strong. My mother died 11 months ago.

so sorry for your loss.

 

[Shrek 2]

I’m glad you have something to keep you going. I pray that someday you will find someone to accompany you.
How old are you? You should try to find friends online. I found friends on .org it actually helps, I play games with them and everything

I'm 23 years old and I can't make friends in any way. I'm Brazilian and I don't know English.

 

[Shrek 2]

Sinto muito pela sua perda.

:choro:

 

[Emba]

I have faith in Jesus Christ that one day He will wipe away all the tears from my eyes and I will have no more afflictions.

You're supposed to be grateful for all you're afflictions bro.

The way out,
Is,
Through...

 

[Shrek 2]

You're supposed to be grateful for all you're afflictions bro.

The way out,
Is,
Through...

I live by faith, bro, good afternoon to you.

 

[ultraincelmega]

I'm 23 years old and I can't make friends in any way. I'm Brazilian and I don't know English.

They are Brazilians on here right? On .org there are some. There’s also the Brazilian gamers on reddit, you can probably find friends there if you play games.
If you don’t mind me asking what caused your inceldom? What are you facially? Is it a ND thing?

 

[Shrek 2]

They are Brazilians on here right? On .org there are some. There’s also the Brazilian gamers on reddit, you can probably find friends there if you play games.
If you don’t mind me asking what caused your inceldom? What are you facially? Is it a ND thing?

I hate my people, what caused it was my neurodiversity.

 

[ultraincelmega]

I hate my people, what caused it was my neurodiversity.

What’s your copes? Games? Movies?

 

[Shrek 2]

What’s your copes? Games? Movies?

I don't like anything. My room is dirty, the bathroom is dirty, my clothes are dirty, I stink terribly, I don't shower, I keep banging my head against the wall.

 

[ultraincelmega]

I don't like anything. My room is dirty, the bathroom is dirty, my clothes are dirty, I stink terribly, I don't shower, I keep banging my head against the wall.

Oh man I’m really sorry to hear that.
How do you afford to live? What do you do for work?
Why don’t you join a church community?

 

[Shrek 2]

Oh man I’m really sorry to hear that.
How do you afford to live? What do you do for work?
Why don’t you join a church community?

Oh man I’m really sorry to hear that.
How do you afford to live? What do you do for work?
Why don’t you join a church community?

I don't belong anywhere, I'm currently on unemployment benefits, I can't go to church.

 

[erenyeager]

I am a 26 year old university student and I live with my parents. I used to complain about this but now I realized that I am blessed. At least I have my mother and father, for as unbearable they can be, they do love me and are hosting me out of their own pocket.
But once they pass away, I will literally be alone. I won't have anyone to knock my door and ask about my wellbeing.
I need to preemptively find something that gives my life meaning outside of women. I think I will not have a family, ever, sadly.

Mine left me to go and live with their parents

 

[Rejected]

Inherit their will and buy sexdolls

 

[SubhumanOldcel]

Get the heritage then move to country side.

 

[maki4_4]

I'd say rope before that happens.. no support is brutal. No matter how annoying parents are,they keep you sane. Once they are gone prepare for a schizo homeless journey

 

[LeFrenchCel]

Use the copecopter and try to find a way to cope as good as you can

 

[shyloser]

I am going to kill myself I don't have a job and most likely will never get one, I don't want to starve to death

 

[Cryo]

Rope

 

[anon]

I hate thinking about this, but it's coming. I know I won't be able to handle it for more than a couple of minutes. They're my only true friends in this world and they continue to support me, and I don't deserve them, and I hate myself for it.
Once they're gone everything will change instantly and become lifeless, grey, and disgusting, and nothing will matter anymore. My life matters only because it matters to them, and it's why I'm alive.

I'm selfish because I don't want to experience this pain. I want to be gone before they're gone, but it would end their lives, I just know it would.
This is one of the main reasons people seek relationships, and have kids of their own.
Imagine having a kid who loves you the same way you love your parents, and your folks are proud of you and know you're happy because your kid will one day mourn your death, and it'll all have been worth it. That's the ultimate human experience. It's what it's all about - it's why the universe exists.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I am a 26 year old university student and I live with my parents. I used to complain about this but now I realized that I am blessed. At least I have my mother and father, for as unbearable they can be, they do love me and are hosting me out of their own pocket.
But once they pass away, I will literally be alone. I won't have anyone to knock my door and ask about my wellbeing.
I need to preemptively find something that gives my life meaning outside of women. I think I will not have a family, ever, sadly.

I used to be you. I recommend working, saving and investing now and encouraging your parents to save and invest so you'll have something to inherit from them. My parents are both gone now, my mom died a year and a half ago, (I'm in my 40s) but I encouraged my mom to save and invest.

 

[ItsOverMan]

I think you're lucky your parents don't charge you rent. My mom kicked my butt to find a job (she was embarrassed to tell her friends I wasn't working), and when I did she charged me rent every month (but she didn't own her house, she rented an apartment), but I think she was just trying to teach me how to be a responsible adult. But I'm glad she did it all in hindsight.