Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?
I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.
Reasons You Might Say YES:
- He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
- No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
- Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
- Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
- The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
- If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
- Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.
If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.
But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.
It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.
This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.
So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
