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Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
 
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Nah, I've never recommended this place to anyone else
 
I have urged many people to visit this forum. Nowadays like 60% of men my age are incels so.... why wouldn't I want others to join?
 
Community
for this reason alone. without this forum i’d feel like an odds one out, it’s the only place where i can actually speak without being restricted
 
This is the only place I talk to people so, there's nowhere for me to recommend others to join here.
 
I don't know incels outside from here
 
my friends are blue pilled to the max, despite being khhv :lul: if they’re even friends, i don’t talk with them that much
 
This place would only be understood by very few. I think it's better to find it instead of it finding you.
 
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
was a blackpiller long before i was on is and long before I was on org.
even before I was lurking I knew smth was up
was redpilled for a while and that did help me go from subhuman physique(framcel) to decent one but still not getting any foids made me realise there was something else
socially i was probably blackpilled the earliest as I struggled making many friends and didnt spend much time socialising (due to my parents making me a studycel)
 
I don't know any other incels, irl.
 
to be honest, i only bring up the blackpill when someone else says: “persoynality and hard work”. Otherwise i probablh wont give two flying fucks if they go bp or not
 
Yes 1000 times.
 
I recommend them but niggas don't know english me neither i use chatgpt
 
i want to but no, my cousin is a prime candidate for inceldom but he is far too bluepilled
 
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
Na
 
It depends on who the person is, I wouldn't recommend it to any of those bluepilled types since that kind of guy usually gets banned in like 10 posts
 
Only if they show seeds of goodness (what is considered evil to the goyim/normies/neurotypicals)
 
I would only recommend if there is really no hope left for them.
 
I'm actually really bad at judging who has potential. It just seems to be that any lonely person that is really frustrated with women would fit in.

I tried to make Zearift the incel leader for a while back, because he seemed perfect, but ultimately, he rejected the invite, because he wasn't hateful enough.

I think at the end of the day, it's also important that the person you invite here is also racist, and genuinely misogynistic at the time you're inviting him. We like to think we can just change them overnight, but it' likely they will be totally shocked at first
 
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
No I don't nor would I unless the guy is truecel and he is on the verge of roping from isolation
Many can't cope with the blackpill so if I brought them here, they'd be coping out of their mind like the average guy
Funny enough, I stumbled across here from rehab's old channel(inceltv) and reverse image searched and came here
 
Y
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
yeah, I'd recommend it to my fellow inkie
 
No, I don't recommend it to anyone because I don't know anyone to recommend it to.
 
This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.
I wanna know why do u think this? I just joined today but I've been bp'd for abt 4-5 years
 
It depends on the person, if they are deep into loneliness then yes. Not sure tho, i would probably keep my mouth shut.
 
Depends how well you think they will handle the truth. Sone couldn't take it.
 
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
Absolutely yes
 
Yes, because the blackpill describes reality. Over time, an incel will still come to the similar conclusions, regardless of whether they visited .is
 
I'm actually really bad at judging who has potential. It just seems to be that any lonely person that is really frustrated with women would fit in.

I tried to make Zearift the incel leader for a while back, because he seemed perfect, but ultimately, he rejected the invite, because he wasn't hateful enough.

I think at the end of the day, it's also important that the person you invite here is also racist, and genuinely misogynistic at the time you're inviting him. We like to think we can just change them overnight, but it' likely they will be totally shocked at first
Yeah, if they can't say nigger, or cumskin, then they probably don't have what it takes to be cool haters like us.
 
This is a place where you either find it on your own or you havent reached rock bottom
 
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
You bring up lots of good points then destroy the whole thing saying its a trap! Lol...

It's only a trap for doomed folk's. It's not like you have to chew off you're arm to get free. (Yet some beg for temp bans?)

The bros that beg for bans are addicted types that could just as easily be addicted to some other site.

But here you can say nigger, and hate jews. The freedom of speech is nice.

While proudly and loudly hating whites is 100% fine and ok in the normiesphere, but you can do that here too!

But many bros are too hopeful and bluepilled to feel at home here.
 
So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
That's just the thing. I'd feel terrible taking the last bit of hope from someone. I wish I still had some.
 
I can't tell if this is ai written or human written
 
10/10 would recommend to friends and family. Even my 10yo nephew tried to make an account :feelskek:
 
I would recommend this place, and I have but none of them have joined.
 
No one else knows that I'm an incel.
 
I would tell someone to join who is an incel who has no one else to talk to like me before I found this place
 
Most of us ended up here alone, stumbling through search engines and Reddit quarantines, trying to make sense of why being an incel feels so brutal. But what if you met someone like you out in the wild: confused, hurting, and had the chance to “guide” him here? Would you?

I’ve thought about it. And my answer has changed over time.

Reasons You Might Say YES:
  • He’s already suffering, but at least here, his pain gets terms: lookism, hypergamy, SMV, black pill. There’s a strange comfort in knowing you’re not crazy, the game really is rigged.
  • No more fake advice. He can stop listening to normies tell him to “just be confident” or “take a shower.
  • Community. He’ll find people who actually understand what it’s like to be invisible. That alone can ease the isolation.
Reasons You Would Say NO:
  • Once you see it, you can’t unsee it. The black pill doesn’t just explain your suffering, it engraves it into your worldview. It rewires you. It kills any lingering spark of hope or joy, replacing it with bitter resignation.
  • The misogyny is logically justified but bathing in it daily isn't healthy. It turns a reasonable frustration into a consuming rage that only hurts the person holding it. What’s the end goal of extreme misogyny? You want to bring foids down? Why? To fix society? The society that doesn’t care about you? And why waste energy in putting foids in their place? No matter what, they’ll still never want to touch you.
  • If the guy isn’t white, he’ll be reminded daily that in the hierarchy of suffering, he’s considered subhuman even among subhumans.
  • Most of our enemies actually other men. A lot of the bullying, one-upping, and toxic dominance behaviors that happened in school or the workplace just get repackaged here. It’s still other men trying to climb over you to feel slightly less worthless.
At this point, I would not recommend this forum to someone I genuinely like or see potential in.

If I care about him, I’ll tell him to improoove on things he can control. Even if it’s cope, it’s healthier than this.

But if I really dislike someone? Some incel-in-denial arrogant pseudo-normie, a bully, or some clueless moralfag? Yeah, I’d hand him the .is link with a smile: “Here, bro, this place has the answers you're looking for”.

It’s the closest thing to psychological poisoning I can legally offer. I’m offering him truth, but it comes at the cost of developing a mental illness.

This forum is like a cage. Once the door closes, most never find their way back out.

So be careful who you invite. You might just be responsible for robbing someone of whatever light they have left.
woah, im surprised to see a well written post in ID that actually adds something new
 
I don't know other incels, in fact I don't know people in general
 
Love this post OP.
I think you pretty much hit it on the head with your explanation.

Answering this question with a confident "yes" just show that either A. you simply do not give a fuck about anyone, even your favorite brocel or B. You still haven't fully grasped the doom and hopelessness that the black pill entails.

There are probably better explanations somewhere in the must read section, but in a nutshell the black pill is a set of theories rationalizing why incels feel that society treats them a certain way (they're general truths, backed up by data). If you really deep dive into some of these theories like lookism, hypergammy etc... you'll realize how brutal and unfair this world is, it'll make the cruelties of this world stand out in ways no other every-day activity would be able to elucidate so vividly.

I have adhd so the black pill sometimes eludes me because my mind is constantly racing, disabling me from putting two and two together. But when the realization hits, it hits like a truck, you'll feel an inconceivably heavy boulder somewhere deep in you gut and in that moment you realize how wronged you were by this world and your anger dissipates into hopeless dispair. In that moment you want nothing more than to rope.
 
woah, im surprised to see a well written post in ID that actually adds something new
These posts are the reason why I still rot on here. Once you get a taste of the truth, you come back searching for more. Weirdly, even if it does make you more miserable. I could leave this forum, but the black bill will forever be burned into my noodle.
 
This forum , is like the fight club.
 

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