Do you find that your faps/erections aren't as pleasurable/strong since you don't really know any women irl?

[Deleted member 7448]

Here's the thing, I literally have 0 female acquaintances at the moment (nor male but that's a different story). 0 women I could even remotely, conceivably, hypothetically have a chance with. Can't even fantasize about any women cause I don't know any.

So that means that I can't even imagine any fapping scenario that would be somewhat grounded in reality. Can't imagine myself doing anything to a woman, because I don't know any women.

So all that's left is pure fiction, pure porn. And sure, that can be fine if you're really pent up. But there's nothing personal about it, no nuance to make it feel exciting and real. Can't imagine I'm the dude doing the banging, can't imagine the girl being banged is some woman I could possibly actually do that with. Tbh I don't even have morning wood most of the time now, at best a softie sometimes, it's like my dick kinda gave up too.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

fapping feels more like a chore at this point

 

[Gymcelled]

So that means that I can't even imagine any fapping scenario that would be somewhat grounded in reality. Can't imagine myself doing anything to a woman, because I don't know any women.

I feel you. I don't even believe sex is real anymore.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

fapping feels more like a chore at this point

Yeah, like something I do to feel some dopamine. It's barely more exciting than eating a biscuit at this point.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

Yeah, like something I do to feel some dopamine. It's barely more exciting than eating a biscuit at this point.

fapping feels more like a chore at this point

Idk guys sounds like Low T is setting in

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Idk guys sounds like Low T is setting in

Possibly, I mean with my lifestyle that's certainly not out of the question.

 

[LastGerman]

I did not fap in a long time though. I just dropped it.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I did not fap in a long time though. I just dropped it.

Ohh man, that's too bad. I admire the dedication it takes for no fap, it means you're actively doing something to improve your life, no matter if it actually helps or not, it's the attitude and mindset that counts. I think you should keep at it. Personally I've given up on life so there's no point, but you should.

 

[RedIce]

I feel you, it used to be easier for me to fap while fantasizing about different scenarios, but now it feels like a chore. I guess we have more creative imagination when we're younger.

 

[Deleted member 24125]

Idk guys sounds like Low T is setting in

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ehh i used to fap a lot not too long ago.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

I feel you, it used to be easier for me to fap while fantasizing about different scenarios, but now it feels like a chore. I guess we have more creative imagination when we're younger.

This is true.

I keep my imagination kicking because i write and draw. So im always thinking of stuff for my stories. Definitely carries over into my Gorilla fapping

 

[Capable_Onion]

fapping feels more like a chore at this point

 

[RedIce]

I keep my imagination kicking because i write and draw. So im always thinking of stuff for my stories. Definitely carries over into my Gorilla fapping

I guess that's one way to do it as you grow older. I also do a lot of story writing and drawing these days, though mostly fantasy and sci fi.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

I guess that's one way to do it as you grow older. I also do a lot of story writing and drawing these days, though mostly fantasy and sci fi.

Really? Im doing a fantasy story myself. Nice to see a fellow writer brocel.

Is yours high fantasy?

 

[LastGerman]

Ohh man, that's too bad. I admire the dedication it takes for no fap, it means you're actively doing something to improve your life, no matter if it actually helps or not, it's the attitude and mindset that counts.

I just dropped it because I also did no feel an urge to do it. In fact, I actually started fapping at age 21. I always had the ability to control myself better than anybody else.

Personally I've given up on life so there's no point, but you should.

The most crushing part about this, is, that our lives are just pointless. We can be replaced easily by other men who work hard for little money, outearned by females. This is so infuriating. There is no point to be a man anymore.

 

[RedIce]

Really? Im doing a fantasy story myself. Nice to see a fellow writer brocel.

Is yours high fantasy?

I try to stay away from generic high fantasy tropes, but yes, there are a lot high fantasy elements, such as the usual races, magic, gods, etc. Though I try to add a layer of depth and complexity to everything.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

I just dropped it because I also did no feel an urge to do it. In fact, I actually started fapping at age 21. I always had the ability to control myself better than anybody else.

Ohh man, that selt-control is an amazing trait to have. I find it surprising and unbelievable that you can't afford a car then. Germany is a rich country, a man like you should have no problem getting an apprenticeship and making bank.

Alas, these are the times we live in. Good guys who work hard and have the self-control of a spartan can't afford things foids take for granted. It's all about who you know these days, otherwise you'll be a cog in the machine, a slave working for pennies, no matter how much self-control and discipline you have.

 

[ThoughtfulCel]

I try to stay away from generic high fantasy tropes, but yes, there are a lot high fantasy elements, such as the usual races, magic, gods, etc. Though I try to add a layer of depth and complexity to everything.

Same man same.

I'm staying away from the typical (6 crystals of hope and only a party of misfit adventurers can save the world). Sure, i've got magic and races, but mine is more so about a variety of different themes, and how my main character tackles them in the world he exists in.

Basically a world better than this one.

 

[LastGerman]

and unbelievable that you can't afford a car then.

No, it is not that. I am just too retarded to drive.

Germany is a rich country, a man like you should have no problem getting an apprenticeship and making bank.

It is really hard to find an apprenticeship here, specially if you did not study anything. Even if you find a place, you will work hard for little money.

Alas, these are the times we live in. Good guys who work hard and have the self-control of a spartan can't afford things foids take for granted.

It is absolutely infuriating and emasculating. Not only do young females outearn youg men, they are also way more capable than me. This era is not meant for me. I really do not belong here.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

No, it is not that. I am just too retarded to drive.



It is really hard to find an apprenticeship here, specially if you did not study anything. Even if you find a place, you will work hard for little money.



It is absolutely infuriating and emasculating. Not only do young females outearn youg men, they are also way more capable than me. This era is not meant for me. I really do not belong here.

I know this is an absolutely stupid thing to say, but have you tried playing driving simulators? I know it won't help that much, your situation is a lot more complicated than that, but they can be slightly beneficial to you. Games like Euro Truck Simulator 2 have modes that are hyper realistic. You have full control of your lights, blinkers, wipers, horn, gearbox, etc. The traffic behaves realistically and can be configured. There's night driving, weather and all sorts of different roads. You have to learn and obey traffic rules or face fines.Learning to park a truck in ETS will prepare you for the real thing. https://igg-games.com/euro-truck-simulator-2-495919181-free-download.html

 

[LastGerman]

I know this is an absolutely stupid thing to say, but have you tried playing driving simulators?

In fact, I was so bad at driving, that the driving teacher told me to do driving simulation first. I had to do 10 driving simulation lessons and I still could not get behind of it.

I know it won't help that much, your situation is a lot more complicated than that, but they can be slightly beneficial to you.

Unfortunately, this is not hlepful at all.

Games like Euro Truck Simulator 2 have modes that are hyper realistic. You have full control of your lights, blinkers, wipers, horn, gearbox, etc. The traffic behaves realistically and can be configured. There's night driving, weather and all sorts of different roads. You have to learn and obey traffic rules or face fines.Learning to park a truck in ETS will prepare you for the real thing. https://igg-games.com/euro-truck-simulator-2-495919181-free-download.html

I had to do driving simulation and they also had a ful setup for this and I still did not get better. While I was doing driving simulation as a grown up man, some teenage female just passed her driving test easily... Nobody else had to do driving simulation. I was the only one. This is absolutely infuriating and emasculating. The younger female employe even laughed at me. This is how bad I am. I even made a thread about this.

To be honest, I am actually afraid of it. I am afraid of it as a grown up man. I am now 26 years old and I fail at something what every teenage female can do effortlessly. This all sounds like a joke but unfortunately, it is not.

I also did not enjoy it most likely due to the fact I am bad. It is a vicious circle. I am bad at it therefore I do not enjoy it and I do not get any better. The cycle continues.

I cannot stop thinking about it. It is always there, sometimes it even appears in my dreams.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

In fact, I was so bad at driving, that the driving teacher told me to do driving simulation first. I had to do 10 driving simulation lessons and I still could not get behind of it.



Unfortunately, this is not hlepful at all.



I had to do driving simulation and they also had a ful setup for this and I still did not get better. While I was doing driving simulation as a grown up man, some teenage female just passed her driving test easily... Nobody else had to do driving simulation. I was the only one. This is absolutely infuriating and emasculating. The younger female employe even laughed at me. This is how bad I am. I even made a thread about this.

To be honest, I am actually afraid of it. I am afraid of it as a grown up man. I am now 26 years old and I fail at something what every teenage female can do effortlessly. This all sounds like a joke but unfortunately, it is not.

I also did not enjoy it most likely due to the fact I am bad. It is a vicious circle. I am bad at it therefore I do not enjoy it and I do not get any better. The cycle continues.

I cannot stop thinking about it. It is always there, sometimes it even appears in my dreams.

I realize this is a very painful situation for you, but I think that with your pain you also were slightly swept away and lost focus of things. Yes, driving can be a very useful thing, and cars can be status symbols. But there's a lot of people who are completely unable to drive, and that's perfectly ok. Without going into the whole "nowadays you can get by without driving easily" or "a lot less people should drive, it would be better for the environment" etc..., at the of the day it's not that big of a deal. So you can't drive, most people won't blink an eye at that.

 

[Greyandoldcel]

As an oldcel fapping is a means to an end for me. It's just a biological urge and it rarely happens because my sex drive has diminished to the point where i don't even feel the urge. Also, porn makes me feel nasty post nut. Watching foids really enjoy getting fucked by massive cocks, which i don't have makes me feel like shit because the likelihood of anyone seeing and getting turned on by mine is minuscule and that's depressing as hell. Just another reminder that i'll be FA. At least i've come to terms with that, i'm indifferent about it now.

 

[LastGerman]

Yes, driving can be a very useful thing, and cars can be status symbols.

It is the most useful thing on this earth. If you cannot drive, you simply cannot exist in this life and era. You will be emasculated by female driving.

But there's a lot of people who are completely unable to drive, and that's perfectly ok.

It is not ok though. It is far away from being ok. In fact, not being able to drive is absolutely dreadful.

Without going into the whole "nowadays you can get by without driving easily" or "a lot less people should drive, it would be better for the environment" etc..., at the of the day it's not that big of a deal.

Then why is everybody bragging about their cars? Why do people drive? Why does Germany have 60 million cars?

So you can't drive, most people won't blink an eye at that.

They most likely can drive or they are coping.

 

[FinnCel]

No I'm just getting old

 

[Deleted member 818]

My dopamine receptors are fried so I have to force myself to fap now. It’s not that fun anymore.

 

[Deleted member 25707]

That's why you should cooom once every 3-4 days, not everyday. Do something Productive then reward yourself with a nice coom/favourite food/extra sleep/video games whatever.

 

[Deleted member 5712]

100% true OP
I get what you are saying. Back when I was in school I would be around girls all the time and even had physical contact with a few of them whether it was through Gym class or a study group. So even just being in the vicinity of a girl's reach made my faps so much more rewarding and exciting when I would fantasize about those girls.

Now?
I don't have any friends. I don't talk to anybody. I work remotely from home so I don't even have eye candy to look at in the office. It's been years since I've actually been within arm's reach to a female that wasn't a family member.

I think I'll lose some people with this explanation but:
A) When I was in school I could fantasize EXACTLY how the girl smelled. How she would feel. Her mannerisms. Her voice. How I'd fuck her and how she would react. Whole scenarios in my head which would make my orgasms extra strong & thick
but
b) with no more point of reference about girls I just get stuck in a
-oooh yea baby. I'll touch her here and it will feel like....ummm...like bags of sand. YEA! bags of sand. and she will say....umm....she will say "Hey big boy" YEA! I heard that in a porno once. I think girls still say that. So that girl from the supermarket I saw 4 months ago will bend over in...um....FUK...what do girls wear these days?

So that goes on in my head. My imagination has gone to shit hence why I NEED porn to jack off to these days. I don't have any female interactions at all. It's really deprived me of so much in my life.

 

[UglyBongola]

I masturbate to pass time but rarely cum because i do it for so long i get bored

When i say masturbate i dont mean jerking the cock. I usually fold a part of my duvet while lying in bed so it forms a pussy and rub my cock between it as i close my eyes and fantasize

You cant fantasize or create clear images while doing up and down motion.

This way you can and the masturbation is pleasurable throughout the duration of the experience.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

100% true OP
I get what you are saying. Back when I was in school I would be around girls all the time and even had physical contact with a few of them whether it was through Gym class or a study group. So even just being in the vicinity of a girl's reach made my faps so much more rewarding and exciting when I would fantasize about those girls.

Now?
I don't have any friends. I don't talk to anybody. I work remotely from home so I don't even have eye candy to look at in the office. It's been years since I've actually been within arm's reach to a female that wasn't a family member.

I think I'll lose some people with this explanation but:
A) When I was in school I could fantasize EXACTLY how the girl smelled. How she would feel. Her mannerisms. Her voice. How I'd fuck her and how she would react. Whole scenarios in my head which would make my orgasms extra strong & thick
but
b) with no more point of reference about girls I just get stuck in a
-oooh yea baby. I'll touch her here and it will feel like....ummm...like bags of sand. YEA! bags of sand. and she will say....umm....she will say "Hey big boy" YEA! I heard that in a porno once. I think girls still say that. So that girl from the supermarket I saw 4 months ago will bend over in...um....FUK...what do girls wear these days?

So that goes on in my head. My imagination has gone to shit hence why I NEED porn to jack off to these days. I don't have any female interactions at all. It's really deprived me of so much in my life.

Very well-put. Women and normies will never understand how we feel. For so many years we have had these powerful urges, every time fantasizing about finally doing the deed, and yet after so many years we still haven't transformed that fantasy into reality, while normies did it so many years ago, while both they and the women were at their prime beauty.

 

[Napoléoncel]

Not for me. I get mega orgasms when I cum, my penis literally explodes from pleasure.

 

[Deleted member 7448]

Not for me. I get mega orgasms when I cum, my penis literally explodes from pleasure.

How old are you?

 

[Napoléoncel]

How old are you?

I don’t want to get doxxed but I’m young.

 

[Lame Dude]

I only fap to prevent wet dreams. Hate to wake up with goo all over my pants.
Its a chore at this point.