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Do You Believe Looks Are The Only Thing?

Do You Believe Looks Are The Only Thing?


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This'll be interesting.
 
No, money and status are two things that can also influence things.
 
Nope. Looks are not the only thing but they're the first thing that gets you a foot on the door.
 
If you are talking about ascending then there are other factors which can help with that to some extent.... but overall I'd say looks has a much greater impact on that
 
There are many factors. Health, IQ, NT and family connection are as important when it comes to overall outcomes in life but looks are number one in terms of attraction and first impressions you leave on people. Arguably physical health and IQ are number one in terms of survival and quality of life
 
It's around 60 to 75% Look's in most situations but other factor's make Incels hated mostly Class, Disability, Mental Health and access to Resources plus being a Minority. Ironic how most Incelphobes use the Quote on Quote Reductionists Views that People historically had for the mentally ill and disabled with "Just Get over it" or "Just Work Hard" Ignoring all other fact's or Information about Incels that SJWS swore to destroy.
 
Height, frame, money/status, nt, race.
 
phenotype and height
 
70% face, 30% height
 
Being NT or not matters imo
 
Everything matters. If you don't have one thing, you might as well not have the other things, especially according to hypergamous foids
 
Height is the thing most likely to help you. Money works too, but you have to be actually rich. You need to be living very comfortably. So money is likely not as important a factor as height.

Same with face. There simply aren't very many faces ugly enough to repulse women. Odds are your face is just unremarkable. And even if your face is handsome, that don't beat height. Taylor Lautner is proof.
 
I’d say being NT is just as important as looks.
 
How heavily would you weight money, status, neurotypicality etc.? Do you not consider those to be meaningful factors?
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I agree with LATOT, but there are other things to point out (e.g. NTpill)
 
no, there is other superficial things that women care about
 
If you are talking about ascending then there are other factors which can help with that to some extent.... but overall I'd say looks has a much greater impact on that
anyway I did vote for looks being the only thing because that's the option I lean towards more out of these two

when I think of looks I think of height, face, race etc

other factors people think of include status, IQ, NT

the reason I voted looks are everything is because even if you succeed in those other factors it doesn't guarantee you will ascend but if you have the looks you are going to be visually appealing which beats any of those factors

if there was a choice which was, yes looks matter but there are other factors which influence but will have little to no effect and would depend on your current looks level, then I'd choose that

just how I think tbh

also I know I mentioned looks in terms of ascending, I feel the same in terms of overall life quality

looks just dominate

the only other factor which has significance is being NT but you have to know that being ND doesn't automatically mean that you aren't able to 'think like an NT'

ND only matters if it really is like a serious hinderance to your life that's all
 
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Yes and no, things like personality and status matter too but you have to meet a foids looks threshold first so it still all comes back to looks. If you're over 5'9 and over 6/10 facially, it's probably other things that are dragging you down.
 
No, they want you to be NT as well
 
Looks, social charisma/psychopathy, height, FRAME (underrated), wealth (only helps ascend by simping) are everything
 
I think you have first to pass the, lets say, looks test to be a candidate for sex and love
Once you have pass it other things might give you an advantage, including personality

So a middle point
 
Looks are the main thing, like 90% of it.

It's not 100% because it's possible to find some cases, where a chad acts outrageously, and some women would dislike him because of that, despite him being a chad. Like, say, if a chad just randomly walks up to a woman on the street and slaps her, he will get the police called on him. Were looks literally the only thing, this would not be possible. Yet, it is.
 
There's no one set answer. Some women will go after a rich man or a famous man. Some women will be attracted to very intelligent men. The classic - tall, dark and handsome still applies. And some women are attracted to men in positions of power/status.
 
This may be a point of contention amongst other users here. I personally believe stuff such as money, status etc... whilst they CAN attract some foids, they'll always be attracted to that status/money rather than you. I would class looks & height as a more natural form of true love, rather than being used for your status/money.
 

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