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Discussion Looks vs. NT revisited

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This is inspired by a recent thread made by one of the newcels where he linked a neurodivergence test. A decent chunk of users posted their results and scored quite high in ND. I scored exceptionally low. Meaning, according to the test, I'm fully neurotypical, even more so than the statistical average. Simply put, my mind is more normal than the mind of normies. Yet, I truly am an incel. Is this not the ultimate proof of the looks theory?

Because if you are both ugly and autistic and have no romantic success, then the normies can claim that you not having a romantic partner is due to your autism, not your looks. And, technically, you have no way to prove them wrong. It might as well be. And the rejection is somehow more justified, according to them, even when they don't say this explicitly. Rejecting a person on the basis of their looks is wrong, so they claim, while in reality they very much do this. On the other hand, say the man is autistic; he then sometimes cannot properly read the emotions of his girlfriend because of his autism. He means well but he just can't. Still, the woman feels not understood. And she has the right to feel understood, right, RIGHT? Hence the rejection on the basis of the man's autism is "justified".

But of course the blackpill is not only about looks. It's about genetic determinism more generally. You are born with your looks and you are born with your neurodivergence, and both affect your dating life. Yet, you did not choose either. You cannot change either. And that's the tragedy. Still, I very much suspect that autism is heavily overdiagnosed in these circles. You are a below average looking man; you don't get positive affirmations in your life because of this. Then you do the ND test, asking, do you feel comfortable around people? And of course you fucking don't. But it's not autism.
 
even though I'm aware that the DSM is 99% bullshit, I'd rather get a diagnosis and some of the benefits from the government.
 
I would choose looks over anything everyday
 
I 100% agree, looks are the prime factor, autism in a chad means he's smart and interesting, autism in a ugly dude means he lacks an emotional connection
 
Looks obv

The autism would have to be extreme to even mimick a fraction of look’s weight
 
You are a below average looking man; you don't get positive affirmations in your life because of this. Then you do the ND test, asking, do you feel comfortable around people? And of course you fucking don't. But it's not autism.
Autism and ADHD specifically are vastly overdiagnosed, both professionally and by people self-diagnosing themselves.
even though I'm aware that the DSM is 99% bullshit, I'd rather get a diagnosis and some of the benefits from the government.
The only reliable information you can get out of a diagnosis is if you're an NPC or not. If you get a diagnosis, it's more likely that you're not an NPC.
 
Autism and ADHD specifically are vastly overdiagnosed, both professionally and by people self-diagnosing themselves.

The only reliable information you can get out of a diagnosis is if you're an NPC or not. If you get a diagnosis, it's more likely that you're not an NPC.
All the foids get BPD diagnoses tho
 
All the foids get BPD diagnoses tho
Foids can and do indeed get any diagnosis they want. There are no women who aren't NPCs/truly neurodivergent, at least according to my personal definition:
If you have ever had a thought or done an action that is not about gathering resources, maximising social status or lust for sex you are neurodivergent, and the more thoughts you have outside of those three things the more neurodivergent you are. Likewise, if all you ever think about is those three things you are neurotypical.

That is my personal definition of what it means to be neurodivergent at least. It is broad, but it also means that many individuals who might normally be considered neurodivergent could actually be fully neurotypical, only with some hindrances (like struggling with social cues, for example).
And I did say that getting a diagnosis could be an indicator of not being an NPC, but it's not always the case.
 
Being nt is still important if you're not a chad, who can be the most spergy person ever and still have foids approaching him or if you're not a complete subhuman, who would fail either way nt or not :feelsthink:
 

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