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Hypocrisy Do we hate foids or we want cuddles from them, or is it validation?

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Ok, we want sex. No doubt about that.

But what about the rest?

Do we want sex and then continue hating them?
Do we want sex and cuddles?
Do we want sex and watch movies in bed with them?
Do we want sex and validation? Or is sex validation enough?
Do we want a GF? (reminder, GF means "girl friend")

Or what?
 
I want to be loved. If they don't love me, I'll keep hating them.
 
They hate me so I hate them, it is simple.
 
I want them to shut up and be my fucking whore
 
I want them to shut up and be my fucking whore
Liar. Acting tough like that on .is

What if a nice becky offered you cuddles (in addition to sex); would you melt?
 
Sex is only the cherry on the cake for being a good looking man. If you are good looking everybody treats you better and your life in general is a lot easier. That’s why paying for sex is stupid bc you buy (hire) only the cherry for some minutes without cake.
 
I want to be loved. If they don't love me, I'll keep hating them.
Hey, low effort post-maxxer. That does not make any sense at all.

What do you mean by "love"? If you make loving conditional on they loving you back, it is not "love".

What you want is in fact worship (the word "love" is often used that way today, as in "I love Justin Bieber TeeHee"). You want foids to worship you (at least one). That is not going to happen, and it should not happen. Interpersonal relationships based on worship always end up badly.

As soon as you start viewing male/female relationships as a question of who will worship whom, hatred is the inevitable consequence.
 
Hey, low effort post-maxxer. That does not make any sense at all.

What do you mean by "love"? If you make loving conditional on they loving you back, it is not "love".

What you want is in fact worship (the word "love" is often used that way today, as in "I love Justin Bieber TeeHee"). You want foids to worship you (at least one). That is not going to happen, and it should not happen. Interpersonal relationships based on worship always end up badly.

As soon as you start viewing male/female relationships as a question of who will worship whom, hatred is the inevitable consequence.
love is different from worship
 
Yes I want to cuddle one, just to feel a woman in my arms like a normal man would :shock:
Sex isn't the main issue, I'd like to be able to say that I fucked a woman (without paying) at least once in my life tho :feelsjuice:
 
I want nothing, just waiting for the game to end. :feelsYall:
 
interesting
A place where the Greeks worshiped their Heroes (they invented the word)

Do you still think "love" is different from "worship" (I mean in the context from above)
 
A place where the Greeks worshiped their Heroes (they invented the word)

Do you still think "love" is different from "worship" (I mean in the context from above)
don't know tbh
 
Yes I want to cuddle one, just to feel a woman in my arms like a normal man would :shock:
Sex isn't the main issue, I'd like to be able to say that I fucked a woman (without paying) at least once in my life tho :feelsjuice:
You are a foid worshiper. I am not saying that in anger. Everyone on this forum is a foid worshiper more or less.

Just think about what you just wrote above under that angle. what does the word "normal" means in the first sentence and what does "without paying" in the second?
 
There's nothing contradictory about hating foids and still being sexually attracted to them.
 
A place where the Greeks worshiped their Heroes (they invented the word)

Do you still think "love" is different from "worship" (I mean in the context from above)
They are distinctly different. Love is generally founded in a desire to help and/or protect someone (whether that be someone you are fucking, a close friend, or one of your relatives), whereas worship is founded in a feeling of distant admiration.
 
I want a foid to give me sex, clean up the house, and make me a sandwich.

As for kids, I don't really know. Doesn't matter I guess since I'm too ugly.
 
See. We are all hypocrites with our "hatred"
It’s not really hypocritical. Nowhere does it say for your hatred to be authentic, it has to be unconditional. We hate them on the condition they deprive us, and that’s perfectly consistent.
 
Anything more than wanting sex with foids is cucked and bluepilled and is a result of hollywood conditioning. The desire for relationships is a female one.
 
It’s not really hypocritical. Nowhere does it say for your hatred to be authentic, it has to be unconditional. We hate them on the condition they deprive us, and that’s perfectly consistent.
We call them shallow, dumb, manipulative, slutty, etc ... and then we want to be their "friends" ? (meaning of girlfriend)
 
Anything more than wanting sex with foids is cucked and bluepilled and is a result of hollywood conditioning. The desire for relationships is a female one.
So escortcelling is enough, then?
 
I would not dislike the company of a girl friend. If the relationship were completely platonic and we shared no attraction towards one another I would still be willing to participate in a friendship... however I would not allow hypothetical friendship would to alter my genuine character(produced through a composition of inborn and empirical qualities).

Basically I would be willing to be "friends" with a woman, but only as long as she does not attempt to change who I am.

I am BASED.

I would call her out on every superficial comment that escapes her lips and if she even dared to question my judgement with her pathetic, simple-minded, and mendacious "compassion" inspired speculations I would call upon the four-winds to assist in my annihilation of her perspective.

Women only care about personality, or so they say... that is precisely why I abhor them. I refuse to placate to a woman's expectation by masking my truer self, and play clown for some harlots!
So you want to be "friends" with someone who totally submits to you. To me, it looks more like you want a slave. Yet you don't want sex in this scenario. Am I correct?
Also, what I really want is a lover, not a "lady" to sympathize with as she expresses her deepest feelings to a "friend."
Or (I assume it is an "or"), you want a whore.

Why not have a sex slave and be done with it.
 
"Cuddles" and validation go hand in hand for me. I want to go on walks on beautiful summer days holding hands with a looksmatched Aspie GF, but that's a fantasy for a subhuman ethnic like me so none of that for me :feelsrope::feelsrope::feelsrope:
 
the second. I dont want to hate foids but foids do stuff that makes me hate them. their hypergamy is not benefitting me.
 
"Cuddles" and validation go hand in hand for me.
That is a nefarious idea that has been forced into your head by the Media and Hollywood.

Validation can be given to you by a girl just by being seen next to you in public, or by liking your posts on social media, etc.
Cuddles was meant to be something private. It gave you emotional support but not validation.

Now, cuddles are often done in public and that is why we have assimilated it to validation.

Now the really important question is: do we really need female validation? In a society that is dominated by foid worship, we do. The foid goddess is the overall deity and everyone needs validation by her (through her priestesses, the individual foids). In another religion, the source of validation would be something else.

However, don't tell me that there are other religions (like Islam, Christianity, etc ...) No there aren't. These former religions are completely crushed in our world by foid-worship and its absolute control of the Media. Older religions have been ridiculed, their gods mocked and their priests lampooned. They survive but have no power. A religion without power is not truly a religion.
 
is it so hard to be loved by even one person? :feelsrope:
 
is it so hard to be loved by even one person? :feelsrope:
Yes, if the religion works against you. We are in a foid-worshiping society and for us "love" means worship. Foids, as priestesses of the foid goddess, are ok with worshiping Chad for a while (like Ishtar priestesses had sex with the king in Babylon), but they are certainly not going to worship anyone else.

We have lost the ability to "love" outside of worship.
 
We call them shallow, dumb, manipulative, slutty, etc ... and then we want to be their "friends" ? (meaning of girlfriend)
Man of us refrain from calling them any of that. This is the problem with blanketed generalizations, especially on a platform with a disproportionate number of unhinged folks. A lot of the people you interact with on here just don’t care for moral consistency; it’s about their reality and how it makes them feel, and nothing more.

Even still, calling them shallow, dumb and manipulative still doesn’t make much of a difference. Maybe calling them that wouldn’t be wrong. If I were to call them that, my biological urge to procreate would persist, as would my need to feel wanted and the societal pressures when it comes to being a FA male.

I see where you’re coming from, and I think our fundamental disagreement is semantic. “Girlfriend”, to me, is a convenient term for a woman with whom I am in a monogamous relationship with, and someone who, ideally, loves me. The etymology is of no concern to me. Idk a bunch of rambling but I hope you can follow
 
Now the really important question is: do we really need female validation? In a society that is dominated by foid worship, we do. The foid goddess is the overall deity and everyone needs validation by her (through her priestesses, the individual foids). In another religion, the source of validation would be something else.

However, don't tell me that there are other religions (like Islam, Christianity, etc ...) No there aren't. These former religions are completely crushed in our world by foid-worship and its absolute control of the Media. Older religions have been ridiculed, their gods mocked and their priests lampooned. They survive but have no power. A religion without power is not truly a religion.
Even during my most cobalt-blue-pilled days, I was aware of the religion of sex/foid worship. I used to think close to this before I started really wanting a girlfriend. I've been trying to get my mind back into this pseudo-MCTOW mindset that kept me content in my youth, since now I know that love as I had idealized it, doesn't exist.
 
Man of us refrain from calling them any of that. This is the problem with blanketed generalizations, especially on a platform with a disproportionate number of unhinged folks. A lot of the people you interact with on here just don’t care for moral consistency; it’s about their reality and how it makes them feel, and nothing more.

Even still, calling them shallow, dumb and manipulative still doesn’t make much of a difference. Maybe calling them that wouldn’t be wrong. If I were to call them that, my biological urge to procreate would persist, as would my need to feel wanted and the societal pressures when it comes to being a FA male.

I see where you’re coming from, and I think our fundamental disagreement is semantic. “Girlfriend”, to me, is a convenient term for a woman with whom I am in a monogamous relationship with, and someone who, ideally, loves me. The etymology is of no concern to me. Idk a bunch of rambling but I hope you can follow
I get it
 
If I cannot be loved, then I will make them hate me and fear me. They will acknowledge my existence.
 
Wanting to be loved by foids is normal.
 

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