Discussion Do people really hate you or are they just indifferent towards you ?

[8CbZA-kHFu6pFgE*]

In middle/high school id say most people legit hated me and disliked me, which deeply traumatized and scarred me. Nowadays i feel more like the people around me at my workplace are simply indifferent towards me. They dont bully me or tease me or do similar stuff, but they are also not interested in forming a friendship with me or invite me to places. My grandparents love me, but my parents always favored my sister more than me, which they would never admit. I can tell my parents secretly dislike me for being a failure.

 

[DarkStar]

Yeah most people are just neutral/indifferent to me

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

People are indifferent, it's like I don't exist to anyone. And they try to ignore me all the time.

 

[Diddy]

They genuinely wish I was dead.

 

[SilverBullet]

was hated during my elementary school years. in high school I was just ignored or insulted on occasion, and it's still like this now.

 

[Lazyandtalentless]

Strangers stare, whisper, laugh, and make rude comments about me to their friends. I try to keep my head down and just get through the day, but it feels impossible when I know people are pointing and laughing behind my back. I hear them talk about how ugly I am, how they can’t believe someone could look like this. It’s like I'm not even human to them, just something to be ridiculed. I’ve tried to ignore it, but it’s hard when it cuts so deep.

 

[zerozerozero]

they want to kill me

 

[over_department]

They genuinely wish I was dead.

 

[Animecel2D]

I am the most hated man on the planet

 

[The Notorious SLAV]

In middle/high school id say most people legit hated me and disliked me, which deeply traumatized and scarred me. Nowadays i feel more like the people around me at my workplace are simply indifferent towards me. They dont bully me or tease me or do similar stuff, but they are also not interested in forming a friendship with me or invite me to places. My grandparents love me, but my parents always favored my sister more than me, which they would never admit. I can tell my parents secretly dislike me for being a failure.

Exact same here, except my parents tolerate me more than my sister, unironically because of her personality (she has a really short temper and gets angry very easily, leading to her sulking like an elementary school kid whenever you say anything she doesn't like to her, plus she barely cleans her stuff while I'm almost a neat freak.)

 

[Abou Baldiaby]

People are generally indifferent to other people and more concerned about their own shit.

 

[VλREN]

50/50

 

[AnonWojak]

It's the opposite for me, in school I think that people were indifferent and/or didn't understand me but not necessarily hating. At work on the other hand, whenever there's a small break and people are small talking with each other, I can visibly tell that they're annoyed by my presence and they definitely see me as a weirdo/wish I wasn't here.

 

[Runt171]

Strangers stare, whisper, laugh, and make rude comments about me to their friends. I try to keep my head down and just get through the day, but it feels impossible when I know people are pointing and laughing behind my back. I hear them talk about how ugly I am, how they can’t believe someone could look like this. It’s like I'm not even human to them, just something to be ridiculed. I’ve tried to ignore it, but it’s hard when it cuts so deep.

Brutal man
I dont think I have it as bad as you or maybe I haven’t been observant enough but Ive noticed people laughing at me and shit like that too

Its just another reminder of how valueless you are to society for them to not even give you basic respect and how this is all your life will Ever be

 

[ldargoblin]

men want to beat me and women want to kill me

 

[NIGGER BOJANGLES]

In middle/high school id say most people legit hated me and disliked me, which deeply traumatized and scarred me. Nowadays i feel more like the people around me at my workplace are simply indifferent towards me. They dont bully me or tease me or do similar stuff, but they are also not interested in forming a friendship with me or invite me to places. My grandparents love me, but my parents always favored my sister more than me, which they would never admit. I can tell my parents secretly dislike me for being a failure.

For me in school they hated me and wanted to make fun of me. Now they are indifferent which is much better

 

[Rapistcel]

In middle/high school id say most people legit hated me and disliked me, which deeply traumatized and scarred me. Nowadays i feel more like the people around me at my workplace are simply indifferent towards me. They dont bully me or tease me or do similar stuff, but they are also not interested in forming a friendship with me or invite me to places. My grandparents love me, but my parents always favored my sister more than me, which they would never admit. I can tell my parents secretly dislike me for being a failure.

Foids hate me, men are neutral

 

[Notkev]

In middle/high school id say most people legit hated me and disliked me, which deeply traumatized and scarred me. Nowadays i feel more like the people around me at my workplace are simply indifferent towards me. They dont bully me or tease me or do similar stuff, but they are also not interested in forming a friendship with me or invite me to places. My grandparents love me, but my parents always favored my sister more than me, which they would never admit. I can tell my parents secretly dislike me for being a failure.

It's both. Albeit to most people I don't exist at all.

 

[sk.feelsdevil]

Oh I feel you. In middle school and high school (most) people legit hated me, when I was in primary and kindergarten the kids honestly liked me, or at least didn't outright hate me. Now in university I have learned to keep my opinions to myself and honestly I am a lot less social. The few times when I have had a genuine debate / discussion with someone said person always said that I was sick in the end.

Right now I interact with very few people on a shallow level and with nobody on a deeper level. This works. Folks just ignore me and I am fine with humans being indifferent towards me.