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And if you tried wat were you attempts?

Mine were:
1. Try to be the mysterious guy, I think thats what most introverts try, because it comes naturally. I think you all know that this doesnt work for non Chads, you are either invisible amd non existent to anyone else or you be comsider a weird creep, I was lucky I just wasnt recognized at all
2. I tried to peacockmaxx with extravagant clothes, which were the worst attempt of all, bwcause it just made me a laughingstock, which is why I dropped it after a year
3. I tried the opposite and started to columbinemaxx by wearing clothes that made me look like a combination of a punk and a skinhead, I think the only thing my classmates recognized was that I dont run around like a complete faggot anymore.
4. I tried to socialize with people from the upper classes, which was possible because I knew one of them since highschool, problem was that he and his friends were just social outcasts themselves, which made it kind of useless in terms of getting more popular, but Im pretty sure that this protected me from a lot of bullying and helped to spend not all of highschool time alone
5. Because I got with those older guys I also started drinking pretty early, which was first good because this made highschool time much more enjoyable and because most of my classmates didnt drink it was atleast recognized and smth that atleast gave some kind of infamous status. So probably this was the best out of all attempts
6. Beein a provoquative extremist, which was the thing for my last highschool years, just be an obnoxious meme nazi. Didnt helped at all but atleast it was kind of funny.

I think this were all my attempts to become popular. None of them worked out and majority of people from my old classes didnt even believe me that we were in one class when I show them pictures to prove it.
 
i dropped out but i did in middle school by jestering no idea how i was so low inhib
 
Of course, pretty much everyone in high school tried to be popular, no matter how hard they tried to act like they "didn't care".

But the reality is, as an ugly male, you will never be one of the popular guys. It doesn't matter what sports you play, how good your social skills are, or what clothes you wear. The absolute best case scenario is you'll be quasi-popular among some of the guys (but the girls will still treat you like an untouchable subhuman). Though considering how brutal lookism is among zoomers, even that's a pipedream for an ugly male. You could be the best player on the basketball/football team and have great social skills and zoomers will still think "bro is lowkey chopped with that goofy ahhhh facecard 💀 😭✌️"
 
I've already tried, and it was one of the worst things in my life. I tried to be the most social and cool guy there, but unfortunately, I was ridiculed for my looks. I talked to some of them about random topics and then, completely OUT OF NOWHERE, they would say they were 'lesbians' and kept calling me ugly behind my back. I also had fake friends who mocked my appearance and gave me messed-up cartoon nicknames; I've also been given brutal nicknames for being short.

I simply tried to be the most social guy in that school just to end up being humiliated. I was a complete idiot for being bluepilled back then.
 
too high inhib
 
No, there was no point. I was already marked as "that kid" with the aide following me around and subsequently no ability to have private conversations with the aide always watching and listening.
 
Nah I knew it was over in 6th grade plus 8th grade was a disaster (I was basically mute at school, I didn't talk to kids even when they talked to me. But I talked to teacher). After 8th grade it was more than over.
 
Of course, pretty much everyone in high school tried to be popular, no matter how hard they tried to act like they "didn't care".

But the reality is, as an ugly male, you will never be one of the popular guys. It doesn't matter what sports you play, how good your social skills are, or what clothes you wear. The absolute best case scenario is you'll be quasi-popular among some of the guys (but the girls will still treat you like an untouchable subhuman). Though considering how brutal lookism is among zoomers, even that's a pipedream for an ugly male. You could be the best player on the basketball/football team and have great social skills and zoomers will still think "bro is lowkey chopped with that goofy ahhhh facecard 💀 😭✌️"
Just facts
 
tried jestermaxxing in middle school and everyone treated me like that one weird kid. When i entered highschool i became that creepy kid no one willingly talked to. People were most likely afraid of me or thought I was a future school shooter. Missed out on a lot of experiences because of that
 
No I just wanted high-school to finish ASAP
 
Kids.is
No one cares about high school or its aspects except high schoolers
 
no, i always thought it‘s ridiculous to be popular in school. my ideal was always to just have good friends in every class, but i never had friends.
 
Yes it was so brutal and embarrassing. The little ego and pride I had left was completely stripped from me after the humiliation I brought upon myself. I still cringe at night when I’m trying to sleep because of how brutal the memories are
 
I tried to get popular my entire school career and failed miserably every time
 
Yes it was so brutal and embarrassing. The little ego and pride I had left was completely stripped from me after the humiliation I brought upon myself. I still cringe at night when I’m trying to sleep because of how brutal the memories are
How did you tried to become popular?
 
Jestermaxx with the boys and getting rejected by foids
 
No, and I didn't want to.
 
Nah, there wasn’t much point in trying.

I couldn’t even make friends with most of my peers throughout my childhood.
 
Like Mr. Ryo said, I did try get a little popularity in school, almost everyone did mainly through my copes
I'd play hard rhythm games during lunch or other games to see if anyone would react or know what I talking about, people did react, but it was mostly negative (fucking loser)
I remember out of all of those times, while I was looking at creepypastas, a kid did recognize and we talked and we have fun for a little while until he never talk to me again
I did end up getting popular, but for the wrong reasons. The first one was having a loli as my wallpaper and normies seeing, that went.. very bad.. the second was cause I memorized a girls social media username off of seeing her phone once and downloaded said social media and messaged her and admitted that it was me and suddenly everyone think I'm creep.. the third was cause I apparently "SA'd" a girl with my legs
People recognize me, even now :{
 
nope, my last 3 years of highschool was psychological torture.
 
No, and I don't have the looks or phenotype to become popular anyways even if I tried (water).
 
Weirdly, I tried to do the opposite. I tried to become as distant from the spotlight as I could, which meant going down to the oval at lunch at walking around the school/bathrooms at recess.

I was somewhat popular for the wrong reasons, and it brang myself lots of grief due to the constant harrassment and physical/verbal altercations.

Funny enough I was approached at graduation by a member in my cohort, who thought I had dropped out.
 
I memorized a girls social media username off of seeing her phone once and downloaded said social media and messaged her and admitted that it was me and suddenly everyone think I'm creep..
Im happy that I always was to high inhib for stuff like this, protected me from a lot of embaressment and dissapointment
 
And if you tried wat were you attempts?

Mine were:
1. Try to be the mysterious guy, I think thats what most introverts try, because it comes naturally. I think you all know that this doesnt work for non Chads, you are either invisible amd non existent to anyone else or you be comsider a weird creep, I was lucky I just wasnt recognized at all
2. I tried to peacockmaxx with extravagant clothes, which were the worst attempt of all, bwcause it just made me a laughingstock, which is why I dropped it after a year
3. I tried the opposite and started to columbinemaxx by wearing clothes that made me look like a combination of a punk and a skinhead, I think the only thing my classmates recognized was that I dont run around like a complete faggot anymore.
4. I tried to socialize with people from the upper classes, which was possible because I knew one of them since highschool, problem was that he and his friends were just social outcasts themselves, which made it kind of useless in terms of getting more popular, but Im pretty sure that this protected me from a lot of bullying and helped to spend not all of highschool time alone
5. Because I got with those older guys I also started drinking pretty early, which was first good because this made highschool time much more enjoyable and because most of my classmates didnt drink it was atleast recognized and smth that atleast gave some kind of infamous status. So probably this was the best out of all attempts
6. Beein a provoquative extremist, which was the thing for my last highschool years, just be an obnoxious meme nazi. Didnt helped at all but atleast it was kind of funny.

I think this were all my attempts to become popular. None of them worked out and majority of people from my old classes didnt even believe me that we were in one class when I show them pictures to prove it.
No, I wasn't bluepilled.
 
no, i always thought it‘s ridiculous to be popular in school. my ideal was always to just have good friends in every class, but i never had friends.
Same mango
 
6. Beein a provoquative extremist, which was the thing for my last highschool years, just be an obnoxious meme nazi. Didnt helped at all but atleast it was kind of funny.
 
Not really i more so just tried to avoid the bullying
 
In 12th grade I was one of the fastest runners on the school track team. It helped me make a couple friends but I was definitely not popular and none of those friends were women. Sadly I wasn't nearly good enough to go d1 and statusmaxx.
 
Oh yeah and when playing sports I was constantly surrounded by athletic chads and their foid gfs and it was pure suifuel. I felt like an imposter because I had 0 social skills and was ugly. Sometimes during practice they would just talk about having sex and I wanted to kill myself right there
 
In 12th grade I was one of the fastest runners on the school track team. It helped me make a couple friends but I was definitely not popular and none of those friends were women. Sadly I wasn't nearly good enough to go d1 and statusmaxx.
Oh yeah and when playing sports I was constantly surrounded by athletic chads and their foid gfs and it was pure suifuel. I felt like an imposter because I had 0 social skills and was ugly. Sometimes during practice they would just talk about having sex and I wanted to kill myself right there
Another prove that gymaxxing to get laid is the biggest cope existing
 
I never tried because i was too much in my head wishing i'd be. Not that it would work knowing my previous experiences. The closest thing i got was one brief encounter with this overlyhappy HTN who was like 6'5 who wanted me integraded into their small circle but then i realized he only "cared" was because i thought it was a brillant idea back in middle school to take the short bus even though i never acted like a nuissance on the regular one it's just then wanted to join it because it would be "Calmer" fucking retarded i know and so he just felt bad for me so i left. At least it made me aware of how autistic i actually was.
 
Only in middle school, and I was brutally reminded that I would never achieve popular status, despite my best efforts jestermaxxing. I also had completely shit social skills, and was high inhib as fuck from being bullied by sheboons in elementary-middle school, so that carried over to high school
 
Only in middle school, and I was brutally reminded that I would never achieve popular status, despite my best efforts jestermaxxing. I also had completely shit social skills, and was high inhib as fuck from being bullied by sheboons in elementary-middle school, so that carried over to high school
If I look back, Im super grateful I was at an all white school
 
Another prove that gymaxxing to get laid is the biggest cope existing
Gymaxxing -> Sex is useless cope 100% but IMO Gymmaxxing -> Respect from fellow Subhumans is a valid cope.
 
I’ve tried the first two methods you mentioned, mysteriousmaxxing in particular used to be my main method until I finally realized that nobody gave a flying fuck about me.

I’ve also tried:

- Jestermaxxing: Trying to be the funny guy, trying to be witty, acting low inhib etc. It was absolutely pathetic, it doesn’t even need further description.

- Grademaxxing: I was a fairly good student in a shitty school, I always done my homework and studied for tests and had good grades. Most of my classmates were lazy and pretty stupid, so I used to gave them my homework so they can copy and I helped them during tests. I thought it’s going to make them like me, but they all just used me to pass their exams so they don’t fail their subjects. It was like: “I didn’t study shit for this test, but thankfully this sub-5 loser smart guy is here today so I’ll just copy his answers and pass the test no problem”. If you’re already at the bottom of the social hierarchy in a class where most people don’t value knowledge or intellect they’ll just take advantage of you and it won’t raise your status considerably.

- Liemaxxing: I used to make up stories that would make people perceive me as more “cool”. For example saying “I went to this party with my old friend group (I had zero friends) and that crazy shit happened there it was wild bro” (I didn’t go to to any kind of party in high school), things like that. I didn’t always straight up lie, sometimes I exaggerated things that actually happened to the extent that it’s still believable. Fake it till you make type shit.
 
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Gymaxxing -> Sex is useless cope 100% but IMO Gymmaxxing -> Respect from fellow Subhumans is a valid cope.
Never said this wouldnt be the case, but yeah your right pretty much, you could even say that atleast martial art maxxing can be helpful in highschool, depends on what kind of school, to prevent/ minimize bullying
 
And if you tried wat were you attempts?

Mine were:
1. Try to be the mysterious guy, I think thats what most introverts try, because it comes naturally. I think you all know that this doesnt work for non Chads, you are either invisible amd non existent to anyone else or you be comsider a weird creep, I was lucky I just wasnt recognized at all
2. I tried to peacockmaxx with extravagant clothes, which were the worst attempt of all, bwcause it just made me a laughingstock, which is why I dropped it after a year
3. I tried the opposite and started to columbinemaxx by wearing clothes that made me look like a combination of a punk and a skinhead, I think the only thing my classmates recognized was that I dont run around like a complete faggot anymore.
4. I tried to socialize with people from the upper classes, which was possible because I knew one of them since highschool, problem was that he and his friends were just social outcasts themselves, which made it kind of useless in terms of getting more popular, but Im pretty sure that this protected me from a lot of bullying and helped to spend not all of highschool time alone
5. Because I got with those older guys I also started drinking pretty early, which was first good because this made highschool time much more enjoyable and because most of my classmates didnt drink it was atleast recognized and smth that atleast gave some kind of infamous status. So probably this was the best out of all attempts
6. Beein a provoquative extremist, which was the thing for my last highschool years, just be an obnoxious meme nazi. Didnt helped at all but atleast it was kind of funny.

I think this were all my attempts to become popular. None of them worked out and majority of people from my old classes didnt even believe me that we were in one class when I show them pictures to prove it.
No
 
Never said this wouldnt be the case, but yeah your right pretty much, you could even say that atleast martial art maxxing can be helpful in highschool, depends on what kind of school, to prevent/ minimize bullying
Most bullying is done by men who throughout history would have been incels who are scrawny and frail, at least from my experience. So a lot of bullying is online not IRL.
 
I remember this one time a motherfucker said "I heard he's funny, tell us a joke" and inside I was all like Dang I don't have any jokes but why would I entertain the likes of you asses! I didn't talk during school so I don't know how that word got around. Maybe I unknowingly jestered here and there. Maybe I was a spontaneous freak in my comedy.
 
Most bullying is done by men who throughout history would have been incels who are scrawny and frail, at least from my experience. So a lot of bullying is online not IRL.
Who cares what people in the internet say to you, atleast as a digital native, like I grew up with getting called slurs online
 
I remember this one time a motherfucker said "I heard he's funny, tell us a joke" and inside I was all like Dang I don't have any jokes but why would I entertain the likes of you asses! I didn't talk during school so I don't know how that word got around. Maybe I unknowingly jestered here and there. Maybe I was a spontaneous freak in my comedy.
They were just making a joke of you, with you beein the punchline
 
Yep. I jestermaxxed for years until they got bored and dumped me out.
 
stupid thread,you can't just try and become popular,you need to have looks,money or status.
trucels were outcasts in hs due to being ugly af ,low status and poor
 
stupid thread,you can't just try and become popular,you need to have looks,money or status.
trucels were outcasts in hs due to being ugly af ,low status and poor
Stupid reply, that you will fail doesnt mean you cant try. I didnt ask if you were popular in hs.
There are people who are Incel without beein poor or havin low status (if you would having a status mean that youbare popular?) so even by your standarts there would be Incels who could have been popular in hs.
And last, there is a difference between Incel and Truecel, not every Incel is a truecel.
So why do you even feel the need to point that out?
 

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