-yyyy- :
What is your sex life now? Do your partners know/understand the circumstances?
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asaengineer :
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: I have one partner. And yes he understands the circumstances as I have walked
: him through this time in my life. This was before his time and he is quite
: the understanding gentleman.
:
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-yyyy- :
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:: That's really sweet. If you plan to have children, how will you handle the
:: sex talk and the fact that your video is out there?
::
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asaengineer :
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::: I don't think I'll mention the video considering it may or may not be all
::: that easy to find if at all. The video has already been taken down by
::: more than half the sites it was on previously so by the time I have kids
::: I doubt that would be an issue. But I'll be as open about sex as
::: possible so they know all the consequences and understand that bad things
::: can happen to anyone.
:::
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nowedger :
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:: You are very lucky you found someone who is willing to look past this huge
:: red flag.
::
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asaengineer :
:::
::: How is it a red flag?
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nowedger :
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:::: Someone who is willing to engage in sex work is a huge red flag for the
:::: majority of normal people.
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asaengineer :
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::::: I haven't found that to be a true statement.