so them liking specific body parts is cringe?
No its them trying to emulate male behavior on the whole that is cringe, not them merely liking the parts, I don't see how you read all that, and that's the interpretation you came away with
So basically, men can do stuff to females' specific body parts so it's okay for them to like those things
It has nothing to do with what is "ok" (as in acceptable) for either party (male or female) to do, it has to do with what makes sense (as in logical) for either party to do
Its the context that matters, and the differences between the sexes makes one act sensible or non-sensible based on the sex
Take "being a slayer" for example, imagine if women who had sex with multiple men every night went around calling themselves "slayers" or "players"
"I'm such a slayer, I got gangbanged last night"
"I'm such a player, I sucked 2 guys off in the club bathroom"
These sentences sound weird without any effort because it just doesn't fit, and that's because of context, these "accolades" (player or slayer)
are reserved for individuals that actually had to exert effort or utilize skill/prowess to attain sex, so a woman using it is cringe, it doesn't make sense, it just sounds weird, as if the person lacks self awareness
Notice even women jokingly use sentences like - "I'm such a slut", because they know full well using "slayer" or "player" in place of "slut" doesn't "sound right", on that same note women talking about men's bodies as though they are going to "fuck him" sounds just as ridiculous and cringe, because they don't do the fucking, they get fucked
Women talking about men's bodies as if the men are women [objects acted upon] (knowing full well they are the "fuckee" not the "fucker"), is just like women going around calling themselves "players" (knowing full well they don't have to do anything to get laid)