Brutal Born for loneliness

[Notkev]

It's crazy to me. There was a time when I thought things would one day be different. I really thought uni would be different. That I would have friends and a gf. Well I have "friends" but let's be honest, the moment I graduate they'll be gone for good. And none of them are dependable. At this point I'm certain that my solitude is here to stay. I was born for this, being an observer on the outskirts.

 

[iraniancel]

it was over from the start

 

[Notkev]

it was over from the start

What are the chances that a fellow هم‌وطن sees my post. Small world we live in

 

[iraniancel]

What are the chances that a fellow هم‌وطن sees my post. Small world we live in

Never began for persiancels

 

[daydreamER]

What are the chances that a fellow هم‌وطن sees my post. Small world we live in

Iran is a faggot shia country I hope it gets bombed (in COD).

 

[MassEffectKoala]

it was over from the start

Haha.. sadly.

 

[Kamanbert]

Fuck i always find it mindblowing when young guys in a super social environment like uni are lonely. There's really nothing you can do ? Do you even like your peers though ? I'm a 30 years old that's never been to uni, not even in middle school, so all of it seems so distant, but it seems like such a perfect place to socialize and become normal

 

[Autistic Uggo]

It's crazy to me. There was a time when I thought things would one day be different. I really thought uni would be different. That I would have friends and a gf.

And they call us entitled for that. Just for wanting the same things that everybody else has.

 

[Notkev]

Fuck i always find it mindblowing when young guys in a super social environment like uni are lonely. There's really nothing you can do ? Do you even like your peers though ? I'm a 30 years old that's never been to uni, not even in middle school, so all of it seems so distant, but it seems like such a perfect place to socialize and become normal

It IS a good place for socializing, but my interactions never really go beyond the mundane day-to-day small talk and the things discussed don't interest me. Plus I really wanted a gf but oh well.

 

[deleted fren]

Nothing changes if you're unattractive. You'll always be treated negatively. Humans don't magically change their nature completely with age. The same social dynamics that existed in middle school are around in college.

 

[Notkev]

And they call us entitled for that. Just for wanting the same things that everybody else has.

In their eyes we don't deserve to complain. We should just shut up and take it.

 

[Notkev]

Nothing changes if you're unattractive. You'll always be treated negatively. Humans don't magically change their nature completely with age. The same social dynamics that existed in middle school are around in college.

Figures. Too bad I was born looking like this.

 

[deleted fren]

Figures. Too bad I was born looking like this.

Brutal

 

[LifeMaxxer]

young guys in a super social environment like uni are lonely

It really depends on the uni but to tell you, most guys just wanna talk to the girls instead of other dudes.

And guys go by looks too. You basically have to find a crowd that works for you but it can be daunting.

 

[Notkev]

It really depends on the uni but to tell you, most guys just wanna talk to the girls instead of other dudes.

And guys go by looks too. You basically have to find a crowd that works for you but it can be daunting.

They do that (picking other dudes based on looks) because it gets them access to girls. Those friendships aren't worth shit.

 

[Kamanbert]

It IS a good place for socializing, but my interactions never really go beyond the mundane day-to-day small talk and the things discussed don't interest me. Plus I really wanted a gf but oh well.

It really depends on the uni but to tell you, most guys just wanna talk to the girls instead of other dudes.

And guys go by looks too. You basically have to find a crowd that works for you but it can be daunting.

Yeah i think i too would have failed even at uni anyway. Back to thread's title. As you said everyone can be saved by the good crowd but that's based on luck a lot. And i'm inclined to think that those are much more absent than they used to, soyciety seem colder/competitive even between some 18-20 yeard old nowadays, that's the vibe the youngsters give off now tbh

 

[MassEffectKoala]

Haha.. sadly.

Sigh.

 

[JuliusEvola]

me too brocel

 

[LifeMaxxer]

Yeah i think i too would have failed even at uni anyway. Back to thread's title. As you said everyone can be saved by the good crowd but that's based on luck a lot. And i'm inclined to think that those are much more absent than they used to, soyciety seem colder/competitive even between some 18-20 yeard old nowadays, that's the vibe the youngsters give off now tbh

I went to a typical university with dorms then transferred to a commuter university. It’s the same in both. People usually have their own friend groups built up from high school or freshman year and breaking into them in nearly impossible.

This also causes a dilemma for loners because if you aren’t a part of the group, all the singular people within the group won’t consider you a true, true friend. You will be someone person they met through a class and it’ll be a acquaintanceship.

It’s not that Im complaining though, an acquaintance can turn into a friend. It’s a lot better than nothing.

TLDR: But im saying this to say, college is not what it’s advertised to be, a magical place where friendships and relationships spring forth from nothing. You need to be a part of a group then shit will actually happen. And of course, as an incel, sub 5 and/or whatever else, this is harder to do.

 

[AsiaCel]

BORN TO KILL

 

[Jud Pottah]

BORN TO KILL

Born to play carmageddon.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_LFstggPys

 

[AsiaCel]

Born to play carmageddon.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=q_LFstggPys

HOES SUCK MY DICK WHILE I RUN OVER PEDESTRIANS

 

[Jud Pottah]

HOES SUCK MY DICK WHILE I RUN OVER PEDESTRIANS

Baased Eggman wyt