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Blackpill Bluepillers say the your personality makes you attractive, but it's the exact opposite

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If you are attractive you get more validation, support and people are generally more friendly towards you. As a result you become more confident, more low-inhib and more NT. You can't just improve your personality because personality is shaped on how other people treat you. Sure you could learn different skills, take up different hobbies and become knowledgeable in certain areas but that won't change how you act around others. The reason why "just be confident" is such a retarded phrases when it comes to relationships is because the word confidence doesn't make sense in that context. Confidence is when you know something's going to work because it had worked that way many times before. You can't have confidence when you have been rejected hundreds of times, it's by definition impossible.
Even if you are have a bad at socialising but are good looking people will overlook it because of the halo effect, which also makes you better at it over time because people actually give you a chance in the beginning. You can't get better at socialising when you have no social circle and will be met with scorn when you interact with people.

It's not over because it never begun.
 
Confidence is when you know something's going to work because it had worked that way many times before.
Absolutely correct.
 
Personality is meme.
 
True. Personality = Looks.

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Height = Confidence
Face = Personality

It's over.
 
normies use hardcore social determinism to justify the behavior of minorities. but if you're a low status male, then you're 100% responsible for your misery, doesn't matter if you were bullied and socially outcasted
 
Bluepillers will say that this proves that having a better personality makes you more attractive.
:feelskek::feelskek: lmao. Bluepillers will always find a way to be retards
 
Physical attraction is the initial number and everything else is just multipliers. Like, oh he has a pleasant compatible personality, x 1.1. He did something retarded, x 0.9.

If the initial number is 0, nothing else matters. Anything times 0 is 0.
 
Bluepillers will say that this proves that having a better personality makes you more attractive.

How do people evaluate a person's personality without the profile text?

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They weren't lying when they say "Personality". Yeah if you're 8/10 and 5'8+. They want the good personality of the chads not the below average men
 
Physical attraction is the initial number and everything else is just multipliers. Like, oh he has a pleasant compatible personality, x 1.1. He did something retarded, x 0.9.

If the initial number is 0, nothing else matters. Anything times 0 is 0.
Someone posted a thread here not that long ago that talked about how possesing dark triad traits (psychopathy,machiavellianism, narcissism) significantly raises your SMV. If there are two people of identical attractiveness but one had dark triad foids will pick the latter.
I agree with what you said though, that this only matters if you tick all the boxes in a foid's brain that signal genetic fitness.
Women's sexual selection is bad for humanity. If you removed natural selection and environmental pressures and just let women decide who got to breed with them and who didn't throughout history, there would just be a bunch of dumb and brutish men.
 
They look at attractive people and automatically assume good things about them, they view their every action as good. So they think those attractive people have a great personality.

The exact opposite happens to ugly people.

But they don't realize it, so they argue all the time that personality is the key to success.
 
Water is wet IQ. Personality is roughly 50% genes and 50% childhood anyway, according to the research. Doing a complete about-face on your personality as an adult is largely a matter of pretending to be someone you're not.
 
Doesn't matter if you're confident you're still not attractive.
 
Water is wet IQ. Personality is roughly 50% genes and 50% childhood anyway, according to the research. Doing a complete about-face on your personality as an adult is largely a matter of pretending to be someone you're not.
If you do that eventually people will notice and you will lose everything you had gained. It's impossible to try and invent a new personality because there would be hundreds of little things people could detect that would give away who you really are and shatter the illusion.
 
If you are attractive you get more validation, support and people are generally more friendly towards you. As a result you become more confident, more low-inhib and more NT. You can't just improve your personality because personality is shaped on how other people treat you. Sure you could learn different skills, take up different hobbies and become knowledgeable in certain areas but that won't change how you act around others. The reason why "just be confident" is such a retarded phrases when it comes to relationships is because the word confidence doesn't make sense in that context. Confidence is when you know something's going to work because it had worked that way many times before. You can't have confidence when you have been rejected hundreds of times, it's by definition impossible.
Even if you are have a bad at socialising but are good looking people will overlook it because of the halo effect, which also makes you better at it over time because people actually give you a chance in the beginning. You can't get better at socialising when you have no social circle and will be met with scorn when you interact with people.

It's not over because it never begun.

Halo & Failo effects.
Water is wet IQ. Personality is roughly 50% genes and 50% childhood anyway, according to the research. Doing a complete about-face on your personality as an adult is largely a matter of pretending to be someone you're not.
Doesn't matter if you're confident you're still not attractive.
 
Physical attraction is the initial number and everything else is just multipliers. Like, oh he has a pleasant compatible personality, x 1.1. He did something retarded, x 0.9.

If the initial number is 0, nothing else matters. Anything times 0 is 0.
fucking this
 
Confidence means nothing if there is nobody to validate that confidence.
 

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