
N-Digger
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If you are attractive you get more validation, support and people are generally more friendly towards you. As a result you become more confident, more low-inhib and more NT. You can't just improve your personality because personality is shaped on how other people treat you. Sure you could learn different skills, take up different hobbies and become knowledgeable in certain areas but that won't change how you act around others. The reason why "just be confident" is such a retarded phrases when it comes to relationships is because the word confidence doesn't make sense in that context. Confidence is when you know something's going to work because it had worked that way many times before. You can't have confidence when you have been rejected hundreds of times, it's by definition impossible.
Even if you are have a bad at socialising but are good looking people will overlook it because of the halo effect, which also makes you better at it over time because people actually give you a chance in the beginning. You can't get better at socialising when you have no social circle and will be met with scorn when you interact with people.
It's not over because it never begun.
Even if you are have a bad at socialising but are good looking people will overlook it because of the halo effect, which also makes you better at it over time because people actually give you a chance in the beginning. You can't get better at socialising when you have no social circle and will be met with scorn when you interact with people.
It's not over because it never begun.