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It's Over Being an oldcel is hell on earth

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I'm not that far away from my mid 30's and it's really affecting me mentally that I've never had sex or a relationship and never will unless I pay for it.

Their were a couple of guys back at school in my class that were already finding girlfriends when were 13-14 years old. It's insane how much I've missed out on. That train has permanently left the station and it's never coming back.

I was down about not having a girlfriend at 19 but back then I still had time and hope that I would find someone, after 30 it's completely hopeless, most of the women around my age are single mothers with kids from chads or tyrones or they're taken/married. I don't think it's worth it anymore even if I did find someone by some miracle.

I want to die but I don't want to let the people who wronged me win just yet.
 
Your only option is to get rich.
 
Soon you will unlock your wizardly powers. :feelsmage: :feelsmage:
 
Brutal, im probably gonna rope before i get old
 
Their were a couple of guys back at school in my class that were already finding girlfriends when were 13-14 years old.

most of the women around my age are single mothers with kids from chads or tyrones or they're taken/married.
Are these 2 things related or did the foids marry other chads after high school?
 
I'm not that far away from my mid 30's and it's really affecting me mentally that I've never had sex or a relationship and never will unless I pay for it.

Their were a couple of guys back at school in my class that were already finding girlfriends when were 13-14 years old. It's insane how much I've missed out on. That train has permanently left the station and it's never coming back.

I was down about not having a girlfriend at 19 but back then I still had time and hope that I would find someone, after 30 it's completely hopeless, most of the women around my age are single mothers with kids from chads or tyrones or they're taken/married. I don't think it's worth it anymore even if I did find someone by some miracle.

I want to die but I don't want to let the people who wronged me win just yet.
I am nearly 20 and I see myself as 40s incel :cryfeels:
 
I'm almost there in age with you and I agree that this is pure hell. We are older, less capable, our bodies are failing after getting weakened by decades of trauma and failure. Our parents are aging and support is declining, all the while things are getting worse across the world. Life just stops being meaningful, especially since we've achieved nothing.
 
I learned to cope, but I will rope if cant ascend before 40. The humiliation cant be prolonged.
 
you have no idea how bad it is... .
 
I'm almost there in age with you and I agree that this is pure hell. We are older, less capable, our bodies are failing after getting weakened by decades of trauma and failure. Our parents are aging and support is declining, all the while things are getting worse across the world. Life just stops being meaningful, especially since we've achieved nothing.
You have to deal with all that while seeing your peers settle down, marry and start families — milestones we will never attain. It becomes impossible to relate to these people. We might as well live in another place of existence to them. Worst of all, people expect us to be at their level. They see us as subhuman creatures for being virgins at our age. Being outed as a virgin is effectively a social death sentence for us.

Things get so much worse as an oldcel. We have nothing to look forward to. It's only a slow descent into hell from here on out. :reeeeee:
 
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It becomes impossible to relate to these people. We might as well live in another place of existence to them. Worst of all, people expect us to be at their level. They see us as subhuman creatures for being virgins at our age. Being outed as a virgin is effectively a social death sentence for us.
I am too ashamed to even present myself before any of them, be it peers or relatives. I hide from the rest of the world in shame because I'm very self-aware. I can't talk to them properly; my dad talks on my behalf if necessary.
 
Things get so much worse as an oldcel. We have nothing to look forward to. It's only a slow descent into hell from here on out. :reeeeee:
Yeah nowadays I feel this pervasive ominous sense of doom and destruction hanging over my head as I watch my health and my family deteriorate into nothing. All of my family's historic shortcomings and failures have now accumulated and been laid bare before me. Its just too much to take sometimes because there's only despair, no hope, nothing at all.
 
I'm almost there in age with you and I agree that this is pure hell. We are older, less capable, our bodies are failing after getting weakened by decades of trauma and failure. Our parents are aging and support is declining, all the while things are getting worse across the world. Life just stops being meaningful, especially since we've achieved nothing.
Yep, all of that but declining support is a big one for me since I still need support.

I feel like I just can't relate to the vast majority since 99% of the population has had sex/relationships by their 30's.

There's really nothing much left for us oldcels the older we get.
 
im a bit older than you and couldn't agree more. by this age your personality is gone, there's just resentment and sadness left

as far as foids, all single mothers and/or ugly and fat
 
I learned to cope, but I will rope if cant ascend before 40. The humiliation cant be prolonged.
Yeah 40 is my absolute limit, to be honest I'm thinking of roping earlier by 35 if I can't ascend.
 
You have to deal with all that while seeing your peers settle down, marry and start families — milestones we will never attain. It becomes impossible to relate to these people. We might as well live in another place of existence to them. Worst of all, people expect us to be at their level. They see us as subhuman creatures for being virgins at our age. Being outed as a virgin is effectively a social death sentence for us.

Things get so much worse as an oldcel. We have nothing to look forward to. It's only a slow descent into hell from here on out. :reeeeee:
Yeah, I have a friend who's around the same age as me but he's married with a daughter. He can't understand my suffering and it's impossible to relate to him.

My hobbies are starting to run out. It's like a hell.
 
I am nearly 20 and I see myself as 40s incel :cryfeels:
You're still young, I don't see myself getting to 40 and above. I plan to die before then if I can't ascend.
 
im a bit older than you and couldn't agree more. by this age your personality is gone, there's just resentment and sadness left

as far as foids, all single mothers and/or ugly and fat
That's what I feel nowadays resentment and sadness.
 
Yep, all of that but declining support is a big one for me since I still need support.

I feel like I just can't relate to the vast majority since 99% of the population has had sex/relationships by their 30's.

There's really nothing much left for us oldcels the older we get.

Absolutely not. If anything, not having sex is a quickly growing minority, and not super rare.
 
I'm not that far away from my mid 30's and it's really affecting me mentally that I've never had sex or a relationship and never will unless I pay for it.

Their were a couple of guys back at school in my class that were already finding girlfriends when were 13-14 years old. It's insane how much I've missed out on. That train has permanently left the station and it's never coming back.

I was down about not having a girlfriend at 19 but back then I still had time and hope that I would find someone, after 30 it's completely hopeless, most of the women around my age are single mothers with kids from chads or tyrones or they're taken/married. I don't think it's worth it anymore even if I did find someone by some miracle.

I want to die but I don't want to let the people who wronged me win just yet.
It will get worse
 
I've been living like an 80 year old man since I was like 18.
Pepe why pepe
 
water wet,it never began 4 trucels
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I am 24 years old.
 
Part of the reason I’m typing by 30 at the latest.
 
My oldceldom is much peaceful than my teenagehood.
 
My oldceldom is much peaceful than my teenagehood.

Most here don't even know wtf OldCel is lol, they are refering themselves as 'old' when being 20 years old, wtf.

Indiference comes from experience, anger = lack of experience, Indifference = experience.

If you are still angry at something you can't change you lack the experience to deal with it, if you are iindifferent it means you already dealt with it multiple times already.
14LOqn
 
Gonna be brutal with you here. Just see an escort. I'm 32 and from what I've seen things don't get better. On the off chance life does throw you a bone though take it assuming she isn't a bitch and doesn't have kids. I personally rather die alone than be captain cuckold. Also if you see escorts and then get into a relationship in the future take that shit to the grave with you. I considered being honest about it but given some women's attitude is "the past doesn't matter" then I guess mine doesn't matter either lol.
 
What's the point of ascending with a old used up woman, at that point might aswell die alone
 
What's the point of ascending with a old used up woman, at that point might aswell die alone
I mean I wouldn't mind tbh if old means around my age. Ofc there would be ground rules. No kids and no marriage. As far as I'm concerned women treated me like dirt so I don't owe them that stuff. There is no apologizing for the humiliation I've endured.
 

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