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Be honest are you happy?

Bruh take me back to 2019 I wanna be 13 again
 
are you really 22 despite joining in 2019? that would make you like 15 back then
:forcedsmile: yeah it wasnt the best idea... part of the reason i stopped being as active
 
No. I have thought about suicide or going ER at least once per day since I turned 22 so two years. My life is grueling pain every day. I'm unhappy constantly, and when I try to be happy and approach people in this new city I moved, the society rejects me and reminds me how I have no value because by avoiding me because I'm a weirdo (mild speech disorder, ugly face). This is an average male's experience. I wish I could be as balanced and happy as a child and as a fresh adult, but bullies and life's expectations are too much. I guess I would be happy if I had friends and company. But forced isolation and loneliness destroys your psyche.
 
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Mostly no. But some days are better some are complete hell.
 
over for pennywisecels
clown GIF
 
No, but ive seen days times for sure so i am sort of thankful for how my life is currently to say the very least.
 
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There's not a day that goes by were I don't think of roping.
 
There’s days where I’m just fine, not angry or sad. But I’m not really happy at all
 
Why would I be happy if I ended up on this site
 
I took a break from this website because all of my friends were banned. Also, when I first joined, I was told I was too young. I took that break over college and now I am worse off, but my suicidal tendencies have gone. Im still depressed and my quality of life has gotten worse but I now have a sense of peace about my situation and lot in life. Do you guys think that its possible to reach this state. All I have to look forward to is graduating college and starting on new things in life. If I fail so be it. My younger years were a lot better and maybe I wasted it on this website. But now I dont really care for this place because I migrated to twitter. Im still an incel dont get me wrong. I will probably never have a woman in my life. But the problem seems more universal so I dont have many qualms about being weird.
NO
 
:forcedsmile: yeah it wasnt the best idea... part of the reason i stopped being as active
No way @Adolf Kitler gets a one month ban for joining here at 17 meanwhile you never get a single ban for joining at 15 lmfao
 
I was never happy. Even when I was a child, I was never happy and I will never be happy. I will never be content in life. It is impossible to be happy with a small penis. You are only be able to be happy if you have a big penis.

I miss 2019

Despite I was also not happy back then, I also kinda miss 2019.
 
is that a serious question :feelsUgh:
 
I took a break from this website because all of my friends were banned. Also, when I first joined, I was told I was too young. I took that break over college and now I am worse off, but my suicidal tendencies have gone. Im still depressed and my quality of life has gotten worse but I now have a sense of peace about my situation and lot in life. Do you guys think that its possible to reach this state. All I have to look forward to is graduating college and starting on new things in life. If I fail so be it. My younger years were a lot better and maybe I wasted it on this website. But now I dont really care for this place because I migrated to twitter. Im still an incel dont get me wrong. I will probably never have a woman in my life. But the problem seems more universal so I dont have many qualms about being weird.
Bro, if you don't wealthmax or neetmax effectively, it sucks ass
 
If we were happy we wouldn’t be on this site. But it’s possible to be at peace (aka numbed out or coping). I decided to just focus on money and using systems and people to get ahead as long as it doesn’t kill them
 
Based Leyley enjoyer, she's my waifu as well.

Answering your post, i'm very very very very unhappy. The things that matter in life are largely outside of your control. What are those things? Financial freedom and your capabitilies to attract the sex you're attracted to. I struggled immensely to land a job and while i tried to be good at it and stay. I could not deal with having to go to the office everyday and spend my day with normies. Things were fine most of the time, but you end up encountering uncomfortable situations. Like chads flaunting their sexual power, while here am i as an incel person. How can i stand their bragging?

The worst part of that? Is when you let them get to your head, thinking.... maybe they are right, maybe i do have a chance? What i did end up doing? Going to one of those university parties as an older dude, the fuck i was thinking it was exactly like i thought. And the guys ofc were surrounded by girls, meanwhile i was alone and sad and drunk. JFL.

So what did i do? I resigned and choose a WFH job. But they just fired me after 3 months and after that i'm 1 year and something without a job. So i can't get a WFH job which a living wage, neither can i get a gf who won't lust after other men due to my awful looks. So why bother living? If i were rich i would just not care and live like a hikkikomori, but i can't do that as i'm living off savings.

I don't know of any people that are happy who are in a bad place financially and loveless, without a spouse. You need 1 of those two things to have a chance of being happy, i have neither and i think i won't ever have it. Not only that but my life was always such a letdown.

From my family, which is a fucking mess. One more deranged and awful than the other, they are not the worst family you could get but certainly not good enough to offset my inceldom and life status. And just the outcome of my life and decisions, i feel like incels are largely unlucky and i'm one of the luckless persons that i know of.

So yeah after thinking about it for a while, i'll probably live this year and see if something good comes out of it. If nothing good comes out i'll probably kys. I know that the future will be worse than today, so why bother? I like anime and games but they can carry out my existance only so far, they are things made by humans after all.
 
I cry from being so lonely.
 
Through the healing power of Jesus Christ all things are possible.
Read Mark 11:23
 
I'm basically unhappy when Im not just coping and distracting myself, I feel happy momentarily when I win in ranked video games or catch a good show, think its just serotonin release

I would say generally though I don't believe anyone can actually be "happy", even for the aristocracy like Elon and Trump they still gotta deal with everyone's bullshit daily. even if you are some rich guy's son that can technically LDAR people around you will still have expectations
 
no. Some dumb nays I'm numb, other days I have this nagging feeling in my chest. Being NEET certainly keeps me sane. if I had to wage, my will to rope would become much worse.
 
no but at this point the problem is more day to day stress and worry

all i do is worry about things i cant really control
 
Yes, being an incel brings me great joy. Everytime I leave the house I am filled with exuberance anf excitement to get mogged. I love seeing what I missed out on when seeing couples on the street, I couldn't be happier :)
 
True faith gave me happiness and allowed me to understand more of the world. This place is just a go to for me when I can't find any decent news.
 
I took a break from this website because all of my friends were banned. Also, when I first joined, I was told I was too young. I took that break over college and now I am worse off, but my suicidal tendencies have gone. Im still depressed and my quality of life has gotten worse but I now have a sense of peace about my situation and lot in life. Do you guys think that its possible to reach this state. All I have to look forward to is graduating college and starting on new things in life. If I fail so be it. My younger years were a lot better and maybe I wasted it on this website. But now I dont really care for this place because I migrated to twitter. Im still an incel dont get me wrong. I will probably never have a woman in my life. But the problem seems more universal so I dont have many qualms about being weird.
No Im angry and depressed at the sametime.
 
I can't feel happiness
 
22 is still young af :feelskek:
 
I took a break from this website because all of my friends were banned. Also, when I first joined, I was told I was too young. I took that break over college and now I am worse off, but my suicidal tendencies have gone. Im still depressed and my quality of life has gotten worse but I now have a sense of peace about my situation and lot in life. Do you guys think that its possible to reach this state. All I have to look forward to is graduating college and starting on new things in life. If I fail so be it. My younger years were a lot better and maybe I wasted it on this website. But now I dont really care for this place because I migrated to twitter. Im still an incel dont get me wrong. I will probably never have a woman in my life. But the problem seems more universal so I dont have many qualms about being weird.
i’ve accepted the fact that i will truly never be happy with my life and acceptance is one way to move forward
 
I just don't care anymore, happiness don't pay the bills.
I miss 2019, it was good while it lasted.
 
Haven't been for a while. Sure, you may have a good time on occasion, play something, do some sort of hobby, and whatnot. But overall, I constantly have this feeling floating over me. I don't think it will ever get better, and I don't think I will take it for much longer.
 
It's been downhill since 2017. There almost isn't a single day that doesn't pass where I don't think about my father at least once. He's been dead for nearly 9 years now. It's not to say I'm constantly miserable but it still sucks. Other than that most days I just don't feel like I have the effort in me to better myself because I don't feel I get a decent return on the effort I put in most times.
 
Nothing to be happy bout my life
 
No my future is bleak. The best thing I can hope for is to be numbed by anti depressant meds.
 

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