If making people feel "put down" is the standard there's a lot of other obvious things that are normalized on the forum that will also have to be addressed.
This community should have nothing to do with "I'm lonely", because that takes away from the core issue - SEX.
There are already forums/groups for lonely men, what's that shit called, "loveshy.com" or something, I can't remember.
But what I don't want to see is a bunch of weak hearted emotional fucks to come into the incel space and attempt to co-opt the label to fit their mindset.
I talked about this in a thread before:
Your life is miserable because you aren't sexually satisfied People often bring up Elliot Roger going on and on about loneliness in his manifesto, and falsely cite that as an example of proof, that inceldom is about loneliness, lack of companionship and female affection, etc That's nothing but...
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To many men confuse "InLon" (Involuntarily Lonely) with InCel (Involuntarily Celibate) and try to conflate the too. At it's core it's about sex and they refuse to acknowledge that. If I snapped by fingers and took away their libidos, they wouldn't even care about talking a woman much more "cuddling" or "being in a relationship" with one.
The guys who talk about this "the problem is that I'm lonely" shit are the same guys who are always talking about "oneitis". This kind of mindset can't be allowed to spread and become the norm.
There has to be a clear set of "core values" that the incel forum revolves around, and because the "leaders" refuse to establish this and enforce those norms, there will always be back and forth like this.
