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Blackpill [Hard To Swallow Edition] You Only THINK Loneliness is What Frustrates You, Loneliness Is Not The Problem, Lack Of Sexual Satisfaction Is

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Your life is miserable because you aren't sexually satisfied

People often bring up Elliot Roger going on and on about loneliness in his manifesto, and falsely cite that as an example of proof, that inceldom is about loneliness, lack of companionship and female affection, etc

That's nothing but a misunderstanding of the situation of the scenario, allow me to explain


Elliot wanted a blonde stacy, went on and on about blonde girls in his manifesto, if he was fucking a 5/10 brunette at that time in his life, that gave him all her holes and was deep throating him daily, that manifesto would never have existed and that's a fact (like a friends with benefits thing, they don't really talk or hang out, just fuck)

He'd still want a blonde stacy for a while, but he'd care a lot less about it, and would actually be satisfied with the girl he had, and likely one day he'd give up on getting a blonde stacy and think of it as a "childish dream" and settle down with that brunette who kept him satisfied and never cucked him

So that "dream companionship", that "perfect relationship" he thinks he wants (what a lot of us think we want), like magic doesn't really matter if you think about it, if you are being sexually satisfied you'll likely stick with where your bread is buttered, but most of us have neither sexual satisfaction nor companionship, so its easy to conflate the yearning caused by lack of sex with loneliness

Companionship doesn't matter, everything comes down to being satisfied

THE ONLY REASON YOU THINK YOU WANT MORE THAN SEXUAL SATISFACTION IS BECAUSE YOU'VE NEVER HAD CONSISTENT ACCESS TO SEX AND EXPERIENCED THE SATISFACTION IT BRINGS YOU


THIS IS THE PART WHERE I REALLY NEED YOU TO PAY ATTENTION AND READ CAREFULLY


Its very convenient to argue that its about "being lonely" when you've never had sexual satisfaction, its more likely that he [Elliot] (and other incels) were just sexually frustrated and began to conflate that frustration with being lonely, because "being with a woman" (not being lonely) is the prerequisite (initial requirement) to get sex

Let me give you an analogy so you get my point:

There's a guy who is frustrated and complaining about not being 16 years old yet, and that he can't drive a car because its illegal at his age

You are saying he's frustrated because he's 16 years old, I'm saying you're wrong, the prerequisite to drive is being 16 years old

What he really wants to do is drive, not be 16, he just has to be 16 to drive, and he speaks as if he hates being under 16 because he gets teased about it, but if he could drive he wouldn't care that he's under 16

He like you, is falsely conflating his frustration with being 16, when actually he's frustrated that he can't drive, if he could skip the age limit and just drive, he wouldn't care about being under 16 and getting teased about it, the driving is the issue, not the age (sexual satisfaction is the issue, not lacking companionship/loneliness)
 
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That explains why all these chads and stacies are happy and hyped up all of the time.
 
There's a guy who is frustrated and complaining about not being 16 years old yet, and that he can't drive a car because its illegal at his age

Imagine not even having a driver licence as a grown up man. It is basically over at this point

What he really wants to do is drive

Brutal...

but if he could drive he wouldn't care that he's under 16

Imagine being 25 and still unable to drive. The driver licence pill destroyed my life.
 
how do hookers come into this?
 
how do hookers come into this?

This has nothing to do with hookers, the thread is literally what the title says its about

Its very convenient to argue that its about "being lonely" when you've never had sexual satisfaction, its more likely that he [Elliot] (and other incels) were just sexually frustrated and began to conflate that frustration with being lonely, because "being with a woman" (not being lonely) is the prerequisite (initial requirement) to get sex

Let me give you an analogy so you get my point:

There's a guy who is frustrated and complaining about not being 16 years old yet, and that he can't drive a car because its illegal at his age

You are saying he's frustrated because he's 16 years old, I'm saying you're wrong, the prerequisite to drive is being 16 years old

What he really wants to do is drive, not be 16, he just has to be 16 to drive, and he speaks as if he hates being under 16 because he gets teased about it, but if he could drive he wouldn't care that he's under 16

He like you, is falsely conflating his frustration with being 16, when actually he's frustrated that he can't drive, if he could skip the age limit and just drive, he wouldn't care about being under 16 and getting teased about it, the driving is the issue, not the age (sexual satisfaction is the issue, not lacking companionship/loneliness)
 
If sexual frustration is the problem why would most men feel unsatisfied with a prostitute/whore. The reason is that what we want is validation and companionship, the sex is one aspect of that but it is not the whole picture. If men were a plant, sex would be the soil, validation would be water, and companionship is sunlight. You need all three or it is incomplete and the plant dies. Just like how a man who gets companionship and validation but no sex is a cuck.

if he was fucking a 5/10 brunette at the time, that gave him all her holes and was deep throating him daily, that manifesto would never have existed and that's a fact
This example you gave perfectly fits what I am talking about, in this scenario you are getting all the 3 things that you need, without anything missing.
 
It's more so feeling desired than it is sexual satisfaction. You could just fap to get that.


But your genes being desired on a primal level, especially by multiple women, is what cures inceldom.
 
Sex and validation is what we lack. Loneliness is a nice general way of putting it.. If we didn’t also need validation as a way to recover from our shit lonely lives, then escortcelling or maybe even just masturbating would be the equivalent of fucking a cute loyal gf.
The validation is just as important as the sex if not more so.
 
I need validation and companionship too. I want the sex over anything and I would be satisfied right. But I want the other small gestures of affection like kisses , hugs , hh , “ilys” , cuddles , play together or just have her by my side hugging while i watch tv
 
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If I fucked a girl, I'd be confident and happy
 
Lack of both causes frustration. I personally believe they're equally important. Even though, like you said, some might blame loneliness when it's sex they desire.
 
I just wish I could score dates easily. Not necessarily with chad's ease, but still, if I could have some female company for a while (without betabuxing or paying them lots of shit) and making out I would be more than satisfied even if I wasn't slaying and getting lots of sex.
 
I noticed this recently. Sexual frustration likes to masquerade as loneliness, anger, and the like. As an incel, you need to learn to recognize when this happens and act accordingly. Your id and your superego are in a perpetual arms race since nothing you can do as an incel can ever really satisfy both, especially the id.
 
Theres a reason why guys will ditch all their friends once they get a gf.
 
Never understood anyone that said they want to take a femerloid on a date. I want to cum in pussy, tell her to shut up and leave.
 
how do hookers come into this?
They can provide us with sex, which is what we really need, but not companionship.
Theres a reason why guys will ditch all their friends once they get a gf.
Because their gf is their main outlet for sex, so they try their best to keep her happy even if it involves neglecting their friends.
 
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Water is wet. But tbh i as an escortcel are sexual satisfied. Its more about emotional satisfaction.

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Just look at this. Do you think you dont need a cuddle from a beautiful gf who loves you?

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Think again.
 
They can provide us with sex, which is what we really need, but not companionship.
Because their gf is their main outlet for sex, so they try their best to keep her happy even if it involves neglecting their friends.
Yeah, for most guys sex is a higher priority.
 
I noticed this recently. Sexual frustration likes to masquerade as loneliness, anger, and the like. As an incel, you need to learn to recognize when this happens and act accordingly. Your id and your superego are in a perpetual arms race since nothing you can do as an incel can ever really satisfy both, especially the id.
Lack of both causes frustration. I personally believe they're equally important. Even though, like you said, some might blame loneliness when it's sex they desire.
Yeah, for most guys sex is a higher priority.
 
Water is wet. But tbh i as an escortcel are sexual satisfied. Its more about emotional satisfaction.

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Just look at this. Do you think you dont need a cuddle from a beautiful gf who loves you?

Its funny to me. I look at these pictures the same way one might look at an actor acting a role. The foid pretends to give affection in order to obtain what she wants from a relationship, but can immediately change at the drop of a hat. Images like this were suifuel to me when I was more bluepilled. I would have believed that such displays of affection were real. That I too could obtain what those pictures show. The blackpill has truly provided mental salvation to me.
 
Its funny to me. I look at these pictures the same way one might look at an actor acting a role. The foid pretends to give affection in order to obtain what she wants from a relationship, but can immediately change at the drop of a hat. Images like this were suifuel to me when I was more bluepilled. I would have believed that such displays of affection were real. That I too could obtain what those pictures show. The blackpill has truly provided mental salvation to me.
Just delusionmaxx bro
 
Now want to hug cute loving waifu. To bang pretty whore - maybe

Ugly femorloids are absolutely out of question
 
Just delusionmaxx bro
I wouldn't call naturally hypergamous females cheating or lying delusional. Imagine if gigachad caught her eye. One morning she's kissing chadlite on the cheek, that afternoon she's on her knees sucking chad's cock. There is no such thing as loving loyal women. Only women who are temporarily satisfied. Actors playing along until a better paying job comes along.
 
I wouldn't call naturally hypergamous females cheating or lying delusional. Imagine if gigachad caught her eye. One morning she's kissing chadlite on the cheek, that afternoon she's on her knees sucking chad's cock. There is no such thing as loving loyal women. Only women who are temporarily satisfied. Actors playing along until a better paying job comes along.
Cope teen chad has a loving caring virgin stacy and marrys her.

This only occurs to non virgins
 
I’m lonely, sexually frustrated, angry, sad and depressed.
 
If sexual frustration is the problem why would most men feel unsatisfied with a prostitute/whore
Because they have not found a whore that satisfied them.
 
Yeah, this is escortcel cope
 
What I've noticed is that normies don't really seem to care about kissing, cuddling, hugging etc. But people who have been lonely their entire life think a lot about that.

Normies just think about sex.
 
Cope teen chad has a loving caring virgin stacy and marrys her.

This only occurs to non virgins
Jfl. How many teen couples do you see that married in late 90s or 2000s survived 15+ years? The only long lasting marriages I know of are left over from 1980s. And most foids lose their virginities at 12 or 14. Once they go to college they become whores.
 
Jfl. How many teen couples do you see that married in late 90s or 2000s survived 15+ years? The only long lasting marriages I know of are left over from 1980s. And most foids lose their virginities at 12 or 14. Once they go to college they become whores.
Cope i know 2
 
Cope i know 2
Wow. 2. That's very impressive. Out of how many total? 3 long lasting teen couples I know out of a 600 or so couples. I know a lottery wimner too. Gueas we should blow our money on lottery tickets.
 
Your life is miserable because you aren't sexually satisfied

People often bring up Elliot Roger going on and on about loneliness in his manifesto, and falsely cite that as an example of proof, that inceldom is about loneliness, lack of companionship and female affection, etc

That's nothing but a misunderstanding of the situation of the scenario, allow me to explain


Elliot wanted a blonde stacy, went on and on about blonde girls in his manifesto, if he was fucking a 5/10 brunette at that time in his life, that gave him all her holes and was deep throating him daily, that manifesto would never have existed and that's a fact (like a friends with benefits thing, they don't really talk or hang out, just fuck)

He'd still want a blonde stacy for a while, but he'd care a lot less about it, and would actually be satisfied with the girl he had, and likely one day he'd give up on getting a blonde stacy and think of it as a "childish dream" and settle down with that brunette who kept him satisfied and never cucked him

So that "dream companionship", that "perfect relationship" he thinks he wants (what a lot of us think we want), like magic doesn't really matter if you think about it, if you are being sexually satisfied you'll likely stick with where your bread is buttered, but most of us have neither sexual satisfaction nor companionship, so its easy to conflate the yearning caused by lack of sex with loneliness

Companionship doesn't matter, everything comes down to being satisfied

THE ONLY REASON YOU THINK YOU WANT MORE THAN SEXUAL SATISFACTION IS BECAUSE YOU'VE NEVER HAD CONSISTENT ACCESS TO SEX AND EXPERIENCED THE SATISFACTION IT BRINGS YOU


THIS IS THE PART WHERE I REALLY NEED YOU TO PAY ATTENTION AND READ CAREFULLY


Its very convenient to argue that its about "being lonely" when you've never had sexual satisfaction, its more likely that he [Elliot] (and other incels) were just sexually frustrated and began to conflate that frustration with being lonely, because "being with a woman" (not being lonely) is the prerequisite (initial requirement) to get sex

Let me give you an analogy so you get my point:

There's a guy who is frustrated and complaining about not being 16 years old yet, and that he can't drive a car because its illegal at his age

You are saying he's frustrated because he's 16 years old, I'm saying you're wrong, the prerequisite to drive is being 16 years old

What he really wants to do is drive, not be 16, he just has to be 16 to drive, and he speaks as if he hates being under 16 because he gets teased about it, but if he could drive he wouldn't care that he's under 16

He like you, is falsely conflating his frustration with being 16, when actually he's frustrated that he can't drive, if he could skip the age limit and just drive, he wouldn't care about being under 16 and getting teased about it, the driving is the issue, not the age (sexual satisfaction is the issue, not lacking companionship/loneliness)
Absolute truth. I have already spent over a decade in loneliness. I have Meditated in nature alone for days at a time. with no problems. sexual frustration is the real problem. tho I my case I have almost erased it
 
Wow. 2. That's very impressive. Out of how many total? 3 long lasting teen couples I know out of a 600 or so couples. I know a lottery wimner too. Gueas we should blow our money on lottery tickets.
They exist, to say otherwise is cope.
 
I dont feel lonliness.
 
They exist, to say otherwise is cope.
Yeah. In the same way lottery winners exist. Not statistically significant. And I would challenge your 2 examples to a test. The three I know are from Amish and Menonite settlements. Have you introduced these "loyal" women in your samples to tinder?
 
Sexual satisfaction is only a bandaid. The novelty would inevitably wear off like it does for everyone, which is why there are incels on here that have consistent access to prostitutes and escorts. What we want short term is sex, which, outside of prostitution, can only be aquired through willingful submission of a female. What i think we truly want is for a female to show that she values us sexually and romantically, instead of only financially. Which is where the "more than sex" thing comes from.
 
This example you gave perfectly fits what I am talking about, in this scenario you are getting all the 3 things that you need, without anything missing.

That's not companionship, you can argue its validation, but it isn't companionship
You could just fap to get that.

Saying fapping is as satisfying as sex, is like saying jumping on a trampoline is as exhilarating as sky diving
No, that seems cringe and corny to me now. I just want to tap some puss.
What I've noticed is that normies don't really seem to care about kissing, cuddling, hugging etc. But people who have been lonely their entire life think a lot about that.

Normies just think about sex.

JFL this is literally the point of my thread, incels conflate loneliness with their frustration when its really just sex, and because they don't have access to sex they don't know that, they think its loneliness, when in actually "having someone" is how you get sex, that's it, "being with someone" won't make you happy unless there's sex involved, you are just a friendzoned fuck without sex, by the logic of some of the guys speaking here, if they had a life long affectionate female friend they'd be ok with dying a virgin
 
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Your life is miserable because you aren't sexually satisfied

People often bring up Elliot Roger going on and on about loneliness in his manifesto, and falsely cite that as an example of proof, that inceldom is about loneliness, lack of companionship and female affection, etc

That's nothing but a misunderstanding of the situation of the scenario, allow me to explain


Elliot wanted a blonde stacy, went on and on about blonde girls in his manifesto, if he was fucking a 5/10 brunette at that time in his life, that gave him all her holes and was deep throating him daily, that manifesto would never have existed and that's a fact (like a friends with benefits thing, they don't really talk or hang out, just fuck)

He'd still want a blonde stacy for a while, but he'd care a lot less about it, and would actually be satisfied with the girl he had, and likely one day he'd give up on getting a blonde stacy and think of it as a "childish dream" and settle down with that brunette who kept him satisfied and never cucked him

So that "dream companionship", that "perfect relationship" he thinks he wants (what a lot of us think we want), like magic doesn't really matter if you think about it, if you are being sexually satisfied you'll likely stick with where your bread is buttered, but most of us have neither sexual satisfaction nor companionship, so its easy to conflate the yearning caused by lack of sex with loneliness

Companionship doesn't matter, everything comes down to being satisfied

THE ONLY REASON YOU THINK YOU WANT MORE THAN SEXUAL SATISFACTION IS BECAUSE YOU'VE NEVER HAD CONSISTENT ACCESS TO SEX AND EXPERIENCED THE SATISFACTION IT BRINGS YOU


THIS IS THE PART WHERE I REALLY NEED YOU TO PAY ATTENTION AND READ CAREFULLY


Its very convenient to argue that its about "being lonely" when you've never had sexual satisfaction, its more likely that he [Elliot] (and other incels) were just sexually frustrated and began to conflate that frustration with being lonely, because "being with a woman" (not being lonely) is the prerequisite (initial requirement) to get sex

Let me give you an analogy so you get my point:

There's a guy who is frustrated and complaining about not being 16 years old yet, and that he can't drive a car because its illegal at his age

You are saying he's frustrated because he's 16 years old, I'm saying you're wrong, the prerequisite to drive is being 16 years old

What he really wants to do is drive, not be 16, he just has to be 16 to drive, and he speaks as if he hates being under 16 because he gets teased about it, but if he could drive he wouldn't care that he's under 16

He like you, is falsely conflating his frustration with being 16, when actually he's frustrated that he can't drive, if he could skip the age limit and just drive, he wouldn't care about being under 16 and getting teased about it, the driving is the issue, not the age (sexual satisfaction is the issue, not lacking companionship/loneliness)
So basically you’re saying that friends are cope and sex is the only thing that matters and will cure your loneliness? I wouldn’t know tbh as i’ve never had sex and I also have no friends atm, maybe im just too low iq to understand this thread.
 
So basically you’re saying that friends are cope and sex is the only thing that matters and will cure your loneliness? I wouldn’t know tbh as i’ve never had sex and I also have no friends atm, maybe im just too low iq to understand this thread.

No I'm saying that many men falsely conflate sexual desire with loneliness, because the prerequisite to get sex is to not be lonely (have a woman), so they are confusing the prerequisite for the goal, having friends will never take away your sexual desire, so if you have friends and are seuxally frustrated, you'll still "feel lonely"

Theres a reason why guys will ditch all their friends once they get a gf.

Friendship can't replace sexual desire, they are two different kinds of "resources" that can only be "replenished" by different "inputs"

In the same way that no matter how much water you drink it won't stop the hunger of your body for nutrition from food, and no matter how much food you eat it won't hydrate you enough like water wood
 
Its funny to me. I look at these pictures the same way one might look at an actor acting a role. The foid pretends to give affection in order to obtain what she wants from a relationship, but can immediately change at the drop of a hat. Images like this were suifuel to me when I was more bluepilled. I would have believed that such displays of affection were real. That I too could obtain what those pictures show. The blackpill has truly provided mental salvation to me.
Word up mane. A few years back I would say also that it is crucial to my life. Knowing no hoe loves any man, even no chad makes me only fuck da pussy and beat the shit out of bitch
 
I can't wait to escortcel man

This feels too exciting ;-)
 

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