Are there any of you who (geuninely) feel like you have lost the capacity to feel love?

[ugly_genius]

Not even in a joking way.

Really asking this to members of this forum who are mimimum of 25 or over years old.

Younger than that and it's not so bad to get over rejections/failures/tfl etc...

But to you other guys on a serious note. I am asking because it worries me. I actually did feel love (even if it was never reciprocated not even once) to multiple people in the past. I was actually a very warm person in the past.

But after a certain point of unrelenting and sustained repeated inceldom, it just finally stopped like a light being turned off. And it worried me. I don't really give a rat's arse about anything anymore. Especially myself. This shit really is more than just a horrible predicament. It's akin to a disease in many ways with the long term effects it has on health.

Would be curious to hear any thoughts/reflections/experiences. Particularly from those who have gone through the most extreme forms of inceldom and borne the brunt. (over 15yrs no kisses, virg's, no hugz, no holding hands, no relationship, not even 1 friend, etc...)

 

[tacotown2142]

kind of. If a girl actually expressed interest in me I think I maybe might be able to. But when I was in middle school I would have oneitises, girls who would just make me feel really happy just to be around or talk to. I don't really get that feeling anymore.

 

[Deleted member 42964]

In a way. I could feel affection for a girl if a girl seems interested in me, but that's only very superficial because most girls are feminist whores and she would think I'm a misogynistic piece of shit if she knew about my political views. Therefore, it's a very shallow affection, because if I actually opened up to her about the way I see the world, she would hate me, so me feeling affection for her or vice versa would mean nothing. There's no reason for loving most people because they are my enemies.

 

[El Enemigo]

You're coping, all it would take is a vompliment from a girl you like to be infatuated by her, just always the same with people like you

 

[ugly_genius]

You're coping, all it would take is a vompliment from a girl you like to be infatuated by her, just always the same with people like you

This sort of gross misunderstanding is why I specifically addressed this post looking for answers, reflections and insights from posters 25 or over only

 

[RuudVanNistelrooy]

If you are blackpilled enough you would already know that you will get mostly a transactional love, if even that. Your love, your sense of humor and personality cant overcome her dislike for bad genetics.

 

[TheCatMan]

kind of. If a girl actually expressed interest in me I think I maybe might be able to. But when I was in middle school I would have oneitises, girls who would just make me feel really happy just to be around or talk to. I don't really get that feeling anymore.

 

[El Enemigo]

This sort of gross misunderstanding is why I specifically addressed this post looking for answers, reflections and insights from posters 25 or over only

Age barely changes anything, but keep coping by thinking you're tough

 

[latincell]

>love

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This!! No such thing as love.

Foids either love you for your looks and/or your money, but they gotta love something

 

[ugly_genius]

actually it seems to me like a lot of you guys are the ones who are c0ping by trying desperately to deny such a thing as love exists.

It clearly does, because if it didn't then why are all of us so depressed? And don't say because we are not simply getting sex because if that's what it is then just go out n escortmaxx already n you'll be done with it

And as for the whole stacy's only love money/chad's genetics.... yeah duh we all know that. But it's still drawing an emotion which you simultaneously claim to deny.

Man up and stop denying it to yourselves. You all want to be 'loved', to be wanted

I don't have anything to prove to any cunt, or any reason to feign being "tough" on some forum. I'm not tough at all. But I would rather be realistic and face the music. Love is a real thing, and we are just not getting it, and we are crying about that.

wanna know what's "tough"? Swallowing that motherfucker of a pill. and that's why you don't wanna do it.

I understand. It's not pleasant.

 

[RollD20]

Yeah.
But I just don’t think ‘love’ really exists it’s just a transaction at some point.

 

[nice_try]

Bro, if you go extended periods without love, you might think that that would lead to you not being able to feel love anymore, but in my oppinion the exact opposite is true, you have to be extremely careful of that, if you go long without love and then comes a chick who is interested in you, you'll be at risk of falling irrationally in love with that chick, you will love her so unreasonably much that you'll do anything for her.

 

[Sennacherib]

''Love'' doesn't exist.

 

[Ehwhatever]

In the sense that I'm unable to form an emotional connection or bond, yes. I've been diagnosed with a personality disorder because I'm unable to form, or more accurately I'm terrified of, emotional connection. I have avpd and I shut down or automatically cut off from people out of fear, sometimes in bizarre or excessive ways. It's pretty much instinctive.

It would take a extremely loving and loyal girl to able to "love" her back but even then I'm not sure. I've been depressed and closed off for so long I can't imagine myself loving anyone besides parents/siblings. At least not in a way I consider love to be and how I've experienced it prior.

 

[SayanimCel]

''Love'' doesn't exist.

 

[war_with_myself]

Yes, i have gone insane

 

[ugly_genius]

This guy gets it.

In the sense that I'm unable to form an emotional connection or bond, yes. I've been diagnosed with a personality disorder because I'm unable to form, or more accurately I'm terrified of, emotional connection. I have avpd and I shut down or automatically cut off from people out of fear, sometimes in bizarre or excessive ways. It's pretty much instinctive.

It would take a extremely loving and loyal girl to able to "love" her back but even then I'm not sure. I've been depressed and closed off for so long I can't imagine myself loving anyone besides parents/siblings. At least not in a way I consider love to be and how I've experienced it prior.

I've been 'diagnosed' with that same thing too. (Along with a few others comorbid as well) … according to those psych freaks that i dont trust much tbh. But I guess inceldom and being an inferior piece of garbage in the eyes of the world around u (especially the opposite sex) hasnt made it into their "DSM" yet.

Youre right it's the length of time that seals the damage.

 

[Deleted member 42058]

Sometimes I do but how would I know? Maybe I still have it inside me but I have my doubts.

 

[BPJ]

absolutely i cant love anyone but fellow brocels

 

[keithbauhaus]

Not even in a joking way.

Really asking this to members of this forum who are mimimum of 25 or over years old.

Younger than that and it's not so bad to get over rejections/failures/tfl etc...

But to you other guys on a serious note. I am asking because it worries me. I actually did feel love (even if it was never reciprocated not even once) to multiple people in the past. I was actually a very warm person in the past.

But after a certain point of unrelenting and sustained repeated inceldom, it just finally stopped like a light being turned off. And it worried me. I don't really give a rat's arse about anything anymore. Especially myself. This shit really is more than just a horrible predicament. It's akin to a disease in many ways with the long term effects it has on health.

Would be curious to hear any thoughts/reflections/experiences. Particularly from those who have gone through the most extreme forms of inceldom and borne the brunt. (over 15yrs no kisses, virg's, no hugz, no holding hands, no relationship, not even 1 friend, etc...)

I'm above that threshold -- and honestly, I don't think I have lost the capacity to feel love. If I had just one fucking girl show a shred of empathy for me then I probably wouldn't be as self-destructive as I am now.

 

[turbosperg]

Not even in a joking way.

I'm 37.

I don't believe in ""romantic love"" anymore. The only kind of "love" that may exist is beta cucks "loving" a foid in exchange for nothing. Other than that, all I can see is financial and genetic interests. To believe in ""love"", or rather: to believe I'm "being loved" would require a degree of suspension of disbelief that I no longer possess.

It's like believing in Santa Claus, the Easter Bunny, democracy or the Tooth Fairy -- once you find out what is behind those myths, then you can't go back to believing them no matter how comforting the belief used to feel to you. The magic is simply gone once you learn how the trick is made.

Even if a manic pixie dream girl would parachute from the sky on my front yard tomorrow, and profess her undying love for me, I would be suspicious of her motives and ask her to leave -- she's probably concocting a plot to take my stuff and rob me anyway. I'm that cynical and jaded.

Now, the illusion of "romantic love" is useful if you're a young man, a betabuxx cuck, or a foid -- this illusion as it will drive you to fulfill your biological role of procreation, resource provisioning, or breeding with Chad and acquiring resources from betabuxx billy, in the case of foids. These sexhavers breeder normies psychologically benefit from the belief in love, as it allows them to create a psychologically fulfilling narrative/story for their own actions, e.g.:

-- I'll creampie/get creampied because I'm in love
-- I'll work my ass off for this foid and the kids she's made with Chad because I love her and she loves me
-- I thought I loved Chad, and bred with him, but I wised up, and now know that my true love is Mr. Betacucks

When a person is as blackpilled as I am, all that is visible behind the word "love" is this delusion-generation machine that makes sexhavers stay in their lane, driving them towards their biological roles: breeding, cheating/forgiving, monkey-branching, cucking/getting cucked, betabuxxing, etc.

This is as clear to me as observing that a water pump is the machine that makes the water move up to the water tower, or that the Santa Claus is the machine that teaches kids to demand bribes in exchange for good behavior, or that the Tooth Fairy is the machine that teaches kids to remove their deciduous teeth as soon as possible (to prevent rot, infection, etc.) instead of delaying the process, etc.

 

[InMemoriam]

Love is a woman made concept

 

[Lifeisbullshit95]

absolutely i cant love anyone but fellow brocels

That's gay and cope.

 

[BPJ]

That's gay and cope.

well shit.. i think ur right...cant argue there really..