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42 year old Incel here

I can't lie and say it gets better. It gets worse. Especially if you don't find a partner and are all alone. All my friends are married and I feel like they look at me in a lesser way because I'm single and alone. No woman has ever found me attractive.
I'm sorry to hear that buddy boyo.

Actually when I was in my 20s I intended to commit sudoku when I turn 30 since I couldn't see myself being happy after that point. But I didn't follow through on it. I chickened out I guess.
 
There are some not very nice people who try to infiltrate this sight
Why would anyone try to infiltrate this forum? We're just a bunch of lonely guys trying to help each other and support each other. What's the point?
 
I am just an ordinary man, working hard to make a living.
Ok, Dont be offended btw, I was wondering, Mexico, Hector, The age, Anyway how you doing bro, Love from norway! I wanna know how is mexico? I heard its brutal with cartels and stuff, Hang in there, Life sucks here too, These healthcare scoundrels refuse to fix my nose that cause me pain, Fuck em! Never do rhinoplasty for birth defect jew nose ever! Anyway im on balcony trying to chill ignore the pain from nose and rot, I have a beer and my cat and my chinese gaming laptop with RTX4060, So i can chill, I hope you have a good day, Needed to vent, Fuck i cant believe im 25 aleredy.
 
I'm sorry to hear that buddy boyo.

Actually when I was in my 20s I intended to commit sudoku when I turn 30 since I couldn't see myself being happy after that point. But I didn't follow through on it. I chickened out I guess.
How have you kept yourself from doing it ever since? It's not like a one time thing where you hit 30, decided you wouldn't do it on your bday and never thought about it again.
 
My commiserations. I'm just a few years behind you, and in the same position.
 
It's not like a one time thing where you hit 30, decided you wouldn't do it on your bday and never thought about it again.
It is, actually. Or was.

I'm still thinking about it on a daily basis, not gonna lie.
 
IM 25! It wont get better! Trust and believe! Road to 30 will be hella hard champ!
Man it never gets better. When I was your age I was in your exact spot. The feeling of loneliness only gets worse as you age. Trust me on this. The road to 30 only gets worse. Nothing is looking up at all. Even being 40 you want to think that you're still not too old to find a wife but no you are considered old.
 
How have you kept yourself from doing it ever since? It's not like a one time thing where you hit 30, decided you wouldn't do it on your bday and never thought about it again.
Im 25 now, Every day ticks by faster, Empty, I have achieved nothing of value except a few expensive gaming machines but no sex, No friends for daily hangout, No nothing, Just rotting, The fuck am i doing, I have made some crypto cash tho, Like a few stacks but whats the point as an incel, Im too inhib to go seamaxx too as im socially retarded, I noticed in stutter alot too and passport bros have aleredy taken over the seamaxxing so now its chad only and there can be allegations if i sex overseas so its truly over and pair that with chronic pain and ADHD, I feel lost.
 
Man it never gets better. When I was your age I was in your exact spot. The feeling of loneliness only gets worse as you age. Trust me on this. The road to 30 only gets worse. Nothing is looking up at all. Even being 40 you want to think that you're still not too old to find a wife but no you are considered old.
Here is a hug, I just feel fucked, Like i try to be enlightened and enjoy day but then i notice my facial flaws, I try ignore it but every college or school im picked on by looks, I was wagie for 7 years before neet and i have a college degree, Still nothing, I was everything my parents asked of me, Yet i never got girlfriend and friends was so super hard to get and always get backstab.


View: https://youtu.be/BnzwjL4X5b8?list=OLAK5uy_k1-yims7Ax66s2rFYbS2cHsRhtB8XkX5k


I just try and enjoy sun and listen to some chill tunes
 
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Glow what? Can you tell me more?
I've looked through the thread and nobody has seemed to answer this yet, its a joke from the programmer Terry Davis

Glowies are basically just a term for people who actively try to incite irl violence or incriminate people, like the CIA.
 
I've looked through the thread and nobody has seemed to answer this yet, its a joke from the programmer Terry Davis

Glowies are basically just a term for people who actively try to incite irl violence or try and incriminate people, like the CIA.

A glowie is a form of goverment agent, When something glows you have posted something that might bring FBI attention.
 
I'm sorry to hear that buddy boyo.

Actually when I was in my 20s I intended to commit sudoku when I turn 30 since I couldn't see myself being happy after that point. But I didn't follow through on it. I chickened out I guess.
Well life has to get worse before it gets better. I had to go through a lot of hard stuff in life but I'm still alive. Even after all my hard work and money I make I still can't get a girl. I guess life hates me.
 
Im 25 now, Every day ticks by faster, Empty, I have achieved nothing of value except a few expensive gaming machines but no sex, No friends for daily hangout, No nothing, Just rotting, The fuck am i doing, I have made some crypto cash tho, Like a few stacks but whats the point as an incel, Im too inhib to go seamaxx too as im socially retarded, I noticed in stutter alot too and passport bros have aleredy taken over the seamaxxing so now its chad only and there can be allegations if i sex overseas so its truly over and pair that with chronic pain and ADHD, I feel lost.
I'm 22 and I already feel like it's too late. I've always really wanted a high school sweetheart, when that didn't happen I changed it to uni sweetheart, well that isn't happening either. I can't guarantee that I will rope if I don't ascend by 30, but it's a strong possibility. I have abandoned all copes except for tv shows/anime. Abandoned my religion, ideology, everything. I hope I can have like a cope renaissance where I'm able to get back into them again. Or maybe I'm better off the way things are now who knows.
 
Hello there Hector, I'm glad you've decided to stop by. It's also refreshing to see that you speak such good English! While I welcome your stay, you'll likely find that many of the users here are far younger than you, and so you'll likely find much of what they say to be confusing or odd. The forum doesn't demand a large amount of activity, so if you continue your stay, feel free to drop in every now and then and write a post or two about your struggles, and I'm sure many others will come speak to you about it. I'm 5'3 myself, so I understand the struggle when it comes to height.

Of course, I mean this with all respect, since you are my elder. It's nice to see older people come on here though, since you've all been through this far longer than many of us.
 
Ok, Dont be offended btw, I was wondering, Mexico, Hector, The age, Anyway how you doing bro, Love from norway! I wanna know how is mexico? I heard its brutal with cartels and stuff, Hang in there, Life sucks here too, These healthcare scoundrels refuse to fix my nose that cause me pain, Fuck em! Never do rhinoplasty for birth defect jew nose ever! Anyway im on balcony trying to chill ignore the pain from nose and rot, I have a beer and my cat and my chinese gaming laptop with RTX4060, So i can chill, I hope you have a good day, Needed to vent, Fuck i cant believe im 25 aleredy.
Yeah life sucks man. Sorry to hear how life's been to you with the nose surgery. At least you have beer, your cat and internet to cope. Life sucks at 25 and it will keep getting sucks as you get older.
 
Wow what a faggot you are
When you spend your days trying to interact with spics who refuse to learn English despite being in the country for 10+ years, you begin to give high praises to the ones that do. Also, I thought the language was more appropriate for this situation, considering it's not a typical member.
 
Here is a hug, I just feel fucked, Like i try to be enlightened and enjoy day but then i notice my facial flaws, I try ignore it but every college or school im picked on by looks, I was wagie for 7 years before neet and i have a college degree, Still nothing, I was everything my parents asked of me, Yet i never got girlfriend and friends was so super hard to get and always get backstab.


View: https://youtu.be/BnzwjL4X5b8?list=OLAK5uy_k1-yims7Ax66s2rFYbS2cHsRhtB8XkX5k


I just try and enjoy sun and listen to some chill tunes

I'm sorry to hear that bro. It's always about looks. I could have the best personality but I'm short and ugly. So I'm automatically seen by women as a low value ugly man.
 
Yeah life sucks man. Sorry to hear how life's been to you with the nose surgery. At least you have beer, your cat and internet to cope. Life sucks at 25 and it will keep getting sucks as you get older.
Yeah, Doctors are fucking scum and i wish i could bash their heads in, But oh well.

Its painful but i cope everyday, Best healthcare? FREE? Norway fucking sucks and it aint even free.
 
I've looked through the thread and nobody has seemed to answer this yet, its a joke from the programmer Terry Davis

Glowies are basically just a term for people who actively try to incite irl violence or incriminate people, like the CIA.

Thanks for the clarification. I'm not familiar with Terry Davis and wasn't aware of the joke.
 
Hello there Hector, I'm glad you've decided to stop by. It's also refreshing to see that you speak such good English! While I welcome your stay, you'll likely find that many of the users here are far younger than you, and so you'll likely find much of what they say to be confusing or odd. The forum doesn't demand a large amount of activity, so if you continue your stay, feel free to drop in every now and then and write a post or two about your struggles, and I'm sure many others will come speak to you about it. I'm 5'3 myself, so I understand the struggle when it comes to height.

Of course, I mean this with all respect, since you are my elder. It's nice to see older people come on here though, since you've all been through this far longer than many of us.
Thank you for the warm welcome. I appreciate it. I'm fine talking with people younger than me. It doesn't matter to me in any way. I'm just here to express myself since I don't have anyone to talk to about my issues. It sucks to be short. I mean girls don't like you if you're short. If you're not 6 feet, you're done for.
 
Why would anyone try to infiltrate this forum? We're just a bunch of lonely guys trying to help each other and support each other. What's the point?
Because certain people need an enemy and a lot of politically incorrect topics are discussed here and there is little censorship.
 
If anyone belongs here, it's definitely you.

Welcome to is. This will be your first and final stop on the train to Inceldia.
 
Thank you. I will. It's nice to be around men who have the same issues like I do.
Yeah, But try to tell yourself this to cope, Everything is random and i cannot change it.

Works for me, Puts my mind at ease
 
It is unfortunately very much possible for life to get progressively worse and then just end.


Would you consider escortcelling?
I'm a bit hesitant on escorts because I think I'm just gonna pay for something fake and it wouldn't make me happy. I want a real girlfriend and not pay women to act like they're with me for money. I might go for an escort in the future who knows. I'm getting desparate bro. I'm already in my 40's and haven't been with any girls. I just don't care anymore. It's over for me anyway no matter what.
 
I'm 22 and I already feel like it's too late. I've always really wanted a high school sweetheart, when that didn't happen I changed it to uni sweetheart, well that isn't happening either. I can't guarantee that I will rope if I don't ascend by 30, but it's a strong possibility. I have abandoned all copes except for tv shows/anime. Abandoned my religion, ideology, everything. I hope I can have like a cope renaissance where I'm able to get back into them again. Or maybe I'm better off the way things are now who knows.
I know how you feel bro. I've been through a lot of hard times myself. You're only 22 you're still very young. My advice is go and explore life. Go travel, see the world.
 
Yeah, Doctors are fucking scum and i wish i could bash their heads in, But oh well.

Its painful but i cope everyday, Best healthcare? FREE? Norway fucking sucks and it aint even free.
I feel the same hatred towards doctors as you. It's worse here in the US. Medical care is horrible and a complete scam. It can cost thousands. And here I am a tax payer paying for something that I dont even get.
 
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Yeah, But try to tell yourself this to cope, Everything is random and i cannot change it.

Works for me, Puts my mind at ease
It helps me a lot too. To cope it's best to know that it's not my fault for the way I look but it's society. I'm a real good guy. I wish a girl would recognize that.
 
Hello everyone. I am a 42 year old Incel and my name is Hector. I'm from Mexico but immigrated to the US a few years ago. I'm 42, single, no kids, no wife, still a virgin and I'm 5'5. I tried to get a girlfriend but I gave up on that. I work as a waiter and I've been there for years. I'm so tired of people telling me I'm a good guy. I'm always hearing that. But am I really. I've done so much for people. I did things that people would pay me for but I did it out of the niceness of me heart. Yet nobody pays me back. Nobody shows their appreciation for me. It sucks to be alone for 42 years of your life, but I live that way and went crazy because of it. It sucks to be alone.
I'm surprised OP hasn't gone ER or brutally rap3d a female yet considering how tempting they are.

Especially their fat asses in leggings.
 
If anyone belongs here, it's definitely you.

Welcome to is. This will be your first and final stop on the train to Inceldia.
Thank you for the welcome. I feel so much at home in here finally. Being an Incel for so many years is a curse. But being in a place where I'm understood is a heaven of itself.
 
How do you know that
When I search for 'incel forum's on google nothing comes up. Instead, there is a paper that says it has done research on incels from the incels.is site. So there definitely are people out there observing us.
 
I'm surprised OP hasn't gone ER or brutally rap3d a female yet considering how tempting they are.

Especially their fat asses in leggings.
I am almost about that. And I still have time to do those things. Females haven't taken me serious. They only like Chads, the bad boys, and never the good guys. I always treated them with respect and they didn't even care about me.
 
Yes, I've seen that paper. It's crazy. People are watching us. It's like we are some animals that are being observed. Do you think that there are normal people out there checking what we talk about?
That's not the paper it's FBI's guide on incels.
Yeah there definitely are:
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I feel the same hatred towards doctors as you. It's worse here in the US. Medical care is horrible and a complete scam. It can cost thousands. And here I am a tax payer paying for something that I dont even get.
Man this is horrible, I want people to not suffer unless they are evil ofc, But its horrible, I hope you get the operations you need man, Fuck this hellhole of a earth!

Hugs, Take care of yourself man
 

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