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42 year old Incel here

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Hello everyone. I am a 42 year old Incel and my name is Hector. I'm from Mexico but immigrated to the US a few years ago. I'm 42, single, no kids, no wife, still a virgin and I'm 5'5. I tried to get a girlfriend but I gave up on that. I work as a waiter and I've been there for years. I'm so tired of people telling me I'm a good guy. I'm always hearing that. But am I really. I've done so much for people. I did things that people would pay me for but I did it out of the niceness of me heart. Yet nobody pays me back. Nobody shows their appreciation for me. It sucks to be alone for 42 years of your life, but I live that way and went crazy because of it. It sucks to be alone.
 
How'd you find this site jfl
 
I advice you to not use your real name on this website or any website in general
 
Some police agencies monitor this place
 
Brutal. I'm close to being a 50 year-old truecel virgin. Never had a gf in my life.

My condolence, and good luck having to cope for the rest of your life. It's a painful primordial existence indeed.

You write good English. Very well. :smonk:
 
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HODL HONKLER said:
Oh my goodness gracious, Hector! Your story is truly touching and I am so sorry to hear that you have been through such hardships. It's clear that you have a kind and compassionate heart, and it's truly a shame that others have not recognized and appreciated your efforts. I want you to know that you are not alone in your struggles, and there are people who care and are willing to listen. It may not fix everything, but it's a start. Keep your head up and remember that you are a wonderful person deserving of love and respect
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Thank you for those kind words my friend. It warms my heart to hear such things.
 
4sez said:
this is clearly bait
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What? This is not bait. Who in their right mind would bait? That would mean to want to catch someone in a trap, but why would anyone do that. Why would I? What could I benefit from doing so.
 
D. B. Gooner said:
What keeps you going senor
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I get up at 5 in the morning every day and go to work. I hate my job, my life, myself and the girls. But every day I get up and go to work. I have to buy food and a roof to stay. I am living a life that I don't want to live which makes me miserable. I have to keep doing this or else I'll starve.
 
regresa a mechico, es más fácil ascender aquí.
 
Thank you for your condolences. I appreciate it. I'm sorry to hear about your situation as well. Being a virgin and single for that long must be hard. I'm a 42 year old incel and never had sex in my life.
Deafcel88 said:
Brutal. I'm close to being a 50 year-old truecel virgin. Never had a gf in my life.

My condolence, and good luck having to cope for the rest of your life. It's a painful primordial existence indeed.

You write good English. Very well. :smonk:
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Bro you have got to change your username immediately :feelskek:
 
Deafcel88 said:
I find it VERY UNUSUAL that a Mexican guy like you cannot get laid nor have a wife.

Where I live, I see Mexican immigrants (some illegal) and anchor babies have wives and rows of children. They breed like rabbits.

But I hope that you'll find a girlfriend some day and ascend. I was close to having a girlfriend but situations changed.

Even foids who flirted with me rejected me suddenly, like the hot mulatto/quadroon (part white part black) store employee.

Foids are crazy with high expectation like they deserve to be treated like a princess to cater to.

Don't let the conceited and stupid world define you. You define yourself.

Try to find a purpose in life like going to vocational school or college to get a degree (associate's degree would suffice), unless you have cripping learning disability. I can't finish associate degree because I have crippling dyscalculia due to bad education in K-12.

Best wishes from me to you, good hombre.
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Thank you for your kind words, my man. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles especially the fact that you can't finish an associate's degree because of your dyscalculia. I know that it's weird for a Mexican guy like me to not get women. I don't know what's wrong with me. Women tell me that I'm short. They want taller guys. I'm not a good looking guy. I'm not a chad like women like. And yes, I agree, women are crazy with their high expectations. They expect all these things. And if you don't meet their expectations, they consider you a low live.
 
Hector Manuel Ocaña said:
Thank you for your kind words, my man. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles especially the fact that you can't finish an associate's degree because of your dyscalculia. I know that it's weird for a Mexican guy like me to not get women. I don't know what's wrong with me. Women tell me that I'm short. They want taller guys. I'm not a good looking guy. I'm not a chad like women like. And yes, I agree, women are crazy with their high expectations. They expect all these things. And if you don't meet their expectations, they consider you a low live.
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This is why women only want the chad guys. They are tall, they have muscles, they are handsome and they have lots of money. They can provide for them. I'm a short man. I work a minimum wage job. What do they want from me? I'm not a rich guy. I don't have money. I think this is why I don't attract them.
 
Hector Manuel Ocaña said:
Thank you for your kind words, my man. I'm sorry to hear about your struggles especially the fact that you can't finish an associate's degree because of your dyscalculia. I know that it's weird for a Mexican guy like me to not get women. I don't know what's wrong with me. Women tell me that I'm short. They want taller guys. I'm not a good looking guy. I'm not a chad like women like. And yes, I agree, women are crazy with their high expectations. They expect all these things. And if you don't meet their expectations, they consider you a low live.
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Good hombre, even Latina women have crazy entitled attitude. They wear too much makeup (false eyelash, plump lip and lipstick color, etc) and are exceedingly stupid.

I'm not interested in any woman (foid) of any other race. I'm white.

White foids are just as bad, or worse as totally self-absorbed, stupid (vacuous, vapid) and entitled. It's called "princess syndrome" in terms of their insane expectations -- that the ideal man must be educated with a college degree, must be wealthy or well-off, must own a modest or upscale house and luxury car and must be in good or great shape as hunky.

Here, a funny web site for you to play with. :ahegao:

Female Delusion Calculator
 
Hector said:
But how do they know my name is Hector?
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Your original username had your entire first and last name . Plus you told people your name is Hector in your first post
 
Deafcel88 said:
Good hombre, even Latina women have crazy entitled attitude. They wear too much makeup (false eyelash, plump lip and lipstick color, etc) and are exceedingly stupid.

I'm not interested in any woman (foid) of any other race. I'm white.

White foids are just as bad, or worse as totally self-absorbed, stupid (vacuous, vapid) and entitled. It's called "princess syndrome" in terms of their insane expectations -- that the ideal man must be educated with a college degree, must be wealthy or well-off, must own a modest or upscale house and luxury car and must be in good or great shape as hunky.

Here, a funny web site for you to play with. :ahegao:

Female Delusion Calculator
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Thank you for the website my friend. I'll try it out.
 
Hello hector! Welcome to .is. May I ask? How is it that someone as old as yourself know about inceldolm? Did you find it on Facebook or something?(forgive me for sounding like a ageist, but I find it interesting that somebody over the age of 35 knows about the incelsphere part of the internet lol.)
 
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