Welcome to Incels.is - Involuntary Celibate Forum

Welcome! This is a forum for involuntary celibates: people who lack a significant other. Are you lonely and wish you had someone in your life? You're not alone! Join our forum and talk to people just like you.

Serious Your oneitis :

  • Thread starter Henry de Montherlant
  • Start date
Henry de Montherlant

Henry de Montherlant

Transcendental
-
Joined
May 15, 2018
Posts
6,961
Even if you eventually know the whole concept is bs and don't have one currently, how did/does your oneitis look like ? Would you consider her a looksmatch or not ? Physical, mental and moral description accepted tbh.

I had several oneitis, but they had mostly the same general "attributes", following a kind of archetypal creation of what my mind figured out to be my looks/mind match (and she actually had nothing in common with my mother, Freudians kill yourself before it gets worse).

She had dark/brown long hair, slightly pert nose, elegant poise and clothing taste (had this specific kind of little black dress), slight french make-up (nothing in common with the vulgar terrific american make-up) and a relatively thin waist. She was shy, anti-social, and cynical. I actually considered her looksmatch and personnality match. But now she's cuccking some normie guy, as it is supposed to be.

What about yours ?
 
Never had one tbh. If i had one i would want her to look similar to me in terms of facial features. Personality-wise not an arrogant bitch basically.
 
My oneitis rn has brown hair down to her shoulders, blue eyes, and I consider her my looksmatch.
 
My oneitis who is currently leading me on (I think) is 5'2, cute like a 6/10 face, long dark hair, not crazy on social media but still has a presence, we can talk for hours and hours, she's not a slut and has only had 2 boyfriends (confirmed), and we just get along really well. I think we're more or less looksmatched because we look good together in a few pics we've taken together. But I'm more of a 5/10. I'm 5'8 by the way so height wise we should match
 
She is caucasian, dark blonde, maybe 5'5 or 5'6, has a mix of blue and green eyes, small nose, middle wide mouth, small tits, small but tight ass and thin legs. Always seemed kind of shy, but also not. Dressed like she was 2-3 years behind all other foids her age, but that didn't stop her from having dudes bang her since 8th/9th grade. She wore none to only a little bit of make up.

I never got to know her personality, I was way too social anxious back then. Eventually I got to know some things about her through friends. One foid advised to do something 'that impresses her' (how tf does one do that). She draws and likes to read.

Once I sperged out and confessed to her on FB. Oh boi, this is how I learned my lesson.

I've always felt a kind of supernatural bond between me and her. To this day I'd drop any 10/10 supermodel Stacy for her.

But I know by now that all this is bullshit and cucked. I hate that I still somehow love her. Eventually, it'll die off, I hope. I don't think about her often, since she's not my oneitis anymore (I've reframed from that concept; every foid (>~18) has had more dick in her than this site has active members).
 
My oneitis who is currently leading me on (I think) is 5'2, cute like a 6/10 face, long dark hair, not crazy on social media but still has a presence, we can talk for hours and hours, she's not a slut and has only had 2 boyfriends (confirmed), and we just get along really well. I think we're more or less looksmatched because we look good together in a few pics we've taken together. But I'm more of a 5/10. I'm 5'8 by the way so height wise we should match

out
 
Even if you eventually know the whole concept is bs and don't have one currently, how did/does your oneitis look like ? Would you consider her a looksmatch or not ? Physical, mental and moral description accepted tbh.

I had several oneitis, but they had mostly the same general "attributes", following a kind of archetypal creation of what my mind figured out to be my looks/mind match (and she actually had nothing in common with my mother, Freudians kill yourself before it gets worse).

She had dark/brown long hair, slightly pert nose, elegant poise and clothing taste (had this specific kind of little black dress), slight french make-up (nothing in common with the vulgar terrific american make-up) and a relatively thin waist. She was shy, anti-social, and cynical. I actually considered her looksmatch and personnality match. But now she's cuccking some normie guy, as it is supposed to be.

What about yours ?
Past oneitis
Taller than me (she is 6'0)
Asian (my race)
Smart (not foid smart, actually one of the smartest kids at the school)
Very kind and compassionate
More fun to be around than some
Still a virgin
Actually not degenerate or a slut, but EXTREMELY hypergamous, unironically saving herself for a prince charming chad/chang who has 10/10 looks, is a gentleman, and makes 6 figures

My subhuman ass had and has no chance
 
I don't have nor will I ever have a oneitis.

If I ascend I'll have a waifu who I will worship until the day I die. She would be Japanese and her beauty would take me writing a haiku to describe that I don't feel like right now.
 
I'm too high T to have one.
 
Even if you eventually know the whole concept is bs and don't have one currently, how did/does your oneitis look like ? Would you consider her a looksmatch or not ? Physical, mental and moral description accepted tbh.

I had several oneitis, but they had mostly the same general "attributes", following a kind of archetypal creation of what my mind figured out to be my looks/mind match (and she actually had nothing in common with my mother, Freudians kill yourself before it gets worse).

She had dark/brown long hair, slightly pert nose, elegant poise and clothing taste (had this specific kind of little black dress), slight french make-up (nothing in common with the vulgar terrific american make-up) and a relatively thin waist. She was shy, anti-social, and cynical. I actually considered her looksmatch and personnality match. But now she's cuccking some normie guy, as it is supposed to be.

What about yours ?
I had a oneitis at my job. Kind of cute tall skinny white girl who was maybe 4/10 and had bad teeth. She wouldn't even give me time of day and gave me nasty looks all the time. She's probably getting railed by a Chad on her table right now.
Past oneitis
Taller than me (she is 6'0)
Asian (my race)
Smart (not foid smart, actually one of the smartest kids at the school)
Very kind and compassionate
More fun to be around than some
Still a virgin
Actually not degenerate or a slut, but EXTREMELY hypergamous, unironically saving herself for a prince charming chad/chang who has 10/10 looks, is a gentleman, and makes 6 figures

My subhuman ass had and has no chance

Fuck I want her so badly. I'm a STEMcel making very good money with my own business right now and tall but I'm just so repulsive and can't even betabuxx.
 
She is 5'11, 9/10, east european, brown hair, green eyes, slim with great body. I had absolutely no chance against the chad she married. Few months ago she discovered that this chad cheated on her with a young coworker. I had an extreme lifefuel when I talked her out of a rope and heard how she suffers.
 
Actually not degenerate or a slut, but EXTREMELY hypergamous, unironically saving herself for a prince charming chad/chang who has 10/10 looks, is a gentleman, and makes 6 figures
I would avoid this kind of foid at all costs tbh
 
Even if you eventually know the whole concept is bs and don't have one currently, how did/does your oneitis look like ? Would you consider her a looksmatch or not ? Physical, mental and moral description accepted tbh.

I had several oneitis, but they had mostly the same general "attributes", following a kind of archetypal creation of what my mind figured out to be my looks/mind match (and she actually had nothing in common with my mother, Freudians kill yourself before it gets worse).

She had dark/brown long hair, slightly pert nose, elegant poise and clothing taste (had this specific kind of little black dress), slight french make-up (nothing in common with the vulgar terrific american make-up) and a relatively thin waist. She was shy, anti-social, and cynical. I actually considered her looksmatch and personnality match. But now she's cuccking some normie guy, as it is supposed to be.

What about yours ?

it's worrying to me because my past oneities was totally unrealistic and impossible (very highly educated woman with like 99.95% grade averages who didn't exploit her great beauty at all with makeup or excessive fitness showing notable grace, many accomplishments)

while my recent one was a retail worker who basically had nothing going for her except being somewhat cute and resembling me in looks and behavior and genetics. but she was just as unattainable as the first woman.
in fact she felt even less attainable in a way, because with the first one i could have bullshit conversations about computer science and stuff (yes, she was my teacher JFL, but very young) but the second one.......nothing......because i'm not a working-class smoker chad i had almost nothing to talk about with her and had to force everything, even though every cell in my body was screaming that this type of female should be my partner.


btw i think the freudian part is overblown, men are attracted to self-resembling faces, if those self-resembling faces are female then they will also somewhat resemble female versions of you like your sister/mother, it's unavoidable.
 
Had a oneitis in high school when I was still a very bluepilled idiot. Since I believed in all kinds of pseudo spiritual mumbo jumbo back then I thought she was my given soul mate and shit. JFL @ my teenage self, its so fucking funny I laugh more than I cringe.

She was a blonde 9/10 who looked like 2D in 3D pretty much. Lucky for me she ignored me rather than make me an orbiter.

Now I use her fb pics for catfishing lmao.
 
Last edited:
it's worrying to me because my past oneities was totally unrealistic and impossible (very highly educated woman with like 99.95% grade averages who didn't exploit her great beauty at all with makeup or excessive fitness showing notable grace, many accomplishments)

while my recent one was a retail worker who basically had nothing going for her except being somewhat cute and resembling me in looks and behavior and genetics. but she was just as unattainable as the first woman.
in fact she felt even less attainable in a way, because with the first one i could have bullshit conversations about computer science and stuff (yes, she was my teacher JFL, but very young) but the second one.......nothing......because i'm not a working-class smoker chad i had almost nothing to talk about with her, even though every cell in my body was screaming that this type of female should be my partner.


btw i think the freudian part is overblown, men are attracted to self-resembling faces, if those self-resembling faces are female then they will also somewhat resemble female versions of you like your sister/mother, it's unavoidable.
It's a sad story tbh. Learning about things she likes wouldn't be too hard if you are high IQ though.

Yes, the Freudian theory might be true in this scope, but that's all. Men are not literally "looking after their mother", they are sometimes looking after a female version of themselves (cf. almost everyone on this thread). It's bs in the fact that it supposes a fake intention where there is nothing more but maybe a vague genetic correlation.
Now I use her fb picks for catfishing lmao.
:lul::lul::lul:
 
I'm too high T to have one.

same I just quit trying. Spergs have high T naturally. we're also (usually) geniuses. the problem with us is the IQ that's lacking is the social IQ. basically intelligent brutes.
 
Why? I'm average af. I saw the rateme thread. Plenty of users are better looking

I'm lonely and sexless. What's the problem?

lol most people there arent even average looking. lets pretend its otherise, a few non ugly males dont proof most here are average and above.

When youre low status, non nt then maxx it out. Get surgery to get gl. Here is no place for people who are average. Maybe you should try social circle game or something like that instead of wasting your potential you have from birth on and anger us with your presence
 
@Mickeyonacid


I meant intimacy wise. Sex wise. Feeling that I'm a sexual being

Just talking platonically to someone is shit. I just want girls to like me for my looks and I want to fuck them in the pussy. That's all
 
@Mickeyonacid


I meant intimacy wise. Sex wise. Feeling that I'm a sexual being

Just talking platonically to someone is shit. I just want girls to like me for my looks and I want to fuck them in the pussy. That's all


Thats called a volcel.


the place for normal looking socially retardet people . I show you the way ---> https://lookism.net/
 
Imagine having a (((oneitis)))
 
All my oneitises have dark hair :feelshmm:
 
Just noticed majority of users here are cucked with oneitises .
 
Not my looksmatch, she looked as a mix of Scully of ex-files with the green eyed girl of last film of Tron.
 
Mine is blonde, short (5’6) and has blue hunter eyes, a snub nose, right amound of freckles, braces, big lips, a wide mouth, angelic profile, small waist, thic legs, wide hips, a big tight ass and small tits.

Obviously not my looksmatch. I saw her ex bf‘s, so I didn‘t even bother trying to ask her out.
 
Never had a oneitis. Only cucks have a oneitis.
 

I was at a weekend trip to Prague with my dad. I was on xanax at the time because I had severe panic attacks. I bought that shit illegaly because doctors here wouldn't prescribe young people addictive benzodiazepines. We went to a restaurant, and after we finished eating, we had a couple beers together. Long story short, I was on alcohol, xanax, and weed, and wrote her a whole paragraph about how I was always too shy to talk to her, but that I liked her very much still to this day (it had been 4 years she knew about it already, some foid I considered a friend at that time told it to her, fucking hate that fat bitch till today).

Her response was, quite literally translated "sorry, no interest".

Beforehand i just wrote "Hey" which she responded to with "What do you want?"

It's a mistake a lot of guys seem to make in their lives. I sure know by now, that this was extremely stupid and beyond cucked, but my parents nor anyone ever gave me any advice or guidance regarding anything about the opposite gender, had to figure shit out myself, and still have to.

Hope you enjoi
 
All my oneitises have dark hair :feelshmm:
Honestly fuck all of this “blonde hair is superior” bullshit

Dark hair is best on a woman. It’s so fucking sexy
 
Honestly fuck all of this “blonde hair is superior” bullshit

Dark hair is best on a woman. It’s so fucking sexy
I see you're a man of culture as well.
 
Mine used to be a friend in HS, way outta my league. Smart and funny, wasnt a virgin by graduation but was only with 1 guy. Big into video games and anime. Brown hair, dark brown eyes. Still got a pic she sent me from a con. Pissed me off cuz she knew I liked her but didn't 'want to ruin our friendship'
 
I was at a weekend trip to Prague with my dad. I was on xanax at the time because I had severe panic attacks. I bought that shit illegaly because doctors here wouldn't prescribe young people addictive benzodiazepines. We went to a restaurant, and after we finished eating, we had a couple beers together. Long story short, I was on alcohol, xanax, and weed, and wrote her a whole paragraph about how I was always too shy to talk to her, but that I liked her very much still to this day (it had been 4 years she knew about it already, some foid I considered a friend at that time told it to her, fucking hate that fat bitch till today).

Her response was, quite literally translated "sorry, no interest".

Beforehand i just wrote "Hey" which she responded to with "What do you want?"

It's a mistake a lot of guys seem to make in their lives. I sure know by now, that this was extremely stupid and beyond cucked, but my parents nor anyone ever gave me any advice or guidance regarding anything about the opposite gender, had to figure shit out myself, and still have to.

Hope you enjoi

Lol, she sounds like a complete bitch man. Who replies to a simple "hello" with "what do you want?"

You actually dodged a bullet there buddy.
 
My oneitis is WAY beyond my league
Its thanks to work that im "friends" with her - I do occasionally talk to her when i see her in public :feelsautistic:
 
All my oneitises shared these three traits: small height, slimness, and a 7+ face. Most were black of hair.

Male reptilian brains truly are delusional. Did you really think you were getting a 7+, friendo?
 
Lol, she sounds like a complete bitch man. Who replies to a simple "hello" with "what do you want?"

You actually dodged a bullet there buddy.

Thanks man. Not tryna to sound bluepilled here, but that response actually means a lot to me.
 
Finally got over my oneitis but no, she was not my looksmatch. She was out of my league to be honest.
She had almond shaped hazel eyes, black medium length hair, light brown arab skin, full lips. She was medium to short height, medium waist, medium sized legs, average to above average sized boobs, cute small hands.
I can't say a lot about her personality because I don't know her well enough, but she treated me fine. I know she talked bad stuff about me, but she only directly insulted me once. Apart from that, she sometimes smiled at me when I looked at her (probably the reason I fell for her, she has a beautiful smile).
She's muslim so it was extremely stupid to have feelings for her since I am an atheist. I'm so satisfied with the fact that I don't have feelings for her anymore.
 

Similar threads

Greedo318
Replies
3
Views
733
Greedo318
Greedo318
Liu KANG
Replies
13
Views
487
yeetbender.koala
yeetbender.koala
Sasukecel
Replies
24
Views
1K
Sasukecel
Sasukecel
SignedUpCuzItsOver
Replies
10
Views
783
travis_bickle_
travis_bickle_
Tranquil Fury
Replies
24
Views
701
Squatting Slavcel
Squatting Slavcel

Users who are viewing this thread

shape1
shape2
shape3
shape4
shape5
shape6
Back
Top