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"You need to love yourself before you love someone else!!"

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alcoholic05

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I think this is the most annoying, bullshit advice that normies constantly use. A lot of good looking men hate themselves and cope by engaging in self destructive behavior like drugs, parties, alcoholism, fights, etc., yet somehow women don't give a crap about that and they're still succesful with them. A good looking Chad could well be a self hating drug addict abusing his girlfriend and she'd still love him. That's the reality and you can see it all around the world. But no, you have to LoVe YoUrSeLf first, inkwell!!
 
Nothing to love about yourself as a subhuman
 
All these games and test and trials and experiments and red-tape created by reddit normies for you, but they can do whatever they want.
90% of the women that tell you this pretend to hate themselves and are still in relationships
 
You cannot love yourself because you yourself cannot become an object of desire outside of yourself, Unless you become everything the world rightly hates: a narcissist.

Clinical psychology is a pseudoscience that looks for docile subjects that continue to maintain productive tissue.
 
Nothing to love about yourself as a subhuman
That's the other thing they don't realize - for normies it's pretty easy to love themselves and see themselves in a good light. But how the fuck are you supposed to magically start "loving yourself" when throughout your entire life you've been reassured that no matter what you're just a piece of trash? When you've been ostracized for as long as you can remember due to things you can't control?
 
How can I love myself when nobody else does?
 
I love myself, it's easy
 
Actually they love spending hours convincing Chad Selfhatredcock his life is important and he's worthy of love using all their holes. That's another black pill not discussed enough. Negativity and pessimism, not smiling, being doomers aren't things frowned by women at all. Tons of evidence of this : Chad Cobain/Grunge, Emo, self destructive alcoholic Chads, BPD Chad.

Women love depressed men with pretty faces as they trigger their red cross nurse/mommy side + they're hot. They literally get off at being Chad's therapist. Your negativity doesn't repel women , your craniofacial deformities do.
 
Nobody cares whether or not I exist.
Nothing’s ever changed.
 
Actually they love spending hours convincing Chad Selfhatredcock his life is important and he's worthy of love using all their holes. That's another black pill not discussed enough. Negativity and pessimism, not smiling, being doomers aren't things frowned by women at all. Tons of evidence of this : Chad Cobain/Grunge, Emo, self destructive alcoholic Chads, BPD Chad.

Women love depressed men with pretty faces as they trigger their red cross nurse/mommy side + they're hot. They literally get off at being Chad's therapist. Your negativity doesn't repel women , your craniofacial deformities do.
My point exactly.
 
I really hate when they say that
 
you can't ove yourself when there's nothing about you that make you deserve to be loved
 
I do love myself, so where tf are the bitches at:feelsree::feelsree::feelsree:?
 
You're not going to be able to maintain self-love if you don't receive external love from somewhere else too. People who are able to do this are self-absorbed, self-important narcissists. Can you imagine someone loving himself deeply while being an outcast and a reject of society? It's nonsensical. The healthy option is that you need both internal and external love.
 
Yeah, this is nonsense, I don't know why they keep parroting it. Many people who hate themselves are in relationship, it's obviously not a prerequisite. At the same time, any rational person can only truly love themselves if they have reasons to love themselves, and receive external confirmations about those things.
 
Yeah, this is nonsense, I don't know why they keep parroting it. Many people who hate themselves are in relationship, it's obviously not a prerequisite. At the same time, any rational person can only truly love themselves if they have reasons to love themselves, and receive external confirmations about those things.
You came back... after half-month break.
 
its best of all for someone to love you if you don't love yourself
 
If you love yourself you're loving a man, that's gay af.

In a serious note I have high self esteem, this always puzzled/irked humans cause they thought either I was an unaware idiot or faking it to gain attention. Honestly you're something they see and think "thank God I'm not that thing", what self esteem do they think you could have?
 
These idiots don't realize self love is why we still aren't dead

If anything we have more love all you jews combined because all of you jews are filled with hate towards sub 5 male populus, we have to live despite that, you love other people and live for them

Fuck you jew, if you're helping help me next time
 
"I hate myself and I want to die"
---- Kurt Cobain.

According to this "You need to love yourself before you love someone else!!" Bluepill, this guy never attracted any foids and was an incel:

kurt cobain nirvana GIF
 
T. Retards
Humans are a social species
 

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