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Paragon
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View: https://www.reddit.com/r/offmychest/comments/zq9w4a/yes_i_am_a_virgin_why_should_i_care/
I (25m) just had a vocal argument with one of my friends, and I am still mad about it. Why should I, a 25yo virgin male, ABSOLUTELY find myself a woman to have sex with? Is it some tribal ritual I am not aware of?
Some of my other friends tell me "don't worry, you'll find a woman who will love you (am I fucking Quasimodo or something?), you won't stay a virgin for too long". Excuse me, is this some kind of curse the gods threw on me? Maybe I, and many other males like me, just don't care about it at all?
How does not having the sex with a woman makes me less worthy than people who fucked? What even is this logic? Should I get myself a prostitute or should I fuck a brainless chick in the dirty toilets of a nightclub to finally having the incommensurable honor to enter the pantheon of the cool worthy men who fuck?
Seriously, I am sick of this. No, I don't fuck, and no, I don't want to do intensive researches for the sole purpose to get into a vagina. I don't want to force myself in a relationship with a woman just to be in a relationship, and I don't want to have pointless sex with a random girl just to leave the virgin club. I'll fuck when I'll find myself a great person, and I will certainly not force myself into it just because the almighty society told me to.
If you are miserable enough to believe that fucking one or many girls is an attractiveness index, good for you, I don't care. I don' t need such childish thoughts to have a good opinion of myself.





