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Blackpill Yes. High School Matters.

Also this is just terrible advice in general because it's 100% possible to reinvent yourself after high school. Like for example I'm aware of Becky's who were downright ugly and bullied in school
 
Places like high school are the best places to determine your own SMV. Its a completely artificial environment: there are only people who are similar age as you, the gender ratio is around 50:50, and you are are in close vicinity of women for multiple hours a day.

If even in that artificial environment women aren't at all attracted to you, then you have been demoted to genetic scum by women. They don't like you, they don't find you attractive. There's no easier place to attract women than high school. If you can't do that there, where can you?
 
High school it's crucial for deciding one's future success (or lack of) in all aspects of life, and whoever denies it is a liar. When you miss teen love and all social experiences that would make you an acceptable member of soyciety and properly develop your brain, it's pretty much over. That's why I'm mentally stuck in that time period and always thinking that if nature had been good for me regarding looks, how different the high school experience and adult life would be.
 
This is water, but yeah, high school is definitely a make it or break it moment for a person. If you have a bad time during these years, it can scar you for the rest of your life. Those years are formative and crucial for your development.

High school is like a mini-version society. It's all about how good you look, who you know, and your social skills. If you don't have any of those, you're doomed.
 
This just objectively isnt true because most people attain status completely outside of their high school years. The thing is success and status later in life is mostly determined by being born rich. So you have someone like Elon musk who is probably an easy target for bullying that ends up one of the most powerful people because their social status is bigger than a high school social heirachy
You make some good points. Many normies get laid and successful after high school. I didn't even mention teen love once in the essay. But, I never claimed high school defined your life 100%. Most people are not born with generational wealth. For most people, your status in high school definitely at least correlates with your status in life afterwards.
 
This just objectively isnt true because most people attain status completely outside of their high school years. The thing is success and status later in life is mostly determined by being born rich. So you have someone like Elon musk who is probably an easy target for bullying that ends up one of the most powerful people because their social status is bigger than a high school social heirachy
Both outcomes are determined by luck though and the average person isnt going to be born rich So what really matters is your status in school
 
I genuinely believe the high school experience ruined my life. I was begging my parents to put me into online school because it was so brutal.
You would have been effected either way

You either sink or swim in life
 
I dropped out in 8th grade, it was over before it even began.
 
high school i saw chad fucking alot of people everyone making out getting in relantioships and alot of fucked up shit I hate high school
 
(((Modern life))) is just different stages of high school until you die.
 
Highschool is ALL that matters - the rest of your fucking life just follows the pattern established then and there. I would say even kindergarten, to be honest, but highschool is the last chance to "change", so to speak.
 
The views surrounding high schools are weird. Normies often tell you that high school does not matter, and that no one cares about what you did during that time. This partially true, as those 4 years are a fleeting moment in your life. And you will eventually go on in life to get a career and start a family. However, normies will also turn to consume many movies and shows that surround high school. Riverdale, 13 Reasons, and Stranger Things are only 3 among what may be thousands of media surrounding high school. It is perhaps one of the most romanticized periods of life in film.
:yes::yes::yes:

Everybody says it doesn't matter, yet like half of popular fiction is set there:feelsseriously::fuk:.
 
Great thread brocel, well articulated & succinct :feelsYall: :feelscomfy:

I myself had a few normies in HS tell me ":soy::feels:- HS doesn't matter bro! You have the rest of your life, etc" when oddly enough those same guys were the ones who had their IG profiles plastered with them at social events:waitwhat:

Our youth is a period in which we are supposed to meet many milestones in coincidence with our biological change, so ofc missing out on this would no doubt cause some psychological damage

I have a thread planned in relation to this, which will be interesting to see.

It's nice to see how actual science can support our beliefs:


Very good for pointing out how a lot of media consumed by normies is centered on HS also
 
College for me was objectively better, as I did make quite a few friends during that time unlike high school where I was avoided by other students most of the time for various reasons. I suppose if you didn't go to college it would be a different story, but many people use college as a second chance to make up for things that they could not do in high school.

Unfortunately, while people in college are generally nicer, the same problems that plagued me in high school also resurfaced in college as even my female friends considered me "damaged goods" in a sad sort of way and not "boyfriend material" because I took medication for a mental illness.
 

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