I never have a good answer to these poll questions right off the bat but I think they're very interesting to think about
As a white Chad, despite not having social skills at par you'd still receive all of the validation and praise growing up that a socially charming normies would, and would probably be in fantastic mental health (for an autistic person and to a lesser extent in general) as an adult.
An Indian normie however would receive only a fraction of that validation and may not develop as healthy of a psyche. But I guess when I read "charming and funny" I also think I picture this person as happy, which makes me inclined to think things aren't so bad for him. But thinking about the sum total of his experiences and how they'd weigh on his development, I think he'd be worse off and probably not happy very much at all under the facade. He'd also probably be alone, there are plenty of mid tier normies who have decent social skills that struggle to have needs for intimacy met because of being too dark, short, or unattractive. So ultimately this option loses out in this case.