Blackpill Worst part of being non-nt is struggling to even make close friends.

[victimcel]

I am not saying that nt is everything, looks matter as much as being nt when it comes to life. What I'm saying is that with bad looks you will struggle with relationships, but with being non nt you will struggle with even making friends. I have only a few friends right now and I stand at 5'8 and im not fat . The biggest issue with my face is acne. Most of high school years I only had like two friends who only saw me like once a week outside of school, meanwhile I saw 5'3 fat guys form close friendships with a huge social circle.
I see people who are shorter than me get girls meanwhile I struggle to even form friendships with them. For most us here we are screwed because not only are we ugly we are also non nt, if we improve our looks people will still judge us harshly for being neurodivergent.
It's so fucking over for most of us!

 

[AtrociousCitizen]

If you’re ugly and non-NT, you’re playing life on nightmare difficulty.

 

[Pacel]

I relate to you immensely. Im 5'9 too and through all my life I've only had like 1 or 2 friends at the time. All my current friends are living in another country. I haven't been able to make an actual meaningful connection with someone ever since I graduated highschool and moved out of my country. Every "friend" I have here feels forced, like we are just hanging out because thats what we're supposed to do and we don't actually enjoy being with each other. It all feels like an act. At least I can still message my friends and call them occasionally.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

The thing is, being unattractive will inevitably lead people to treat you worse than they otherwise would have if you were good looking. Being ostracized by your peers like this begets poor social skills, only made worse if you were born with something like autism. It's a self-sustaining cycle.

 

[Lv99_BixNood]

Being NT is all about listening to nigger rap, doing weed and watching the newest hollykike slop.

 

[victimcel]

I relate to you immensely. Im 5'9 too and through all my life I've only had like 1 or 2 friends at the time. All my current friends are living in another country. I haven't been able to make an actual meaningful connection with someone ever since I graduated highschool and moved out of my country. Every "friend" I have here feels forced, like we are just hanging out because thats what we're supposed to do and we don't actually enjoy being with each other. It all feels like an act. At least I can still message my friends and call them occasionally.

I've 5'2 fat ugly niggas have friends that mog the fuck outta them but still treat each other like family. Like wtf am I doing wrong?

 

[victimcel]

The thing is, being unattractive will inevitably lead people to treat you worse than they otherwise would have if you were good looking. Being ostracized by your peers like this begets poor social skills, only made worse if you were born with something like autism. It's a self-sustaining cycle.

I see short fat ugly niggas with huge friend groups every day. Meanwhile I'm lonely for the most bit except for an occasional text from my friends to hang out. Plus i was bullied by people who were shorter and fatter then me before, nt > everything else.

 

[Pacel]

Like wtf am I doing wrong?

Its a social problem. You don't know how to talk to people, you don't understand how their brain works and you can't form meaningful relationships with them because you work differently to them (and so do I).

 

[Rafaction83]

5'3 fat guys form close friendships with a huge social circle.
I see people who are shorter than me get girls meanwhile I struggle to even form friendships

Reminds me of this guy from middleschool. he was like 5'7, 185lbs, extremely fat, and ugly too. But because he was nt somehow atleast 50% of the school knew him, and he had atleast 2-3 friends in every class. It pissed me so off back then.

 

[victimcel]

Reminds me of this guy from middleschool. he was like 5'7, 185lbs, extremely fat, and ugly too. But because he was nt somehow atleast 50% of the school knew him, and he had atleast 2-3 friends in every class. It pissed me so off back then.

Looks only play a significant role when it comes to getting girls, for making friends being nt matters more than anything else.

 

[Spiteful Mutant]

I see short fat ugly niggas with huge friend groups every day. Meanwhile I'm lonely for the most bit except for an occasional text from my friends to hang out. Plus i was bullied by people who were shorter and fatter then me before, nt > everything else.

Sounds brutal. Me being non-NT I was never able to really connect with others and my attempts to reach out never seemed to work either. If they did, it didn't tend to last for very long and those friendships would fizzle out. Girls of course abhorred my inability to socialize, as well.

 

[UglyDumbass]

If you’re ugly and non-NT, you’re playing life on nightmare difficulty.

 

[Gaelic-Truecel]

I haven't had any friend in over 12 years. I wouldn't have much in common with most people now anyway. Even when I do have things in common with people it doesn't mean it is any easier to befriend them as I cannot hold conversation.

 

[autisticsoy]

Here as well cant make friends and people I talk to try to ignore os sit away from me most of the times if they can. Its bad now and its going to get worse.

 

[victimcel]

Here as well cant make friends and people I talk to try to ignore os sit away from me most of the times if they can. Its bad now and its going to get worse.

Legit if you're ugly but nt you will still live a fulfilling life surrounded by friends who genuinely care abt you.

 

[autisticsoy]

Legit if you're ugly but nt you will still live a fulfilling life surrounded by friends who genuinely care abt you.

depends if you're really ugly it will probably hurt your socializing skills as well.

 

[victimcel]

depends if you're really ugly it will probably hurt your socializing skills as well.

Nah I saw plenty of short fat ugly dudes have friendgroups that have lasted for several years.

 

[Thaway]

Nah, that's also just based on looks. Close life long friends are reserved for people that are atleast proper mid tier in looks, usually above average. Even then, in modern times friendships are usually frail.

 

[victimcel]

Nah, that's also just based on looks. Close life long friends are reserved for people that are atleast proper mid tier in looks, usually above average. Even then, in modern times friendships are usually frail.

Nah I've seen plenty of short fat uggos with close friends. NT >>> everything else

 

[Blackpill Monk]

If you’re ugly and non-NT, you’re playing life on nightmare difficulty.

We are a living dead

 

[victimcel]

Being NT is all about listening to nigger rap, doing weed and watching the newest hollykike slop.

It's much much deeper than that.

 

[Blackpill Monk]

I saw 5'3 fat guys form close friendships with a huge social circle.

NTpill is real and brutal

 

[victimcel]

NTpill is real and brutal

Yep u witness that everyday in all facets of life while lookspill is mostly concentrated to relationships and has a minor effect on other factors.

 

[Blackpill Monk]

Yep u witness that everyday in all facets of life while lookspill is mostly concentrated to relationships and has a minor effect on other factors.

Exactly, I have personally observe it infinite times , a manlet with average face have greater social connection, social life and even girlfriend just because he is a hyper-NT. While non-NT neurodivergent like us, suffered and humiliated at every aspect

 

[Thaway]

Nah I've seen plenty of short fat uggos with close friends. NT >>> everything else

Lol yeah right. The short fat uggos with the tight nit friend circles based on their personality.

There is this website for you it's called reddit, you'd probably fit in there a lot better.

 

[victimcel]

Lol yeah right. The short fat uggos with the tight nit friend circles based on their personality.

There is this website for you it's called reddit, you'd probably fit in there a lot better.

Pissed off at me because I said something that invalidates your views, only a foid can be that emotional.

 

[outerdarkness]

We are a living dead

 

[terrafyen]

I’m 5’3, autistic and ugly . I’m a repellant to everybody, nobody wants to talk to me or be friends with me.

 

[andrej]

brutal

 

[sirlancelot]

Being NT is all about listening to nigger rap, doing weed and watching the newest hollykike slop.

 

[gloom&doom]

Being short and non NT makes it hard too, no average-height normie would want a 5'0 neurodivergent in their friend group, I can't even imagine it

 

[Blackpill Monk]

I’m 5’3, autistic and ugly . I’m a repellant to everybody, nobody wants to talk to me or be friends with me.

Brutal, same happened to me

 

[SupremeSaint]

If you’re ugly and non-NT, you’re playing life on nightmare difficulty.

 

[victimcel]

Being short and non NT makes it hard too, no average-height normie would want a 5'0 neurodivergent in their friend group, I can't even imagine it

Bro I can't make any close friends at 5'8 and non nt, imagine how much more difficult would getting girls be!

 

[Sir Silentium]

I've never had someone I could really call my friend, that isn't on .is.

I would say being overly neurodivergent is worse off in making and sustaining friendships rather than looks.

 

[victimcel]

I've never had someone I could really call my friend, that isn't on .is.

I would say being overly neurodivergent is worse off in making and sustaining friendships rather than looks.

Many times more worse.