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Discussion Why should I not let myself go?

Have you let yourself go?

  • No. Life is bad enough as it is, I don't want to add health issues on top of everything else

    Votes: 15 28.8%
  • Yes. No reason to live healthy. Incel life is full of pain. We need all the good feels we can get

    Votes: 19 36.5%
  • Somewhat. I try to keep a balance between health and junkfood pleasure

    Votes: 18 34.6%

  • Total voters
    52
NEB.feelsdevil

NEB.feelsdevil

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My weight fluctuated in the past year. I've been fatter (95kg), I've been skinnier (70kg).

When I was fatter, I still had thin wrists and poor frame. When I was skinnier, I still had manboobs. I look like shit no matter what.

The other day my mom bought me a Snickers, a Mars, salty crackers and a 1,25l Coca Cola bottle. I ate everything in one sitting and I felt good for a bit. So why should I not do this every day?

What's the point of me trying to eat healthy, to be active? To increase my life length? For what? I will never have children to guide them, to see them become successful. I will never have a wife to grow old together. Genuinely, why not junkfood turbomaxx and go out early?
 
I get to enjoy goyslop 24/7. I don't have to stay alive for anyone. Life will always suck so why torture my body for a physique nobody will ever appreciate
 
I think competitive racing would be fun, at least. Gotta be fit for that, and it's a place to put hours into
 
I've just added a third option to the poll, a middle of the road option.

I swear I tried to work out daily 30 min in the past, to be active, to eat more healthy. But I got no results. I only wasted my time. There's just no point.

The only scenario I see where you should live healthy as an incel is if you already are a gymcel and you've put a lot of effort into gymmaxxing. You'd not want it to go to waste.

But in my case, I am skinny fat. I have a klinefelter syndrome body. It's not worth keeping it healthy. I view my body as my enemy, it's working against me. It's the worst it can possibly be. It tries its hardest to make myself as unfuckable and ugly as possible.
 
I think competitive racing would be fun, at least. Gotta be fit for that, and it's a place to put hours into
Yeah, its a great cope for inkwells with some money and nothing to lose.
 
There's no point caring about your health as an inkwell. It is essentially a slow, long-term way of suicide which we want. Living heathy is only worth it if you are part of soyciety.
 
Cuz you don’t want to end up in the hospital struggling to breathe and being put on a ventilator with a hole in your neck barely clinging to life while surrounded by hateful cunt nurses that are trying to kill you as well languishing in your own piss and shit at times (until they finally clean you) because you literally can no longer walk (to the shitter) from being out cold for so long in a probable medically induced coma that your leg muscles have atrophied.

That said I’m not saying that goyslop is not a good cope (because it is) but at the same time you shouldn’t go overboard with it and fully let yourself go as I had done and heed and succeed is doing now because it seldom ends well as very nasty and potentially debilitating health issues will almost inevitably start creeping up and then you’re at the mercy of normie medical staff who very well may want you dead.

So if you’re going to slop maxx maybe do it responsibly by having binge sessions where you closely monitor your weight and when you gain a certain amount like say 5-10 through 20 pounds stop at that point and reverse course dieting or starve maxxing until you lose it all and then start all over again.

Alternatively you could slop maxx while becoming very active regularly so you speed up your metabolism and can burn most of your calories off thereby increasing the time and amount that you can slop maxx before having to diet and starve maxx all over again to take all the newly gained weight off.

Good luck!
 
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Cuz you don’t want to end up in the hospital struggling to breathe and being put on a ventilator with a hole in your neck barely clinging to life while surrounded by hateful cunt nurses that are trying to kill you as well languishing in your own piss and shit at times (until they finally clean you) because you literally can no longer walk (to the shitter) from being out cold for so long in a probable medically induced coma that your leg muscles have atrophied.

That said I’m not saying that goyslop is not a good cope (because it is) but at the same time you shouldn’t go overboard with it and fully let yourself go as I had done and heed and succeed is doing now because it seldom ends well as very nasty and potentially debilitating health issues will almost inevitably start creeping up and then you’re at the mercy of normie medical staff who very well may want you dead.

So if you’re going to slop maxx maybe do it responsibly by having binge sessions where you closely monitor your weight and when you gain a certain amount like say 5-10 through 20 pounds stop at that point and reverse course dieting or starve maxxing until you lose it all and then start all over again.

Alternatively you could slop maxx while becoming very active regularly so you speed up your metabolism and can burn most of your calories off thereby increasing the time and amount that you can slop maxx before having to diet and starve maxx all over again to take all the newly gained weight off.

Good luck!
:feelshehe:
Okay, maybe going overboard with it is a bad idea.

I just felt particularly good yesterday eating junkfood and I wanted to recreate the feeling.
 
It's tempting, but you can't let yourself go, personally I know I won't ever get women, but being ultra skinny makes me feel good about my body and myself in general, I like the feeling of being light weight, it feels so comfy and easy to move, I could outrun anyone, my bmi is 17, I know borderline anorexic and I got there through anorexic behavior, but I'm careful to not lose weight now and I watch what I eat hard, I like how my bones, ribs etc look, the veins popping all that shit, I have the luxury of not having klinefelter but I also have wide hips I won't lie but I don't care, I love being this body weight cause it looks good, it also looks great in clothes and i can basically wear anything. When I think about why I first went this hard and lost weight, it's to 'leanmaxx' and get women, but it didn't work and it felt brutal, but nonetheless I felt like the pros outweigh the cons for me, you also get idk, some feeling of superiority when you walk around and you're the skinniest dude in the room meanwhile everyone struggles with weightloss, idk how to explain it it's a mindset, that being said food is such a great cope but it really isn't worth it cause you'll hate your looks even more and also risk the health and developping food dependencies, but imo it's not so bad to let yourself go every once in a while and pig out.
So I picked three, lest you wanna be anorexic for some body goals shit, then you gotta forget food and cope some other way.
 
I eat as much junk food as possible. It’s a good cope and I will probably die at 40 from a heart attack, so it’s a win-win situation
 
being ultra skinny makes me feel good about my body
I wish I was either skinny or fat.

Being skinny fat is the absolute worst. I just wish I had consistency and normally-proportioned body parts.
 
I've just added a third option to the poll, a middle of the road option.

I swear I tried to work out daily 30 min in the past, to be active, to eat more healthy. But I got no results. I only wasted my time. There's just no point.

The only scenario I see where you should live healthy as an incel is if you already are a gymcel and you've put a lot of effort into gymmaxxing. You'd not want it to go to waste.

But in my case, I am skinny fat. I have a klinefelter syndrome body. It's not worth keeping it healthy. I view my body as my enemy, it's working against me. It's the worst it can possibly be. It tries its hardest to make myself as unfuckable and ugly as possible.
if you have time do 20 hours a week on the bike. You'll go crazy fit and fast
 
I wish I was either skinny or fat.

Being skinny fat is the absolute worst. I just wish I had consistency and normally-proportioned body parts.
Is it impossible to become skinny in your case? I mean even if you went low bodyweight at like 17bmi shit like that you'd still have those problems?
 
Is it impossible to become skinny in your case? I mean even if you went low bodyweight at like 17bmi shit like that you'd still have those problems?
It is impossible for certain parts of my body to become skinny.

My arms are perma skinny no matter how much weight I gain.
 
it's hard to find meaning in a life where you're not wanted by anyone, and viewed as undesirable, sometimes by yourself as well.
personally I've let myself go. I know that i will die/rope before 30, it doesn't matter what I do in the present.
the only thing I refuse to do is take the jewish antidepressants they prescribed me
 
if you have time do 20 hours a week on the bike. You'll go crazy fit and fast
I know for certain I will never find the motivation to do something like this.

Maybe if I had at least solid normie looks, I would have gymmaxxed, knowing it might actually increase your chances with a low tier Becky, maybe...
 
I know for certain I will never find the motivation to do something like this.

Maybe if I had at least solid normie looks, I would have gymmaxxed, knowing it might actually increase your chances with a low tier Becky, maybe...
When you're on the bike, it's you vs others and yourself. You won't be thinking about girls at all because they're not a part of what you're doing.

The cardio ceiling is very high, so you can appear to be lightyears ahead of normal people. It's beneficial and impressive when you can run to retrieve stuff
 
It is impossible for certain parts of my body to become skinny.

My arms are perma skinny no matter how much weight I gain.
pain, suffering even, idk what to tell you without sounding bluepilled, i think you should try and get to that anorexic level, see how it looks..if it's bad then just be at some weight that is comfortable and hides the flaws as much as possible.
best of luck
 
I eat burger and milkshake every day and smoke 5 joints or 6 or even 7 . And I put extra cigarette in to save money and die faster. Don't be a pussy. We have nothing to lose anyway. Soon I go to prison and I don't get to enjoy anything anyway. The only place I will ever get respect is on the streets of gaza when I get there to fuck Jews up. And I will die fast and miserably there anyway but it will be worth it to stick it to the nigger Jews with all their money and corruption. So a few burgers and chcolates every day isn't gonna do shit. My drug dealer friends used to eat 3 takeaways a day every day and they weren't dying.
 
i lost 90lbs and maintained it for 2 years but now that im out of school ive gained like 75lbs back
mmmm yummy food tastes so good
 
My weight fluctuated in the past year. I've been fatter (95kg), I've been skinnier (70kg).

When I was fatter, I still had thin wrists and poor frame. When I was skinnier, I still had manboobs. I look like shit no matter what.

The other day my mom bought me a Snickers, a Mars, salty crackers and a 1,25l Coca Cola bottle. I ate everything in one sitting and I felt good for a bit. So why should I not do this every day?

What's the point of me trying to eat healthy, to be active? To increase my life length? For what? I will never have children to guide them, to see them become successful. I will never have a wife to grow old together. Genuinely, why not junkfood turbomaxx and go out early?
LDAR and cope with degeneracy
 
idk I enjoy being slim + light so I stick with it

but if people don't enjoy it then they don't have to bother ig. no point acting like an ed foid for no reward other than becoming a freak like them jfl

still in general people will find some or other reason to hate you and ignore any virtues you might have, so there's no point in wasting time with shit they fixate on but you don't care abt
 
Why would I want to live long if I've always hated life?
 
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OMG I WANT TO COPE HARD WITH THIS :lasereyes: :lasereyes:
I NEED TWO OF EVERYTHING HERE IM SO HUNGRY
 
Why would I want to live long if I've always hated life?
This is a question I don't know the answer to.

I've recently went back to my old job. It's a bit better, I feel like I have a purpose again. But it's also stressful as fuck.

And I keep asking myself, what's the point of this? Why would I do this? Why not just rope?

I think it's mostly for my parents. You can definitely tell they are proud of me now that I'm no longer a neet (have been for like 8 months). I will never be able to get a woman.

But at least I could make my parents somewhat proud of me.
 
Keep a balance, but never be a health freak
 
This is a question I don't know the answer to.

I've recently went back to my old job. It's a bit better, I feel like I have a purpose again. But it's also stressful as fuck.

And I keep asking myself, what's the point of this? Why would I do this? Why not just rope?

I think it's mostly for my parents. You can definitely tell they are proud of me now that I'm no longer a neet (have been for like 8 months). I will never be able to get a woman.

But at least I could make my parents somewhat proud of me.
My parents deep down hate me. I've never had their support even since I bought my own house at age 21. I have two older brothers that are 10 and 12 years older than me. Tell me I was planned.
 
My parents deep down hate me. I've never had their support
Absolutely brutal. I'm sorry, mang :feelsbadman:

I got lucky and have good parents. Literally the only good thing in my life. The only reason I haven't fully given up on life yet
 
I just eat and eat and eat and NEET and NEET and NEET
 
Its all subjective my nigga. For one man clean living is the onl logical option for the next man indulgant pleasures are the obvious conclusion.

Do wahtever makes YOU happy. Just live with the consequences of whatever choices YOU make because every coin has 2 sides
 
Cuz you don’t want to end up in the hospital struggling to breathe and being put on a ventilator with a hole in your neck barely clinging to life while surrounded by hateful cunt nurses that are trying to kill you as well languishing in your own piss and shit at times (until they finally clean you) because you literally can no longer walk (to the shitter) from being out cold for so long in a probable medically induced coma that your leg muscles have atrophied.

That said I’m not saying that goyslop is not a good cope (because it is) but at the same time you shouldn’t go overboard with it and fully let yourself go as I had done and heed and succeed is doing now because it seldom ends well as very nasty and potentially debilitating health issues will almost inevitably start creeping up and then you’re at the mercy of normie medical staff who very well may want you dead.

So if you’re going to slop maxx maybe do it responsibly by having binge sessions where you closely monitor your weight and when you gain a certain amount like say 5-10 through 20 pounds stop at that point and reverse course dieting or starve maxxing until you lose it all and then start all over again.

Alternatively you could slop maxx while becoming very active regularly so you speed up your metabolism and can burn most of your calories off thereby increasing the time and amount that you can slop maxx before having to diet and starve maxx all over again to take all the newly gained weight off.

Good luck!
Brutal hospitalpill
 
I've come to the personal conclusion that there is no reason not to let yourself go.

Preserve myself for what? My parents are old and will die soon. I don't speak with my extended family. I don't have friends. I will never have my own family. Will never have a wife to grow old with. Will never have children to guide and mentor.

I already have poor overall health issues. Respiratory problems from covid remnants that have become progressively worse.

There is no future for me. No joy except greasy junk food, alcohol and cigarettes. Why not go all the way in?

If it shortens my lifetime, I can only see that as a positive. I don't want to grow old alone and die in cold
 
Not to let myself go for women? They already are not attracted to me and never were, never will.

The funny thing is this is a huge deal in the feminism idelogy. Valuing women just for their bodies is considered objectification. Women are encouraged by feminists to be ugly, not to shave, not to lose weight.

Meanwhile, women are the biggest objectificators ever. We are nothing but pieces of meat to women. If you're ugly, you're discarded and thrown to the trash. If you're attractive, you do anything to them and they will let you.
 
Don’t one you won't see your dick when youre pissing two diabetes three you’ll run out of breathe easily and also add to the health cholesterol high blood pressure diabetes then You’ll need pharmaceuticals for them you’ll even be more depressed and you’ll just dig a hole you wont be able to get yourself out of

I’ll tell you this every once in a while just bloatmaxx but dont do it every single day
 
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ive gone from 120lbs to 170 in the past few months and plan on reaching at least 220 this year
 
I leanmaxx partly 'cause I just can't stand the skinny fat reflection I see in the mirror if I don't.
 
I decided to let myself go in the past few months.

I tried to keep a balance, but what's the point? It's not going to get better. I am 31 yo KHHV with nothing to show for it.

I'm now the fattest I've ever been at 92 kgs. There is no winning either way. If you deprive yourself of the pleasure of delicious junkfood, you will have an even more miserable life with no pleasures as an incel. If you let yourself go, you're going to be even more ugly and feel worse, but it's not like I had any chances with women in the first place. It makes no difference in the end.

Video games and movies have been my main copes my entire life, but nowadays it takes like 10 years for a new AAA game to come out and in most cases it's full of DEI anti-male shit. Same thing with movies. Marvel has fallen hard. Star wars, even worse.

No other copes. There is nothing to hope for.
 
I also tried to starve myself in the past. There is no winning for me. I look ugly either way. Can't get rid of these fucking disgusting manboobs.

No matter what I do, I am undesirable to women. I am not human. I can't be human because I haven't been able to experience basic human gestures like normal humans do. I'm still KHHV at 31.
 
My weight fluctuated in the past year. I've been fatter (95kg), I've been skinnier (70kg).

When I was fatter, I still had thin wrists and poor frame. When I was skinnier, I still had manboobs. I look like shit no matter what.

The other day my mom bought me a Snickers, a Mars, salty crackers and a 1,25l Coca Cola bottle. I ate everything in one sitting and I felt good for a bit. So why should I not do this every day?

What's the point of me trying to eat healthy, to be active? To increase my life length? For what? I will never have children to guide them, to see them become successful. I will never have a wife to grow old together. Genuinely, why not junkfood turbomaxx and go out early?
Healthy food is gay
 
I stuff my face i dont care anymore

Getting fat improved my frame my shoulders grew wider back and chest became broad
 
I just felt particularly good yesterday eating junkfood and I wanted to recreate the feeling.
There's nothing bad about eating junk food. You just have to burn those calories my romaninigga. Buzău may look like the most depressive town ever but just outside the city you have very nice nature. Just take a train to Pârscov or whatever other place you feel like is worth visiting and do a hike to a monastery or something.

Sure it can be a little depressing to hike alone but it is usually worth it and that way you can keep eating junkfood and being less fat. the idea is to find a hobby that makes you lose weight, I personally like hiking, but you could do cycling or whatever makes you happy. Being in poor health will limit the amounts of copes you have at your disposal. How will you be able to play that super nice AAA game if you are in dialysis? or how will you be able to eat junkfood if you can not get your ass to McWagies? Do you have money to pay pakistanis to bring it up to you?
 
No, but my parents do :feelsokman:
How old are your parents? Will they last for ever? I do not think so.
But since you have such supportive parents then there is nothing wrong with your lifestyle currently. However it is important to think about the future, you probably live in an apartment but even indoors you can jump a rope or something. It'll look retarded but who cares? You are in your own room.
 

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