I bet a lot of guys in here at least are a 5-6/10 like I am so you probably can get matches but girls usually never respond and they most certainly NEVER text first. I bet you guys have it like me, sometimes trying and get back in the game (unless you have accepted the LDAR) So I will try and message with these matches but it takes SO MUCH effort and is completely soul crushing to be rejected again and again and it drains all self-esteem and self-worth out of the body and just leaves one feel like an insignificant sub human and why wouldn´t you think that? Trying to get with your looksmatch, girls below and even ugly girls you have ZERO sexual attraction to still to be rejected by them.
Again the keyword here is effort: As a sub8 man you have to put so much effort into these conversations/approaches and because we aren´t Chad we can´t just ask for sex immediately like my brother can for instance no we have to build a conversation up from scratch with one girl at a time and it can take days before you figure out you got ghosted or she isn´t really interested and then you can try a new one. This requires so much effort!
And to the guys who might say that I should try and text more at once well I am not a dating expert or like a factory that can just randomly text several girls at once with zero emotions, I am a romantic so I can´t just emotionless text several girls and wait for rejection.
So after maybe a few weeks of trying texting girls who all reject me (or you) you will feel so worthless it´s like a Sims game where you happiness meter or validation meter will go far below zero where it was a zero before but now it´s so low that you need a break and that is when people might call you volcel because you´re no longer pursuing to get with girls but what they don´t realize is that you have been rejected by so many girls even girls you´re not into they might even repulse you and a man can only take so many hits at once because where the good looking guys will get validation, adoration and all kinds of affection from girls we the rejected are actually losing validation and affection points where Chad will receive them every time he gets positive attention from girls.
TL;DR:
Basically the normie-tier looking guys 5-6/10 will try and text or approach a number of girls but since they haven´t received any validation or affection from girls they´re basically at zero and when they keep trying to get with girls but are getting rejected by ALL of them then the validation and affection meter goes below zero so that is when these guys will need a break and can be labeled volcel because they no longer are pursuing girls and might even have accepted the LDAR because they are so starved from any validating affection that they can´t get up again.
Again the keyword here is effort: As a sub8 man you have to put so much effort into these conversations/approaches and because we aren´t Chad we can´t just ask for sex immediately like my brother can for instance no we have to build a conversation up from scratch with one girl at a time and it can take days before you figure out you got ghosted or she isn´t really interested and then you can try a new one. This requires so much effort!
And to the guys who might say that I should try and text more at once well I am not a dating expert or like a factory that can just randomly text several girls at once with zero emotions, I am a romantic so I can´t just emotionless text several girls and wait for rejection.
So after maybe a few weeks of trying texting girls who all reject me (or you) you will feel so worthless it´s like a Sims game where you happiness meter or validation meter will go far below zero where it was a zero before but now it´s so low that you need a break and that is when people might call you volcel because you´re no longer pursuing to get with girls but what they don´t realize is that you have been rejected by so many girls even girls you´re not into they might even repulse you and a man can only take so many hits at once because where the good looking guys will get validation, adoration and all kinds of affection from girls we the rejected are actually losing validation and affection points where Chad will receive them every time he gets positive attention from girls.
TL;DR:
Basically the normie-tier looking guys 5-6/10 will try and text or approach a number of girls but since they haven´t received any validation or affection from girls they´re basically at zero and when they keep trying to get with girls but are getting rejected by ALL of them then the validation and affection meter goes below zero so that is when these guys will need a break and can be labeled volcel because they no longer are pursuing girls and might even have accepted the LDAR because they are so starved from any validating affection that they can´t get up again.
