I was considering writing my own point of view on Hitler in this thread, but I would pretty much just be repeating your words. I think these replies from you are truly a gem in this thread. You pointed out many critical points, not only explaining why he is well-liked, but also, in your second reply, what is wrong with our society. Normies, women, and society as a whole treat incels like total garbage. When one of them goes ER, they act so surprised and despise us even more. They never understand the absolute horror of a life that person went through before he went ER; no, they just see the result, and he's the bad guy, end of story. I probably hate shallowness as much as I hate people who mindlessly consume mainstream opinions and never question them.
Hitler indeed tried to show people a different picture of how society could look. Not everything he did was right, but considering how society has turned out and where we currently stand, I believe that if Germany had not lost the war, society would not be in such decay.
Look at the things that the elites don't want you to support or ideas that they truly hate:

Anti-feminism

Conservationism

Any ideas protecting old morals or traditions

Heterosexual men

Slut-shaming

Family unit

Blackpill truths

Hitler and national socialism
Basically, you can name any sane thing that contributes to a stable and prosperous society, and it's there. They hate every single one, and the only things they support are degenerate ideas that are completely destroying society and making people absolutely miserable. One of the things they absolutely despise is Hitler; you can't talk about him, you can't say anything good he did, you will go to jail if you support anything remotely based on his ideas. Do you want to tell me that his presence on a list of things that are forbidden in our society is mere coincidence? Sorry, but I'm not going to buy it for a second. As you said, "the victor writes the history," and it has a lot to do with it. A lot of people hate him not because they know anything about him but simply because they were taught to hate him via the education sector and media. And being the shallow creatures they are, they don't question it.